Food is not your best friend or enemy.

Food is not your best friend or enemy.

22/09/2025
03/11/2025

Food is not your best friend or enemy.

Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.
Food is not your best friend or enemy.

Host: The neon lights of a small 24-hour diner flickered against the wet asphalt, painting the night in patches of red and blue. Outside, rain slid down the windows like melting glass, blurring the faces of passing strangers. Inside, the air was warm and heavy with the scent of coffee, fried onions, and something both familiar and sad.

A jukebox in the corner played a slow, nostalgic tune — half melody, half memory.

At a corner booth, Jack sat hunched over a half-eaten slice of pie, his grey eyes reflecting the light like dim steel. Across from him, Jeeny stirred her coffee slowly, watching the swirl of cream dissolve into brown clouds. Both looked tired — not from the night, but from the weight of something unsaid.

Jeeny: “You know what Bethenny Frankel once said? ‘Food is not your best friend or enemy.’ I’ve been thinking about that.”

Jack: (snorts softly) “That sounds like something a celebrity nutritionist would say on a talk show. People romanticize food too much. It’s just fuel, Jeeny. Like gasoline for a car.”

Jeeny: (gently) “And yet, no one writes poems about gasoline.”

Host: The rain outside tightened, each drop striking the window like the ticking of an impatient clock. The waitress, a ghost in pink uniform, passed by without a word. Steam rose from their mugs, curling like breath made visible.

Jack: “That’s because food’s just another addiction. People give it meaning to justify their lack of control. They call it comfort, nostalgia, love. But really, it’s just chemistry — sugar spikes, dopamine hits. A slow way to lie to yourself.”

Jeeny: “Maybe. But sometimes lies are the only way we remember warmth. My mother used to make soup every time I was sick. I don’t remember the medicine, but I remember the soup. The smell, the sound of the ladle, her hand brushing my forehead. You tell me that’s just chemistry?”

Jack: “It’s memory. Not the soup — her.”

Jeeny: “But the soup was her, Jack. Her care made it real. Food carries the people we’ve lost, the times we felt safe. It’s not just something we consume — it consumes us, too.”

Host: Jack shifted, his chair creaking softly. He looked down at his pie, as if the pastry itself was demanding an answer. The lights from a passing car cut across his face — half shadow, half flame.

Jack: “You talk about food like it’s sacred. But what about the people who use it to destroy themselves? The ones who starve to feel in control, or eat until they can’t feel anything at all? For them, food is the enemy. It’s war.”

Jeeny: “I know that war, Jack. We all fight it, in some way. But that’s why the quote matters. Food isn’t our enemy. It’s not a weapon — it’s just a mirror. It reflects what we can’t say out loud.”

Jack: “So what does your coffee say about you?”

Jeeny: (smiles faintly) “That I’m still trying to stay awake in a world that makes me tired.”

Jack: (half a laugh) “And this pie says I’m still pretending to be fine.”

Host: The diner lights flickered, humming in low, electrical sighs. The rain softened to a whisper. For a moment, everything seemed suspended — like the world itself had paused to listen.

Jeeny: “You see, food is honest in a way people aren’t. You can tell a lot about someone by how they eat. Whether they savor, rush, avoid, or hide. It’s a language.”

Jack: “A language of guilt, mostly.”

Jeeny: “Or of need. Even the guilty are just hungry for something — affection, peace, forgiveness. The body speaks when the heart can’t.”

Jack: “And yet we punish it. We turn every meal into judgment. Calories, carbs, macros — people whisper those words like prayers to a god that doesn’t forgive.”

Jeeny: “That’s the tragedy, isn’t it? Food becomes the battlefield for everything we don’t want to face — control, love, shame, desire. We pour our wars into our plates.”

Host: Jack leaned back, hands rubbing his temples. The jukebox changed tracks — an old tune, faintly melancholic. The kind of song that knows the taste of loneliness.

Jack: “When I was twelve, my mom used to leave me dinner on the counter. She worked nights. Sometimes she’d write a note — ‘Eat while it’s warm.’ I never did. I’d wait up for her, let it go cold, just to make her feel guilty when she came home.”

Jeeny: (softly) “That’s cruel.”

Jack: “Yeah. But I wanted her to know I needed her more than the food.”

Jeeny: “And now?”

Jack: “Now I just eat cold dinners.”

(silence falls — heavy, fragile, human.)

Host: The rain outside began again, soft but relentless. Jeeny reached across the table, her hand hovering over Jack’s, not touching, just close enough for warmth to be possible.

Jeeny: “Maybe that’s what Frankel meant. Food isn’t our friend or enemy. It’s a reminder — of what we want, what we’ve lost, what we still hunger for. It’s never the food itself that hurts us. It’s what we make it mean.”

Jack: “So you’re saying the problem isn’t the pie — it’s me?”

Jeeny: (smiles sadly) “The pie’s innocent, Jack. Always has been.”

Host: Jack looked down at the half-eaten slice, the crust soft from neglect. For a moment, he seemed smaller — not the sharp-tongued cynic, but a man quietly tired of fighting invisible things.

Jack: “You think it’s possible to make peace with it? With food, with… all of it?”

Jeeny: “Yes. But peace isn’t a diet, Jack. It’s forgiveness. You eat, not because you’ve earned it — but because you’re alive.”

Jack: “And when it feels like punishment?”

Jeeny: “Then that’s when you need to eat most — to remember you’re still human.”

Host: The waitress returned with the check, leaving it silently on the table. Steam rose again from Jeeny’s mug; the coffee had been refilled without her noticing. Jack stared at the rain — now a gentle shimmer across the street, where neon signs reflected like broken dreams.

Jeeny: “You know, in every culture, sharing food means trust. It’s the first peace treaty, the first act of love. Even prisoners share bread. Maybe that’s the truth hiding in Frankel’s words — food isn’t a friend or enemy because it’s older than both. It’s simply a bridge.”

Jack: “A bridge over what?”

Jeeny: “The emptiness.”

Host: The diner grew quiet. Even the jukebox had stopped, leaving only the hum of the refrigerator and the steady breathing of rain. Jack finally lifted his fork, taking one slow, deliberate bite of pie — not to fill himself, but to feel something.

Jack: “Not bad.”

Jeeny: “It’s never the taste that matters. It’s the choosing.”

Host: She smiled, and for a brief, fragile instant, there was no war between them — no guilt, no hunger, no ghosts. Only the soft warmth of a shared moment in a world that never truly stops hurting.

Outside, the rain eased. The neon sign flickered, steadied, and held. The window glass reflected them both — two tired souls, learning that nourishment wasn’t always about the body.

Sometimes, it was the heart’s quiet way of saying: I’m still here.

And for tonight, that was enough.

Bethenny Frankel
Bethenny Frankel

American - Businesswoman Born: November 4, 1970

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