I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been

I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been

22/09/2025
05/11/2025

I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.

I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been one of my goals as a writer to portray the kind of marriages I've seen modeled in my family - my parents and grandparents, who all celebrated fifty-year anniversaries and well-beyond.
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been
I believe the wedding vows are sacred and precious, and it's been

Host: The evening light filtered through the curtains of a small-town church hall, soft and golden, wrapping everything in the quiet nostalgia of wedding rehearsals long past. Rows of empty chairs faced a simple wooden altar, and the faint scent of flowers lingered — roses, lilies, and time.

At the front, Jack stood in a black suit, his tie loosened, his hands folded behind his back. He looked at the altar not as a place of faith, but as a stage — the last honest one left.

Jeeny entered, holding a stack of papers — the script for a small-town wedding she was helping to plan. She walked quietly down the aisle, her heels soft against the wooden floor, her eyes tender, catching on Jack’s distant expression.

Jeeny: “You’ve been standing there for twenty minutes, Jack. You look like you’re about to cross-examine God.”

Jack: (half-smile) “Maybe I am. Or maybe I’m just wondering why people still make promises they know they can’t keep.”

Host: His voice was steady, but his eyes flickered with something brittle — a man trying to sound detached while drowning in remembrance.

Jeeny: “Because some people still believe vows mean something. Deborah Raney said that wedding vows are sacred and precious — that they’re the backbone of love that lasts fifty years. Don’t tell me you don’t believe in that.”

Jack: “Fifty years? I can barely keep a conversation alive for fifty minutes.”

Jeeny: (softly) “You used to believe in forever.”

Jack: “Forever’s a marketing word, Jeeny. Like ‘guaranteed happiness’ or ‘lifetime warranty.’ Love’s not built for contracts — it’s built for collapse.”

Host: A gust of wind from the open door stirred the flowers, scattering a few petals down the aisle like soft reminders of everything that fades.

Jeeny: “That’s a sad way to look at it.”

Jack: “No, it’s an honest way. You think the couples who made it to fifty years did it because of magic? No — they just outlasted disappointment.”

Jeeny: “You’re confusing endurance with emptiness. My grandparents were married sixty-two years, Jack. I watched them argue, laugh, cry, forgive. They didn’t survive marriage — they grew through it.”

Jack: “And how do you know they weren’t just afraid to leave?”

Jeeny: “Because they still held hands every morning. You don’t fake that.”

Host: The light dimmed, the sun slipping behind the trees outside, turning the room into a painting of shadow and memory. Jack walked slowly to one of the pews and sat, his hand tracing the grain of the wood.

Jack: “You know, my parents divorced after twenty-five years. They said it was mutual. It wasn’t. My mother cried for months; my father bought a boat. I was fifteen, and I learned that love expires the moment it’s taken for granted.”

Jeeny: “Maybe they forgot what vows mean. Not the words, but the heart behind them. It’s not about never falling apart — it’s about never walking away when you do.”

Jack: “You sound like a preacher.”

Jeeny: “No, like a believer.”

Host: Silence filled the hall, thick and warm. The cross above the altar caught the last of the light, a single beam glancing across Jack’s face — cutting through his cynicism just enough to reveal the hurt beneath it.

Jack: “You really think vows are sacred? In this world? Where marriages end faster than mortgages?”

Jeeny: “That’s why they’re sacred. Because they’re rare. Because they’re hard. Because they ask you to choose love every day when it’s inconvenient, imperfect, and unglamorous.”

Jack: “That sounds exhausting.”

Jeeny: “So does cynicism.”

Host: The clock ticked on the back wall. The sound echoed like an old heartbeat, measuring not time, but endurance.

Jack: “You know what I think? I think marriage used to work because people didn’t expect it to fix them. Now everyone wants a soulmate to save them from themselves.”

Jeeny: “Maybe that’s because people forgot what the word ‘vow’ means. It’s not a promise of happiness; it’s a commitment to stay even when happiness is gone.”

