For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being

For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being

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For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.

For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being
For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being

Host: The library was almost empty, its rows of old books glowing faintly under the yellow light of ancient lamps. The air smelled of paper, dust, and the faint sweetness of decay — like memory itself. Through tall windows, rain streaked down in silver threads, distorting the city lights outside into trembling reflections.

Jack sat at a wooden table, surrounded by open volumes — philosophy, science, history — his coat folded over the back of his chair, his hands pressed to his temples as if holding in a storm. Jeeny stood near the far end of the aisle, her fingers tracing the spines of old books with quiet reverence. The room hummed with the stillness of thought.

Jack: “Benjamin Franklin once said — ‘For having lived long, I have experienced many instances of being obliged, by better information or fuller consideration, to change opinions, even on important subjects, which I once thought right but found to be otherwise.’

He lifted his gaze, eyes shadowed by fatigue. “You know what that sounds like to me? Regret with good manners.”

Jeeny turned, her eyes bright in the lamp’s glow.
Jeeny: “Or humility disguised as wisdom.”

Host: The rain intensified outside, the sound of it pattering softly against the tall windows like fingers tapping for attention.

Jack: “Humility? You call changing your mind humility? I call it instability. We spend our lives trying to stand for something — a belief, a principle — and then we’re supposed to rewrite the script every time new information arrives?”

Jeeny: “That’s exactly what growth is, Jack. Life keeps revising the truth, and wisdom is just the courage to edit your old convictions.”

Jack: “Or cowardice — the inability to stay firm. Franklin might’ve changed his opinions, but maybe he just got tired of defending them.”

Jeeny: “Or maybe he realized that defending the wrong truth is a form of arrogance.”

Host: Jeeny’s voice was calm, but her posture had changed — her shoulders squared, her expression alive with conviction. Jack leaned back, the old chair creaking beneath his weight, the faint smile of challenge curling at his lips.

Jack: “You really think people can change their minds that easily? Look at the world — religion, politics, culture. No one listens. They only dig deeper trenches.”

Jeeny: “That’s because people mistake certainty for strength. But Franklin — he understood the opposite. He wasn’t afraid to let the ground move beneath him. You call that weakness? I call it evolution.”

Jack: “Evolution is messy. You can’t keep rethinking your core. Eventually, you have to stand for something — even if it kills you.”

Jeeny: “Yes, but you don’t have to die ignorant.”

Host: The lamplight flickered, its glow wavering across their faces. The rain outside seemed to echo their argument, shifting between whisper and roar.

Jeeny: “Franklin lived long enough to see his own beliefs contradict themselves. He thought slavery was acceptable once, then saw the truth through others’ eyes. He admitted he was wrong. That’s not regret, Jack — that’s redemption.”

Jack: “And yet redemption doesn’t erase the damage done. Changing your mind after the harm is convenient, isn’t it?”

Jeeny: “No. It’s necessary. Because refusing to change only guarantees more harm.”

Host: Jack stood, pacing near the window, the reflection of city lights painting his figure in fractured color. The rain distorted his outline, like the very idea of him was melting into uncertainty.

Jack: “You talk about change like it’s noble, but it’s terrifying. Every time you change what you believe, a piece of your identity dies. You become… rootless.”

Jeeny: “Roots aren’t meant to strangle the tree, Jack. They’re meant to hold it while it grows. And sometimes, they have to break for the tree to survive.”

Host: The silence that followed was thick — not hostile, but heavy with thought. The clock on the far wall ticked with the measured rhythm of centuries, each second a reminder that time doesn’t ask permission to move forward.

Jack: “You make it sound poetic. But tell me this — what happens when you change your opinion so many times you don’t recognize yourself anymore?”

Jeeny: “Then maybe you’ve finally met who you really are.”

Jack: “Or maybe you’ve just lost track of the story.”

Jeeny: “No. Maybe you’ve learned to read more than one version of it.”

Host: The wind pressed against the glass, moaning faintly — a sound that felt almost human. Jeeny walked slowly toward him, stopping just behind his shoulder. The faint reflection of her face appeared beside his in the window — one clear, one blurred.

Jeeny: “Do you remember when you used to believe in absolutes?”

Jack: “I still do.”

Jeeny: “No, you believe in armor. You mistake certainty for safety.”

Jack: “And you mistake fluidity for freedom.”

Jeeny: “Because sometimes they’re the same thing.”

Host: She placed her hand gently on the back of his chair. The lamp behind her flickered again, the shadows trembling across the floor like old ghosts remembering movement.

Jeeny: “Franklin didn’t say change was easy. He said it was inevitable. The mind, like the body, weakens if it stops moving.”

Jack: “So doubt is exercise?”

Jeeny: “Yes. And conviction without doubt is decay.”

Host: Jack turned toward her, his eyes now less defiant, more searching — as though he was trying to see the edge of something invisible.

Jack: “You know, I used to think admitting I was wrong meant losing. My father taught me that — said strength meant never bending. I watched him die defending a belief that had already betrayed him.”

Jeeny: “Then maybe the bravest thing you could do is bend.”

Jack: “And if I break?”

Jeeny: “Then you’ll finally be honest.”

Host: The rain slowed to a soft drizzle. The world outside blurred into muted grays and faint lights — neither night nor morning, just the in-between. Jeeny’s hand remained on the chair. Jack sat down again, the weight of their conversation settling around them like dust.

Jeeny: “Do you know what I love about Franklin’s words?”

Jack: “What?”

Jeeny: “That they admit imperfection. To live long enough to contradict yourself — that’s not failure, Jack. That’s the privilege of growth.”

Jack: “And yet, the world still hates the undecided.”

Jeeny: “Then maybe the undecided are the ones still brave enough to think.”

Host: The light from the window caught the rim of Jeeny’s cup — a brief shimmer like dawn breaking through darkness. Jack reached for one of the open books, tracing a line of ink with his finger — something about the evolution of ideas, the fragility of truth.

He closed it slowly, almost reverently.

Jack: “You know… I used to think wisdom meant having answers. Now I’m starting to think it’s just learning how to live with better questions.”

Jeeny smiled — small, quiet, luminous.
Jeeny: “Exactly. The older you get, the less you know — but the more you understand.”

Host: The clock struck one. The sound echoed through the library like the tolling of some distant understanding.

Outside, the rain had stopped. The air was clear. The city lights shimmered in a thousand tiny reflections — each one a different version of the same truth.

Jack leaned back, his voice low but sincere:
“Maybe Franklin wasn’t confessing regret. Maybe he was celebrating the courage to keep being wrong.”

Jeeny: “And the grace to admit it.”

Host: The lamps dimmed slightly as the power shifted — or perhaps it was the dawn rising behind the clouds. Their faces, tired but softened, glowed with the faint light of comprehension — two souls realizing that even certainty needs renewal.

And as the first golden thread of morning broke through the glass, touching the pages of the old books with living light, the library seemed to exhale — as though centuries of thought had been waiting for that simple, humble truth:

That wisdom is not the triumph of being right,
but the quiet, ongoing art of changing one’s mind.

Benjamin Franklin
Benjamin Franklin

American - Politician January 17, 1706 - April 17, 1790

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