As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult

As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult

22/09/2025
03/11/2025

As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.

As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult
As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult

Host: The sunset glowed like a burnt-orange ember over a suburban playing field, stretching long shadows across the dry grass. The air carried the faint scent of dust, sweat, and cut turf — the lingering perfume of childhood summers. Somewhere in the distance, a group of kids shouted and laughed, their voices echoing like memory across the open space.

Jack sat on a low bench, an old football at his feet, tracing the faded white stitches with his fingers. Jeeny stood nearby, leaning on the goalpost, her hair catching the late light, her gaze warm and knowing.

Behind them, the world hummed softly — sprinklers hissing, a dog barking, the sky beginning its slow transition to indigo.

Jeeny: “Adam Goodes once said, ‘As a kid we moved around a fair bit as a family. It was difficult to make friends but sport helped. Once people saw you kick a football it broke down barriers. Instead of being the new skinny black kid you were the kid everyone wanted on their team.’

Jack: “That’s a hell of a truth, isn’t it? The way talent can buy you a place where acceptance won’t.”

Host: His voice was quiet, almost reverent, like someone speaking to a memory they recognized. He picked up the ball, spinning it slowly in his hands.

Jeeny: “It’s also kind of heartbreaking, though. That you have to prove your worth to belong.”

Jack: “That’s the world, Jeeny. Nobody gives you belonging. You earn it — or you fake it till it sticks.”

Jeeny: “But it shouldn’t be that way. People shouldn’t have to score goals or hit notes or ace tests just to stop being invisible.”

Jack: “Yeah, but they do. It’s how humans build walls — and then pretend they’re clubs.”

Host: The light deepened, painting their faces in amber. The laughter of children from across the field grew louder, and a football rolled near their feet. A boy ran toward it — tall, wiry, dark-skinned, maybe twelve. His eyes darted to them nervously before he bent to pick it up.

Jack smiled and nudged the ball toward him with his boot.

Jack: “Nice control, kid.”

The boy grinned, nodded shyly, then sprinted back toward his game.

Jeeny watched him go, her eyes soft but thoughtful.

Jeeny: “That’s what Goodes meant, isn’t it? That one small act — one goal, one kick — can shift how people see you. Suddenly you’re not an outsider anymore. You’re part of the rhythm.”

Jack: “Yeah. But only as long as you keep performing. You stop kicking goals, and they start remembering the things that made you ‘different.’”

Jeeny: “So you think acceptance is conditional?”

Jack: “Always has been. People say ‘we’re all equal,’ but what they mean is, ‘we’re all equal once you prove yourself useful.’”

Host: Jeeny stepped forward, her hands in her pockets, her expression pensive.

Jeeny: “Maybe that’s why sport matters. It’s the one place where effort can rewrite perception — even if only for a moment. The field doesn’t care where you’re from, what you look like, or what you believe. It only cares if you show up.”

Jack: “You sound like someone quoting a sermon from a coach.”

Jeeny: “Maybe coaches are the last philosophers left. They teach fairness in motion.”

Jack: “You ever think about what it means for someone like Goodes? A black kid in white fields, learning to survive by running faster than prejudice?”

Jeeny: “I think about it all the time. That’s why his words matter. He wasn’t just breaking into sport — he was breaking into belonging. Every goal he scored was a conversation with a world that didn’t want to listen.”

Host: A long pause settled. The wind shifted, rustling the leaves of nearby trees. Jack looked at the horizon — a smudge of red bleeding into blue.

Jack: “You ever been the outsider?”

Jeeny: “Always. Different language, different skin, different silence. You learn early that people fear what doesn’t mirror them.”

Jack: “So what did you do?”

Jeeny: “I found rhythm. Not sport — words. Poetry. Once I could put my loneliness into something beautiful, people stopped calling it loneliness.”

Jack: “You made art out of survival.”

Jeeny: “We all do, Jack. That’s what sport is too — art made from endurance. A way to shout, ‘I belong,’ without using words.”

Host: The floodlights flickered on, bathing the field in artificial daylight. The kids kept playing, their movements fluid and free, like nothing existed outside those white painted lines.

Jack watched them, quiet now, his jaw tightening slightly.

Jack: “You know, my dad used to say sport was life in miniature — you win, you lose, you fight, you fall. But he never mentioned how much it hurts just to get on the field.”

Jeeny: “Maybe because he never had to prove he belonged there.”

Jack: “Yeah.” — He exhaled, long and heavy. “Privilege makes the ground feel flat. For everyone else, it’s uphill.”

Jeeny: “And yet they keep running.”

Host: Jeeny’s voice softened, but her words struck like quiet thunder. Jack looked at her, the edges of his cynicism melting into something gentler.

Jack: “That’s what makes it beautiful, isn’t it? The running. The trying. The fact that someone like Goodes didn’t just survive it — he turned it into power. Into pride.”

Jeeny: “Yes. Because belonging earned through grace is stronger than belonging given through pity.”

Host: A whistle blew in the distance. The game ended. The children jogged off the field laughing, their shoes kicking up small clouds of dust. The boy from earlier waved in their direction before disappearing into the group.

Jeeny smiled.

Jeeny: “See? Even now, that’s how bridges are built — one game at a time.”

Jack: “Yeah. Maybe belonging’s not something you find. Maybe it’s something you build.”

Jeeny: “And rebuild, when it breaks.”

Host: The sky was indigo now, dotted with the first brave stars. Jack picked up the ball again, balancing it on his knee before setting it down.

Jack: “You think that’s what Goodes learned? That connection’s not a gift — it’s a practice?”

Jeeny: “Exactly. You don’t wait to be included — you move, you play, you show heart. And in doing that, you make the world a little less afraid.”

Host: The field lights dimmed slowly, one by one, until only the last pole remained lit — casting long, peaceful shadows across the grass.

Jack and Jeeny sat quietly, the silence between them full of something human and whole.

Jack: “You know, maybe that’s the beauty of it — that the game never really ends. It just changes shape.”

Jeeny: “And the ones who keep playing — they change the world.”

Host: The camera would have pulled back then — two figures sitting on an empty field beneath the fading glow of the last light. In the distance, the laughter of children lingered like a hymn to hope.

And over that sound, Adam Goodes’s truth resonated softly through the night:

Belonging isn’t given — it’s created. Every kick, every effort, every act of grace is a bridge across the silence.

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