I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken

I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken

22/09/2025
02/11/2025

I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.

I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken

Host: The evening air was heavy with humidity and honesty. The small kitchen glowed in the fading gold of a summer dusk — dust motes drifting like tiny witnesses in the slanted light. A ceiling fan creaked softly, pushing warmth around the room. The faint hiss of a pot on the stove underscored the stillness.

On the table sat two coffee cups — one chipped, one pristine. Jack leaned against the counter, his sleeves rolled up, his face drawn but thoughtful. Jeeny sat opposite him, barefoot, her hair tied up loosely, the day’s fatigue softened by quiet conviction.

Jeeny: gently, reading from the page she held
“Toni Morrison once said, ‘I don’t think a female running a house is a problem, a broken family. It’s perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man.’

Jack: smiling faintly, his voice low and reflective
“She could turn a sentence into a revolution.”

Jeeny: nodding slowly
“She turned truth into literature. And literature into mirrors.”

Host: The light shifted, the last of the sun spilling across the table — two cups, two shadows. The sound of a neighbor’s television filtered through the thin walls, laughter rising faintly, fading again.

Jack: quietly
“She’s right. We’ve built whole systems on that one assumption — that leadership has a gender. That if a man isn’t in the room, authority collapses.”

Jeeny: softly, with conviction
“Or that nurturing isn’t leadership at all. That care doesn’t count unless it comes with a deep voice and a tie.”

Jack: looking at her, half-smiling
“You ever notice how people romanticize the word father figure but whisper single mother like it’s a diagnosis?”

Jeeny: nodding
“Because patriarchy teaches the world to see absence only through the lens of men.”

Host: The fan whirred lazily above them. The smell of boiling coffee deepened, grounding the air. Outside, a dog barked twice, the sound sharp but harmless.

Jeeny: softly, tracing her finger along the rim of her cup
“Morrison didn’t just defend women — she defended wholeness. She said a woman running a home isn’t an exception. It’s a continuation. The story just changed narrators.”

Jack: quietly
“And the world panicked when it realized the new narrator didn’t need permission.”

Jeeny: smiling faintly
“Yes. Because power makes sense to people only when it looks familiar. When it doesn’t — they call it chaos.”

Host: The light dimmed further, the gold turning to amber. The kitchen, once filled with the hum of day, settled into intimacy. The world outside carried on, but here — time paused.

Jack: sighing, taking a sip of his coffee
“You know, my mother raised three of us alone. I never once thought of it as broken. We had rules, laughter, arguments — the same ingredients every family has. But people loved to call it something tragic. Like stability needed a man’s silhouette to be valid.”

Jeeny: softly
“Because society needs men to be saviors — even when no one asked to be saved.”

Jack: half-smiling
“Yeah. My mother didn’t save anyone. She built. That’s harder.”

Host: The sound of rain began to patter on the tin roof — slow, steady, patient. The scent of wet earth drifted in through the open window, mixing with the smell of coffee. The moment felt both ordinary and eternal — like truth spoken in a kitchen instead of a courtroom.

Jeeny: quietly, looking at him
“You know, Toni Morrison redefined what family meant. She wrote about homes where love and survival replaced the idea of hierarchy. Where resilience wasn’t masculine or feminine — it was human.”

Jack: nodding
“She saw that brokenness isn’t about who’s missing, but what’s missing. And what’s missing in most homes isn’t a man — it’s respect.”

Jeeny: smiling softly
“Exactly. Respect for women who carry both tenderness and discipline. For daughters who inherit strength instead of shame. For sons who learn to see women not as caretakers of their world — but as architects of it.”

Host: The rain deepened, hitting the windows harder now. The thunder murmured in the distance, rolling like a slow drum. The sound filled the space — both grounding and vast.

Jack: after a long pause
“You think the world’s changing?”

Jeeny: leaning back, thoughtful
“Piece by piece. But change doesn’t happen because men make room. It happens because women stop asking for permission to exist in full form.”

Jack: quietly
“Like Morrison did.”

Jeeny: softly
“Exactly. She didn’t write to fit the world — she wrote to expand it.”

Host: A flash of lightning cut through the window, brief and white. For a heartbeat, the whole room glowed — two faces caught in contrast, two souls caught in understanding.

Jack: after the light fades
“Funny, isn’t it? The world still talks about female heads of households like it’s a new species. As if leadership could ever belong to one gender.”

Jeeny: smiling faintly
“It’s not funny. It’s fragile. Patriarchy is a myth held together by repetition. Every woman who leads without apology pulls another stitch loose.”

Jack: quietly, with admiration
“And every child who grows up watching her learns that strength doesn’t need to shout.”

Host: The rain softened, the rhythm settling into something gentler — like the heartbeat of the house itself. Jeeny reached across the table, placing her hand briefly on the folded page where Morrison’s words rested.

Jeeny: softly
“You know what I love most about her? She didn’t just talk about freedom. She embodied it — through the way she wrote, the way she lived, the way she refused to explain her genius.”

Jack: smiling, his voice quiet but certain
“Yeah. She didn’t need to prove women could lead. She knew they already were.”

Host: The lamp flickered, casting long shadows across the kitchen. The hum of the fan, the scent of rain, the warmth of their words — everything blended into one tender rhythm of truth.

And in that moment, Toni Morrison’s voice seemed to echo softly between them — not as a quote, but as a revelation:

That leadership is not gender,
that family is not hierarchy,
and that the measure of a home is not who rules it, but who rises within it.

Jeeny: gently, as the rain quiets to a whisper
“Maybe that’s what she meant. A woman running a home isn’t breaking anything — she’s just rebuilding the story in her own image.”

Jack: smiling, softly but proudly
“And that story’s been waiting centuries to be told.”

Host: The light faded,
the rain stopped,
and through the open window came the smell of clean air and change.

In the quiet of that small kitchen —
the kind Morrison would’ve written about —
the world felt just a little less afraid of a woman at the head of the table.

Toni Morrison
Toni Morrison

American - Novelist February 18, 1931 - August 5, 2019

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