Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much

Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much

22/09/2025
29/10/2025

Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.

Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much numbs every workaholic's emotions differently. Sometimes overwork numbs depression, sometimes anger, sometimes envy, sometimes sexuality. Or the overworker runs herself ragged in a race for attention.
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much
Each person's drive to overwork is unique, and doing too much

Host: The office was nearly dark, save for the cold light of a single computer screen casting its pale glow across Jack’s face. The clock on the wall blinked 11:47 p.m., its red digits silent but accusing. Papers lay scattered, coffee cups stacked like miniature monuments to exhaustion.

Outside, the city exhaled — rain on the windows, neon reflections trembling across the glass.

Jeeny stood by the door, a coat draped over her arm, her eyes tired but steady.

She had been waiting. Watching.

Jeeny: “You said you’d leave by nine.”

Jack: (without looking up) “I did. Just didn’t say which nine.”

Jeeny: “You’re impossible.”

Jack: “No — just committed.”

Host: Her footsteps echoed softly on the tiles as she walked toward him. The room smelled of burnt circuits and stale ambition.

Jeeny: “Arlie Russell Hochschild once said — every person’s drive to overwork is unique. It numbs a different emotion each time. Depression, anger, envy… even loneliness.”

Jack: (chuckling dryly) “Sounds poetic for a sociologist.”

Jeeny: “It’s not poetry, Jack. It’s diagnosis.”

Host: The rain tapped harder now, as if to underline her words. Jack finally looked up, his eyes shadowed, the kind of eyes that had seen too many nights like this one.

Jack: “You think this is about numbing something? I work because it’s what I’m good at. It’s the only thing that makes sense.”

Jeeny: “That’s exactly what addicts say.”

Jack: (leaning back, defensive) “Addiction? Come on, Jeeny. Work isn’t a drug. It’s survival. I have clients, deadlines, bills. You think the world slows down for feelings?”

Jeeny: “No. But you’ve stopped feeling entirely. You’ve replaced emotion with efficiency. Pain with productivity.”

Host: Her voice was soft, but her words landed heavy, like small stones against glass.

Jack: “Maybe that’s the point. Feelings get in the way. Anger, disappointment, shame — they don’t finish reports or win contracts. Work does.”

Jeeny: “And when it’s done, what do you win, Jack? The company’s praise? Or just another night alone in front of a glowing screen?”

Jack: “You don’t understand. Some of us can’t afford to stop. You stop moving, you start sinking.”

Jeeny: “That’s not motion, that’s drowning with style.”

Host: The light flickered, the hum of the computer fan filling the silence. The rain blurred the city lights, turning them into bleeding streaks of color — beautiful, distant, unreachable.

Jack: “You talk like I’m broken.”

Jeeny: “I talk like you’re numb. There’s a difference. Broken things can heal. Numb ones forget they’re alive.”

Jack: “So what are you saying? That I should just quit? Let life crumble because I’m tired?”

Jeeny: “No. I’m saying learn to stop before the crumbling happens. Overwork doesn’t build character, Jack — it buries it. Every late night steals something small from you. Piece by piece, until you can’t remember what peace even feels like.”

Host: She moved closer, her shadow joining his on the floor, both long and blurred beneath the fluorescent light.

Jack: (smirking faintly) “You sound like one of those mindfulness podcasts.”

Jeeny: “Maybe they got something right. Hochschild said overwork numbs emotions differently — for some, it numbs depression; for others, it’s envy or anger. Tell me, Jack — what’s yours?”

Jack: (quietly) “What makes you think I know?”

Jeeny: “Because people always know what they’re running from. They just call it something else.”

Host: He looked down, hands trembling slightly on the keyboard. The screen light drew hard lines across his face, carving the fatigue into something nearly sacred — the face of a man who had mistaken purpose for punishment.

Jack: “Maybe it’s anger. Maybe it’s… emptiness. I don’t know. I just know that when I work, it shuts everything up. The noise. The thoughts. The what-ifs.”

Jeeny: “And when the work stops?”

Jack: “Then it all comes back. Louder.”

Jeeny: “That’s not peace, Jack. That’s avoidance with a salary.”

Host: The clock ticked toward midnight. A small storm rolled outside, lightning flashing through the window for an instant — white, blinding truth.

Jeeny: “You think running yourself ragged is noble, but all it does is hide the wound instead of healing it. You’re not chasing success — you’re racing against silence.”

Jack: “You’re wrong. I love what I do.”

Jeeny: “No, you love the numbness it gives you. You love the illusion that control equals meaning.”

Jack: “You don’t understand what it’s like to need to matter. To prove you’re not invisible.”

Jeeny: “Of course I do. But you don’t prove that by disappearing into your work.”

Host: Jeeny’s tone cracked slightly, the kind of fracture that comes when truth cuts both ways. Jack turned away, his shoulders stiff, his breathing shallow.

Jack: “I’m not like you. You find purpose in people. I find it in what I build.”

Jeeny: “And when you stop building?”

Jack: “Then I fall apart.”

Host: She walked toward the window, watching the rain cascade down the glass like tears from a sky too tired to cry properly.

Jeeny: “That’s the tragedy of the overworker. They mistake collapse for death, and rest for failure. But the truth is, even machines burn out when they’re left running too long.”

Jack: “So what’s your cure then? Meditation? Vacation? A good cry?”

Jeeny: “Honesty. You can’t heal what you won’t name.”

Host: He exhaled, a sharp, uneven sound — not quite a sigh, not quite surrender.

Jack: “You think overwork numbs anger. Maybe that’s true. Maybe I’ve been angry for so long I forgot where it started.”

Jeeny: “Maybe it started when you realized the world doesn’t reward goodness — only output.”

Jack: “And you still believe it should?”

Jeeny: “I believe that being human should matter more than being productive.”

Host: The words hung heavy, each syllable a quiet rebellion against everything the world demanded.

Jack: (after a long silence) “You know… when I was a kid, my father worked two jobs. He used to fall asleep at the dinner table. I thought he was strong. Now I wonder if he was just tired.”

Jeeny: “Maybe both. Strength and exhaustion often look the same.”

Jack: “I don’t want to end up like that. But here I am.”

Jeeny: “Then stop before you do. The Phoenix doesn’t rise by working harder, Jack. It rises by burning out and choosing to begin again.”

Host: He looked up, eyes red but alive — a man facing the quiet cost of his own drive. The rain eased, and the city lights softened into a kind of tender glow, like the world forgiving itself for one more day.

Jack: “Maybe I don’t need to rise yet. Maybe I just need to stop falling.”

Jeeny: “That’s a start.”

Host: She smiled, a fragile but honest thing, and reached to turn off his computer. The screen dimmed, taking the blue light with it. The room fell into shadow, but it was the first true darkness — not emptiness, but rest.

Outside, the rain stopped. Inside, the hum of overwork finally faded, leaving behind only the steady breathing of two people learning that survival wasn’t measured in hours worked — but in moments reclaimed.

The camera pulled back slowly, catching the final image — Jack and Jeeny, silhouettes framed by the quiet glow of the city, the night finally still.

And as the scene dissolved, Hochschild’s truth echoed like a heartbeat between them:

Each person’s overwork is their own anesthesia —
and the cure begins the moment they remember what pain was for.

Arlie Russell Hochschild
Arlie Russell Hochschild

American - Educator Born: January 15, 1940

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