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Booker T. Washington, the son of bondage who rose to become a teacher of nations, spoke with the clarity of one who had walked the hard road of life: “Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him.” This is not merely a statement about leadership — it is a law of the soul. For men and women are not shaped in comfort and ease, but in the weight of responsibility and in the warmth of trust. To entrust another is to call forth their dignity; to burden them with duty is to awaken their strength.

The ancients knew this truth well. In Sparta, boys were tested from youth, not because their elders despised them, but because they believed strength was born from responsibility. In Athens, too, young citizens were given a place in the assembly, taught to speak and to decide, so that they might grow into men capable of governing themselves and their polis. Responsibility was not seen as a punishment, but as a fire that tempers the iron of character. And paired with it was the sacred gift of trust, for no leader is truly formed without being told: I believe you are capable.

Washington himself was living proof of this wisdom. Born into slavery, he knew what it was to live in a world where no responsibility was given and no trust was offered, for the slave was denied both dignity and choice. Yet when freedom came, he discovered the profound truth that those who are trusted with responsibility rise. In building Tuskegee Institute, he placed responsibility upon his students, asking them not only to study but to build with their hands the very classrooms they learned in. By giving them trust, he gave them power — the power to believe in their own ability to shape their lives.

History offers another example in the life of Abraham Lincoln. As president during America’s darkest hour, he placed immense responsibility upon his generals and his cabinet, often choosing men whose opinions clashed with his own. Yet because he trusted them with duty, many rose to greatness. Ulysses S. Grant, once overlooked, was given responsibility by Lincoln, and in turn, he proved himself the steadfast general who carried the Union to victory. It was Lincoln’s trust that uncovered Grant’s hidden strength.

Children of tomorrow, hear this: the greatest gift you can give another is not wealth, nor flattery, nor indulgence, but responsibility and trust. To shield others from duty is to keep them weak; to distrust them is to keep them small. But when you hand them the burden of work, the weight of decision, and the assurance of your belief, you awaken their nobility. They may stumble, but in rising they will grow. And they will remember forever that someone believed in them when they doubted themselves.

The lesson is clear: if you would lead, then entrust. If you would raise others, then give them responsibility, not merely words. Parents, trust your children with tasks that honor their potential. Leaders, entrust your people with duties that stretch their abilities. Friends, give one another the sacred gift of confidence. In so doing, you will not only help others — you will bind them to you with loyalty and love.

Practical action flows from this wisdom: begin each day by asking, Whom can I trust today? Give a task, a responsibility, a decision, even if small, to another. Let them know your faith in them. And in your own life, when responsibility is placed upon you, do not shrink, but embrace it as the sign that you are seen, that you are worthy, that you are being called to rise. For in responsibility and trust lies the path to strength, honor, and greatness.

So let it be spoken: “Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him.” These are not mere words, but the secret of building men and women of character. Trust awakens the heart; responsibility strengthens the spirit. And together, they forge lives that shine with dignity and leave behind legacies that endure.