A positive self-image has little relationship to our material

Hear the words of Ezra Taft Benson, spoken with clarity and conviction: “A positive self-image has little relationship to our material circumstances.” In this simple sentence lies a truth that has outlived empires and will outlast kingdoms. For he reminds us that dignity, confidence, and worth are not the offspring of wealth, nor are they chained to outward possessions. True strength of the soul is not measured in gold or garments, but in the quiet assurance of knowing who you are, regardless of what you own.

To carry a positive self-image is to walk with head lifted, even when pockets are empty. It is to recognize that one’s value rests not upon the approval of men nor the accumulation of treasures, but upon the eternal flame of character. Many have thought that prosperity would bring peace of mind, yet countless wealthy souls have drowned in despair, while those of humble means have lived with radiant joy. Benson teaches us that the mirror of self-worth reflects the spirit, not the purse.

History offers us shining examples. Consider Mahatma Gandhi, who clothed himself in the simplest garb, living in austerity while leading millions to freedom. His hut held little, his body owned almost nothing, yet his self-image was unshaken, rooted in truth and in his identity as a servant of justice. His confidence was not forged by material wealth but by inner conviction, and because of this, his influence spread across nations and generations.

So too, remember Abraham Lincoln, born in a log cabin, surrounded by poverty, and educated with but a handful of books. By worldly standards, he had nothing to boast of in his youth. Yet he cultivated within himself a positive self-image, seeing his mind and character as treasures greater than coin. From these humble beginnings, he rose to the highest office of his land, not because of riches, but because he believed in his own worth and purpose.

The meaning of Benson’s words is thus: material circumstances may shape the stage upon which we live, but they do not determine the greatness of the performance. A king dressed in silk may feel small within, while a peasant in rags may stand tall with unshakable dignity. Self-image is an inner fortress, built not by fortune but by faith, discipline, and the recognition that all human beings are endowed with value beyond measure.

The lesson for us is clear: do not tie your self-worth to fleeting possessions or circumstances, for they change as quickly as the wind. Instead, root your confidence in what endures—your integrity, your kindness, your courage, your faith. These cannot be stolen by thieves, nor eroded by poverty. A positive self-image is a crown that sits upon the head of anyone who dares to see themselves as more than what they own.

Practical wisdom calls us to three acts. First, cultivate gratitude daily, for it teaches you to see abundance even in simplicity. Second, measure your worth by your character, not by your possessions; ask yourself each night not “What did I gain?” but “Who did I become?” Third, lift the eyes of others, especially those burdened by lack, reminding them that their spirit is greater than their circumstance. In doing so, you build a world where dignity is honored above wealth.

So let it be remembered: a positive self-image springs not from material riches but from the recognition of eternal worth. Ezra Taft Benson’s words are a call to all generations: seek not your value in gold, but in the treasures of the heart. Live with the assurance that your worth cannot be diminished by poverty nor enlarged by riches, for it rests upon the unshakable truth that every soul is sacred, and every life has meaning beyond measure.