Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which

Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which

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Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.

Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice.
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which
Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which

Host: The café was crowded, alive with the sound of espresso machines, laughter, and the rattle of cups. The windows were fogged, the air sweet with coffee and rain. Outside, the city dripped, the neon lights bleeding color onto the wet pavement.

Jack sat at the corner table, his coat collar up, his grey eyes fixed on the steam curling from his cup. Jeeny, across from him, was smiling faintly, watching him the way one watches a stormexpecting thunder, hoping for sunlight.

Host: The clock ticked above them, steady, unbothered, while the world outside seemed to tilt and shift.

Jeeny: “You know, you could smile once in a while, Jack. People might actually believe you’re human.”

Jack: “I smile. Just not on command.”

Jeeny: “There’s a difference between smiling and having humor, Jack. You can’t just fake it. David Seabury once said, ‘Good humor isn’t a trait of character, it’s an art which requires practice.’ Maybe you should start practicing.”

Jack: “Art, huh? You make it sound like a discipline, like painting or music. Humor isn’t something you train for. Either you’re born with it or you’re not.”

Jeeny: “That’s where you’re wrong. Humor is how we survive. It’s a skill. Like breathing through pain. You learn to laugh, or you break.”

Host: The barista called out an order, the name muffled under the buzz of chatter. Rain streaked the window, and a man outside ran with a newspaper over his head, half-laughing, half-cursing.

Jack: “So now laughter is a weapon?”

Jeeny: “Not a weapon — a shield. The only one that doesn’t kill what it protects.”

Jack: “That’s poetic. But I don’t buy it. People use humor to hide. Comedians, for example — most of them are depressed. You ever see the interviews with Robin Williams, or the documentary about Richard Pryor? Their laughter was a mask. So much for your shield.”

Jeeny: “Yes, but that’s exactly my point. They learned how to turn pain into light. They crafted something beautiful out of agony. That’s not masking; that’s alchemy. The art Seabury was talking about.”

Jack: “And how did that end for them, Jeeny? You call it art, I call it self-destruction dressed as wit. The funniest people I know are the ones who can’t stand to be alone.”

Jeeny: “Because the funniest people are the ones who feel most deeply. They’re not avoiding pain — they’re translating it.”

Host: The light from the window fell across their faces, splitting the room in half — one face in shadow, one in glow. The rhythm of their conversation was steady, intimate, like a song played quietly in the background of a storm.

Jack: “You think I don’t understand humor just because I don’t smile at everything?”

Jeeny: “No, I think you don’t practice it because you fear it. You treat humor like it’s frivolous, when it’s actually the purest intelligence.”

Jack: “Intelligence?

Jeeny: “Of course. It’s timing, awareness, connection. A good joke is a map through chaos — a way of saying, ‘I see how absurd this is, and I’m still here.’”

Jack: “So you’re saying humor is like philosophy, but with punchlines.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. It’s wisdom with a grin.”

Host: A couple nearby laughed, one of those careless, full sounds that momentarily lifted the entire room. Jack’s gaze shifted, softening as if the sound itself had touched him.

Jack: “You know, when my mother died, my uncle told me a joke at the funeral. Everyone was horrified, but somehow… I didn’t hate it. It made me breathe again. For a second, I wasn’t drowning.”

Jeeny: “That’s what I mean, Jack. That’s art. Good humor doesn’t mock pain — it releases it. It’s like cracking a window in a burning room.”

Jack: “Or maybe it’s just distraction. The human brain can’t handle grief 24/7, so it laughs to keep from collapsing.”

Jeeny: “Maybe. But even if it’s distraction, it’s still salvation. Every smile is a momentary rebellion against despair.”

Host: Her voice had changedsoft, urgent, as if she were trying to convince herself as much as him. Jack watched her, seeing the truth behind her words, the tremor that hid beneath her gentle tone.

Jack: “Who taught you to see it that way?”

Jeeny: “My brother. He used to joke even when he was sick. I once asked him why, and he said, ‘Because if I stop laughing, I’ll start dying faster.’”

Jack: “And did it help?”

Jeeny: “No. He still died. But the room stayed warm until the end.”

Host: The rain outside had stopped. The neon reflections blurred, the world now quiet, like it had just exhaled. Jack looked down, fingering his cup, thinking, measuring her words the way he always did — like they were weights, not wings.

Jack: “So good humor isn’t just art, it’s courage.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. It’s the courage to smile when you know how easily everything breaks.”

Jack: “Then maybe that’s why I never mastered it.”

Jeeny: “You haven’t practiced enough.”

Host: The corner of his mouth lifted, a half-smile, fragile, but real — the kind that comes from remembering something painful and choosing to stay anyway.

Jack: “You know, you might be right, Jeeny. Maybe humor is the only truth that doesn’t demand faith.”

Jeeny: “Or maybe it’s the only faith that doesn’t need proof.”

Host: A pause, a shared breath, the air lighter now. People laughed somewhere behind them, and this time, Jack joined softly, as if learning a new language.

Jeeny: “See? You’re getting it.”

Jack: “Don’t get used to it.”

Jeeny: “I won’t. But I’ll remember it.”

Host: The camera pulls back, framing them through the window, rain streaks catching the light like strings of glass. Inside, the two figures sit — one scarred, one luminous, both smiling now, however faintly.

Host: “Perhaps Seabury was right. Good humor isn’t born; it’s forged — from grief, from love, from the raw courage to laugh while the heart trembles. It’s not a gift of temperament, but a discipline of tenderness.”

Host: And as the lights flicker, and the rain returns, their laughter fades — not as noise, but as music, rising softly into the storm.

David Seabury
David Seabury

American - Psychologist 1885 - April 1, 1960

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