Don't fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The
Don't fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of a life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.
Host: The pier stretched into the dark water, its wooden planks slick with the night’s mist. A faint hum of the sea filled the air, steady, eternal, like the sound of the world breathing. Lanterns hung from the posts, their light trembling in the wind — small, defiant stars trying not to be extinguished.
Jack stood at the end of the pier, his hands shoved deep into his coat pockets, his face turned toward the horizon that had long since swallowed the sun. Beside him, Jeeny leaned on the railing, her hair blowing across her face, her eyes calm but not without their storms.
It was a night that felt unfinished, like a question that refused to be answered.
Jeeny: “Louis Boone once said, ‘Don’t fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of a life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.’”
Jack: “Yeah… easy words. But fear’s a hard habit to break.”
Host: The waves slapped gently against the pier’s pillars, the sound like applause from ghosts of every choice never made.
Jack: “You ever notice how people talk about failure like it’s noble? Like it’s a badge you earn. But it’s not. It’s a wound. You don’t forget the feeling of falling — not when you’ve built something with your whole damn self and watched it crumble.”
Jeeny: “Maybe. But the wound’s not the tragedy, Jack. The refusal to risk another is.”
Host: She turned, her gaze meeting his — sharp, steady, but full of warmth that could melt the ice off any truth.
Jeeny: “You think Boone was preaching comfort? He was warning us. You don’t regret the things that fail. You regret the ones you never had the courage to start.”
Jack: “You say that like you’ve never been afraid.”
Jeeny: “I’m terrified all the time. But I’d rather be bruised than hollow.”
Host: A gust of wind rushed past, tugging at their coats, rattling the lanterns. The sea shifted, churning as though even it understood the argument.
Jack: “You make it sound simple. Just jump, risk it, try again. But what about when trying means losing what little you have left?”
Jeeny: “Then you lose it knowing it was yours to begin with. Better to go down fighting for your own dream than watching someone else live it.”
Host: She walked closer to him, her voice low now, almost a whisper, but every word carried like truth whispered by the wind.
Jeeny: “Do you remember that little garage you wanted to turn into a recording studio? You had blueprints. You had drive. What stopped you?”
Jack: “Reality.”
Jeeny: “No. Fear. You were afraid of failing at something you loved. So you settled for succeeding at something you didn’t.”
Jack: “It’s not that simple. I had responsibilities. Bills. People depending on me.”
Jeeny: “And what about you, Jack? When did you stop depending on yourself?”
Host: His jaw tightened. The sea breeze bit at his skin, but it was her words that stung more. He looked out into the water, where the reflections of the lanterns trembled like broken stars — fragile, fleeting, beautiful.
Jack: “You know, failure’s easy to romanticize when it’s not yours.”
Jeeny: “I’ve failed plenty, Jack. I’ve been laughed at, rejected, broke, and alone. But at least I wasn’t numb. At least I could still feel the weight of my own choices.”
Host: She stepped closer, her face now just a breath away from his, the light catching in her eyes like embers refusing to die.
Jeeny: “You think safety will save you. But it won’t. It’ll just keep you comfortable enough to forget what you’re capable of.”
Jack: “And what if I’m not capable of much anymore?”
Jeeny: “Then prove it. Try and fail. But don’t rot in the waiting.”
Host: The wind rose, scattering leaves across the pier, howling like it wanted to shake the words into him. Jack’s eyes hardened, but the corner of his mouth twitched — a reluctant smile, or maybe a crack in the armor.
Jack: “You really believe every risk is worth it?”
Jeeny: “Not every risk. Just the ones that scare you the most. Those are the ones that mean something.”
Host: The sea below crashed, sending spray over their faces, cold, cleansing, alive. Jack laughed, quietly, shaking his head.
Jack: “You always have to win the argument, don’t you?”
Jeeny: “No, Jack. I just hate watching someone lose to their own fear.”
Host: A silence followed — not heavy, but thoughtful, filled with the kind of understanding that doesn’t need to be spoken.
Jeeny: “Boone was right. ‘Could have,’ ‘might have,’ and ‘should have’ — they’re ghosts that never leave you alone. They haunt every quiet moment. And they don’t die until you start doing.”
Jack: “And what if it’s too late?”
Jeeny: “Then it’s the perfect time to begin. Because when you’ve got nothing left to lose, that’s when you’re finally free.”
Host: A ship horn echoed across the bay, long and low, carrying the sound of departure, of something moving forward.
Jack: “You know what scares me most? It’s not failing. It’s waking up one day and realizing I didn’t even try.”
Jeeny: “Then that’s your answer. That’s your fire.”
Host: The sky began to clear, revealing faint stars, their light trembling but real. Jeeny reached out, touched his arm, a small, steady gesture that said more than any speech ever could.
Jeeny: “It’s not too late to rewrite the story, Jack. You’ve just got to stop editing out the risks.”
Jack: quietly “You really think trying again matters?”
Jeeny: “I think it’s the only thing that does.”
Host: The waves crashed, the lanterns swayed, and the pier seemed to breathe with them — alive, awake, waiting.
Jack looked at the sea one more time, then at Jeeny, and finally — at himself, in the reflection of the water below. The man looking back wasn’t defeated, just unfinished.
Jack: “Alright then. Maybe it’s time.”
Jeeny: “For what?”
Jack: “For something I can fail at.”
Host: She smiled, and for a moment, the whole night seemed to brighten, the fear lifting like the last fog off the water.
Jeeny: “Then let’s make sure when they tell your story, Jack, it never starts with ‘He almost…’.”
Host: The lanterns flickered, the sea stretched endlessly before them, and as the first light of dawn began to bleed into the horizon, one truth rose like the tide — quiet, certain, eternal:
That the saddest life is not the one that fails,
but the one that never dared to begin.
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