America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more

America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more

22/09/2025
03/11/2025

America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.

America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more
America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more

Host: The rain had just stopped, leaving the city glimmering under a thin veil of mist. Streetlights reflected off the wet asphalt, turning every puddle into a trembling mirror. Inside a small diner on the corner of Fifth Avenue, steam rose from coffee cups like muted smoke. Jack sat by the window, his jacket draped over the chair, grey eyes fixed on the faint neon glow outside. Across from him, Jeeny stirred her tea, the spoon making soft, rhythmic circles — as if she were trying to stir her thoughts into clarity.

The silence between them was the kind that held weight — not of anger, but of reflection.

Jack: “You ever notice,” he said, his voice low, husky, “how in this country, everyone pretends the game is fair? That if you fail, it’s because you didn’t try hard enough?”

Jeeny: “You’re talking about the quote again,” she said softly. “Toby Young’s words — ‘America thinks of itself as a meritocracy, so people have more respect for success and more contempt for failure.’

Host: The neon sign outside flickered, its blue light washing over their faces like a passing wave.

Jack: “Yeah. That’s exactly it. The American myth — that success is earned, and failure is deserved. It’s a nice story, isn’t it? Makes the winners feel moral and the losers feel guilty.”

Jeeny: “Or maybe it just means people still believe in effort, Jack. That dreams can still be built, even from nothing. Isn’t that what makes the country beautiful?”

Host: A truck rumbled past outside, the sound vibrating through the windowpane. Jeeny looked at Jack, her brown eyes steady, almost defiant.

Jack: “Beautiful?” He gave a short, sharp laugh. “You think it’s beautiful that we idolize billionaires and shame the homeless? That we call it ‘grit’ when someone works three jobs just to survive? No, Jeeny. It’s cruel, not beautiful. It’s a religion of success — and the poor are the heretics.”

Jeeny: “You make it sound like ambition itself is a sin.”

Jack: “Ambition isn’t the problem. The lie behind it is. Look at the Great Recession — millions lost their homes, their savings. You think that was because they didn’t work hard enough? Or because the system was rigged by the same people who now lecture about personal responsibility?”

Host: Jack leaned back, his chair creaking. A thin smile — half sarcasm, half sadness — crossed his face.

Jeeny: “You always talk about systems,” she said, her voice rising slightly. “But systems are made of people. Individuals. Choices. If everyone just blamed the structure, nothing would ever change. You want justice, but you don’t believe in effort — that’s your contradiction.”

Jack: “And you think effort alone saves anyone?”

Jeeny: “Sometimes, yes. Sometimes effort is the only thing people have left.”

Host: The tension between them thickened like fog. The diner had grown quiet, save for the faint hum of the refrigerator and the distant echo of a siren.

Jack: “You ever been to the Bronx, Jeeny? I mean really been there — in the schools, the housing projects. Kids with brains, with drive — but no connections, no networks, no inheritance. You think they just have to ‘believe’ harder? ‘Work’ longer?”

Jeeny: “You sound like there’s no hope.”

Jack: “I’m saying hope without justice is just decoration.”

Host: Jeeny’s hand trembled slightly as she lifted her cup. The tea had gone cold, but she took a sip anyway, as if to hold the moment in her mouth before speaking.

Jeeny: “You forget that some people really did climb — not because of who they knew, but because they refused to give up. Take Oprah Winfrey — a Black woman from rural poverty who became one of the most powerful voices in media. She didn’t inherit a network; she built one.”

Jack: “Yeah, and every system needs its token miracles. Oprah’s story is the exception that keeps the illusion alive. For every one like her, there are millions who never make it out — and it’s not because they’re lazy. It’s because the ladder they’re told to climb doesn’t have the same number of rungs for everyone.”

Jeeny: “Maybe. But without the belief that it’s possible, even for one — people would stop climbing altogether. That belief keeps us moving.”

Host: Outside, the rain began again — slow, measured, like the heartbeat of the city. Jack’s eyes softened, though his voice stayed steady.

Jack: “You call it belief. I call it seduction. A nation built on the myth of merit is like a casino telling you that every spin is fair. The house always wins, Jeeny — but it keeps you playing.”

Jeeny: “So you’d rather people stop playing? Stop believing entirely? That’s not liberation, Jack — that’s despair.”

Host: Jack looked away. His reflection shimmered in the window, fractured by droplets of rain.

Jack: “Maybe despair is more honest.”

Jeeny: “Honesty doesn’t feed the soul. If all we ever do is expose the lie, we’ll forget why people need the dream. You think a single mother working night shifts needs a lecture about capitalism? No. She needs the belief that her child might have it better.”

Host: Jeeny’s voice cracked slightly. Her fingers gripped the edge of the table, knuckles pale. Jack watched her in silence — his grey eyes flickering with something like regret.

Jack: “You always make it sound so human. I envy that.”

Jeeny: “It is human. Maybe meritocracy isn’t real in the way textbooks claim, but striving — that’s real. When we respect success, it’s not always because we love power. Sometimes it’s because we see a reflection of that striving.”

Jack: “And the contempt for failure?”

Jeeny: “That’s the tragedy of it. We confuse failure with worth. But even that contempt is born of fear — fear of falling ourselves. Maybe Americans worship success not out of arrogance, but out of insecurity.”

Host: For a long moment, neither spoke. The rain grew heavier, its sound filling the space between them. A waitress passed by, setting a fresh cup of coffee beside Jack without a word. The steam rose between them like a fragile truce.

Jack: “So you’re saying the myth is necessary? That people need to believe in fairness even when it doesn’t exist?”

Jeeny: “Yes. Until we can make it real.”

Host: Jack leaned forward, his voice almost a whisper now — like someone confessing rather than arguing.

Jack: “You know, when I was a kid, my father used to tell me that hard work was everything. He worked himself to the bone — and when the factory closed, he said it was his fault. He believed the myth so deeply he blamed himself for being discarded.”

Jeeny: “I’m sorry.”

Jack: “Don’t be. He wasn’t wrong to believe — he was wrong to believe the system cared.”

Host: Jeeny reached across the table, her hand resting lightly over his. The gesture was small, but it cut through the fog like light through a storm.

Jeeny: “Maybe that’s what we have to fix — not the belief in merit, but the meaning of it. Make it about dignity, not dominance. About giving everyone the same start, not pretending we already have.”

Jack: “And what would that take?”

Jeeny: “Humility. From the winners. Compassion. From the system. And courage — from the rest of us.”

Host: Outside, the rain began to ease, turning into a fine mist. The neon sign flickered one last time before fading into the dark.

Jack: “You make it sound possible.”

Jeeny: “It has to be. Otherwise, what’s left?”

Host: Jack gave a slow nod, his eyes softening as the tension in his shoulders unwound.

Jack: “Maybe you’re right. Maybe the myth isn’t the enemy — maybe it’s the reminder that we still want to believe in fairness, even when it’s not here yet.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. Belief isn’t blindness, Jack. It’s endurance.”

Host: The diner’s lights dimmed as the city outside began to sleep. Jack and Jeeny sat in quiet understanding, two shadows reflected in the window, their faces half in light, half in darkness — like two halves of the same truth.

As the first light of dawn crept over the horizon, it caught the edge of Jack’s coffee cup, scattering a faint golden shimmer across the table.

The world, though imperfect, was awake again.

Toby Young
Toby Young

British - Journalist Born: 1963

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