Jack: “You make it sound like a prison sentence.”

Jeeny: “Only if you see it as punishment. The strongest marriages aren’t built on fairy tales. They’re built on the ruins of pride — rebuilt, again and again.”

Host: Jeeny sat down beside him. The lamplight glowed against her dark hair, turning her face into a portrait of calm conviction.

Jeeny: “My father once told me, ‘Love isn’t fireworks — it’s tending the same flame after the fireworks fade.’ I didn’t understand it then. Now I do.”

Jack: “And what if the flame dies?”

Jeeny: “Then you light it again.”

Host: Jack laughed softly, not mockingly, but with a kind of reluctant admiration.

Jack: “You really believe in this, don’t you? All this talk about vows and endurance — it’s like you’ve built a cathedral out of two words: I do.”

Jeeny: “Maybe I have. And you — you’ve built a wall out of the same two words: I don’t.”

Jack: (after a pause) “I used to. Once. Before my wife left.”

Jeeny: “She didn’t leave because love died, Jack. She left because you stopped watering it.”

Jack: “You make it sound simple.”

Jeeny: “It’s not simple. But it’s worth it.”

Host: Jack’s eyes dropped, his hands tightening, knuckles pale. For a moment, the facade cracked, and grief — old, quiet, familiar — slipped through.

Jack: “You know, I remember our vows. I wrote them myself. ‘I will love you when laughter comes easily and when silence stays too long.’ I meant it. Every word.”

Jeeny: “Then why did it fall apart?”

Jack: “Because meaning something isn’t the same as living it. We loved like sprinters — fast, passionate, and done before the finish line.”

Jeeny: “Then maybe your story isn’t over. Maybe you can still believe in vows — not because you kept them, but because you still understand why they matter.”

Host: The church bell rang outside, a slow, echoing sound that filled the room like a reminder of time — relentless, forgiving.

Jack looked at Jeeny, his expression softening, his voice quieter now, almost reverent.

Jack: “Fifty years. Your grandparents, your parents. You really think people can love that long?”

Jeeny: “Not every day. But most days. The secret isn’t that they never fell out of love — it’s that they kept falling back in.”

Host: The light faded to twilight, casting their silhouettes in soft shadow. A storm gathered outside — thunder rolling far away, the sound like applause for truth.

Jack stood, his gaze lingering on the altar, on the faded roses, on the space where vows are both spoken and tested.

Jack: “You know something, Jeeny? Maybe sacred doesn’t mean perfect. Maybe it just means... chosen. Again and again.”

Jeeny: “Exactly.”

Host: Jeeny smiled — that quiet, knowing smile that carries both grace and endurance.

Jeeny: “And that’s what Deborah Raney writes about. Love that stays, not because it’s easy, but because it’s holy.”

Jack: “Holy, huh?”

Jeeny: “In the way that surviving together is holy. In the way that forgiveness feels like prayer.”

Host: A flash of lightning illuminated the windows, followed by a soft rain — not violent, but cleansing. Jeeny gathered her papers; Jack watched the rain streak down the glass, lost in thought.

Jack: (quietly) “Maybe someday I’ll write new vows. Not to someone else — to myself. To remember that love, when honest, doesn’t disappear. It just waits.”

Jeeny: “Then that’s a start.”

Host: The rain fell steadily now, a baptism of memory and renewal. The two stood at the doorway, watching the streetlights blur through the water, their reflections shimmering like unbroken promises.

Jack turned to Jeeny, his voice low, almost grateful.

Jack: “Maybe vows aren’t about never breaking. Maybe they’re about always returning.”

Jeeny: “That’s what love is, Jack — the art of coming back.”

Host: The camera pulled back, the church glowing softly against the dark — two figures standing in the doorway, between past and possibility.

The rain slowed, the world hushed, and the altar light flickered one last time before going still — not extinguished, but enduring, like a vow whispered into eternity:

Love endures. Because we choose it to.

Deborah Raney
Deborah Raney

American - Author Born: 1955

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