I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate

I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate

22/09/2025
21/10/2025

I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.

I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don't have.
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate
I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate

Host: The coffee shop was quiet in a way that felt deliberate — like silence had been chosen, not fallen into. The air smelled of espresso, wood, and rain drying on jackets. Outside, the city shimmered in the aftermath of a storm — puddles reflecting streetlights like small constellations.

Inside, the world seemed softer. The music was turned down low, almost apologetic, and people spoke in gentle tones or not at all. At the far corner table, Jack sat with a notebook open but untouched. His pen lay still across the page. His eyes followed the rhythm of hands moving nearby — a pair of women signing to one another, their conversation fluid, expressive, alive.

The door opened with a faint chime. Jeeny entered, shaking off her umbrella, her dark hair damp against her face. She spotted Jack, smiled, and made her way through the maze of tables.

She sat opposite him, setting down her cup, her eyes bright with thought.

Jeeny: softly “Shoshannah Stern once said — ‘I am fourth-generation deaf, which means everyone in my immediate family is deaf. So I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don’t have.’

Jack: nodding slowly, glancing toward the women signing nearby “That’s... beautiful, isn’t it? The idea of silence being full — not empty.”

Jeeny: smiling “Exactly. Most people think of silence as absence. But for her, it was presence — complete, fluent, shared.”

Host: The two women’s hands continued to move gracefully, the rhythm of their communication fluid and musical in its own right — a language that spoke without needing sound.

Jack: watching them thoughtfully “It’s ironic, isn’t it? We talk so much, but understand so little. And she — she didn’t need sound to connect. She was born into communication.”

Jeeny: “That’s what makes her story so powerful. Most deaf people are born into hearing families, which means they grow up surrounded by sound they can’t access. But she grew up in a world where language wasn’t something you had to fight for. It was hers, from the start.”

Jack: quietly “That must be what freedom feels like — being understood without translation.”

Host: The light shifted through the window as the rainclouds broke, spilling a soft silver across their table. Jeeny folded her hands around her cup, thoughtful.

Jeeny: “You know, accessibility isn’t just about ramps or captions. It’s about dignity — the right to participate fully in your own life.”

Jack: nodding “And she had that from birth. That’s rare.”

Jeeny: “And tragic that it’s rare. Communication shouldn’t be a privilege — it should be a human right.”

Jack: leans back slightly “You think we, the hearing world, take sound for granted?”

Jeeny: looking up from her coffee “Every second. We drown in noise and still forget to listen. Meanwhile, there are people whose silence is richer, deeper, more articulate than all our shouting.”

Host: A young man approached the counter to order. He signed his request to the barista, who responded smoothly in kind. There was no strain, no hesitation — only understanding. The exchange was silent, yet it vibrated with clarity.

Jack: watching “Look at that. No sound, no confusion. Just... connection.”

Jeeny: softly “Language at its purest.”

Jack: “Makes you wonder what else we’re missing — what we could understand if we stopped depending on noise to prove we’re alive.”

Host: A silence settled between them, but it wasn’t empty. It had weight — like the pause between heartbeats, like breath held in reverence.

Jeeny: “You know, Shoshannah Stern said something else once — that being deaf isn’t about lacking something, it’s about belonging to a different culture entirely. The Deaf community isn’t defined by what it doesn’t have, but by what it shares.”

Jack: quietly “A culture built on eyes, hands, empathy. No wonder it thrives.”

Jeeny: nodding “Yes. Every gesture carries intention. Every look means something. Imagine that kind of honesty — where every emotion has to be seen, not just heard.”

Jack: smiling faintly “It’s like a world without small talk. Only truth.”

Host: The café’s door opened again. A small gust of wind carried in the scent of rain and city. The two women who had been signing stood up to leave, their conversation still flowing as they walked out into the world — their words invisible, yet palpable.

Jeeny followed them with her gaze.

Jeeny: “What I love about her quote — about her story — is that it reminds us how environment shapes identity. She grew up surrounded by understanding, so she became whole. That’s the power of being seen — or in her case, signed to.

Jack: thoughtful “You think that’s what we’re all chasing, in our own ways? To be understood — completely, without having to explain ourselves?”

Jeeny: “Always. That’s the human hunger — to be mirrored back, to know you exist in someone else’s eyes.”

Jack: smiles faintly “And to think, she had that her whole life. Not because of privilege, but because her world spoke her language.”

Jeeny: “Yes. And that’s what makes her so extraordinary — not the silence, but the fluency within it.”

Host: The light outside turned golden now, the late afternoon sun returning after the storm. Dust motes drifted lazily in the air, each one glowing like a tiny planet. Jack leaned forward, elbows on the table.

Jack: “Maybe that’s the lesson — accessibility isn’t about making everyone the same. It’s about giving everyone space to be different, and still understood.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. Inclusion isn’t blending — it’s harmony. A chorus of differences, each with its own voice — or hand, or silence.”

Host: The café quieted further, the only sound now the faint hiss of the espresso machine. The world outside gleamed with rebirth, the storm’s residue sparkling under sunlight.

Jack: softly, almost to himself “You know what I love most about her words? Gratitude. She doesn’t talk about loss. She talks about gift. About growing up in a home where silence was never emptiness — it was language, it was love.”

Jeeny: smiling gently “That’s the difference between surviving your world and belonging to it.”

Jack: after a pause “And maybe that’s the real form of accessibility — not technology, not policy, but belonging.”

Host: She reached across the table and tapped her fingertips lightly against his — a silent punctuation, a gesture that said more than words could.

Outside, the city moved on, unaware of the quiet revolution happening in that little café — two people rethinking what it means to communicate, to understand, to belong.

And as the camera pulled back, leaving the window framed with light and rain-streaked glass, Shoshannah Stern’s words lingered — gentle, radiant, and defiant in their simplicity:

“I grew up always having 100 percent accessibility to language and communication, which was wonderful and something so many deaf people don’t have.”

Because language isn’t sound.
It’s connection.
It’s empathy shaped into motion,
understanding carved into silence,
and the realization that sometimes,
the truest conversations
are the ones spoken without a single word.

Shoshannah Stern
Shoshannah Stern

American - Actress Born: July 3, 1980

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