I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal

I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal

22/09/2025
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I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.

I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal
I don't think interviewing people is any different than normal

Host: The radio studio glowed softly with the blue pulse of soundboard lights. A microphone hung suspended between two figures — Jack, leaning back with his usual sharp composure, and Jeeny, sitting forward, fingers resting lightly on her notepad. Outside, the city hummed — car lights flickering like restless thoughts, late-night traffic murmuring through the glass.

The red ON AIR sign flickered off now. They were between recordings — the rare quiet that follows conversation, where truth lingers longer than words.

Jeeny broke it first.

Jeeny: “John Bishop once said, ‘I don’t think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.’
She smiled faintly. “I think that’s what makes his interviews feel real — he’s not digging for answers. He’s listening for presence.”

Jack: “That’s a nice sentiment,” he said, adjusting his mic though it was off. “But he’s wrong. Every interview has stakes. You’re not just talking — you’re performing intimacy.”

Host: His voice carried the low hum of conviction — calm, but sharp. The soundproof walls swallowed the edge of it, turning it into something almost meditative.

Jeeny: “Performing intimacy?”

Jack: “Yeah,” he said. “You ask a question, they give you a rehearsed truth. It’s a dance — you lead, they follow, and both of you pretend it’s spontaneous.”

Jeeny: “So you think interviews are lies?”

Jack: “No,” he said, leaning forward. “They’re negotiations. The interviewer wants revelation. The interviewee wants control. The truth lives somewhere between what’s said and what’s withheld.”

Host: The faint buzz of the monitors filled the pause. Jeeny scribbled something in her notebook — a word, perhaps, or an emotion disguised as one.

Jeeny: “That’s cynical,” she said, glancing up. “Maybe Bishop meant that conversation — the real kind — is about exchange, not extraction. It’s not hunting for confession. It’s building trust.”

Jack: “Trust?” he said, half-smiling. “Trust is a temporary illusion that makes people talk.”

Jeeny: “You’re impossible.”

Jack: “No,” he said softly. “Just honest. You call it connection; I call it curiosity. You want to understand someone, you give them space. But don’t fool yourself — it’s still control. Even listening has power.”

Host: The soundboard blinked lazily — lights fading in slow rhythm, like a mechanical heartbeat. Jeeny leaned back now, crossing her arms, eyes narrowing slightly but not unkindly.

Jeeny: “So what’s normal communication to you, then?”

Jack: “It’s when no one’s trying to win.”

Jeeny: “And that ever happen?”

Jack: “Rarely.”

Host: The clock above the console ticked softly. The air smelled faintly of coffee and static — that strange mix of adrenaline and routine.

Jeeny: “You know, the funny thing is, most people reveal more when they forget they’re being questioned.”

Jack: “Exactly. That’s the trick.”

Jeeny: “So you do agree with him.”

Jack: “In principle,” he said. “But not in purity. Normal communication doesn’t exist under a red light and a live feed.”

Host: Jeeny turned toward the glass, looking into the control room — empty now, the producer gone home. The reflection of her face hovered there, transparent and doubled.

Jeeny: “Maybe it’s not the light that changes people. Maybe it’s the expectation. The second someone asks, ‘Tell me about yourself,’ we stop being ourselves.”

Jack: “Because self-awareness ruins honesty.”

Jeeny: “Or creates it.”

Jack: “Depends on whether you’re brave or careful.”

Host: The silence that followed was charged — not with tension, but with thought. Jack turned the mic slightly toward her again, as if ready to record what she might say next.

Jeeny: “You ever notice,” she said softly, “that the best interviews happen when the interviewer forgets they’re in control?”

Jack: “You mean when they start listening instead of steering?”

Jeeny: “Exactly. When curiosity replaces agenda. When conversation stops being extraction and starts being communion.”

Host: Her words hung there, gentle but precise. Jack looked at her, his expression softer now, stripped of performance.

Jack: “You’re good at that,” he said.

Jeeny: “At what?”

Jack: “Making people forget they’re being watched.”

Jeeny: “It’s not a trick. It’s attention.”

Jack: “That’s rarer than truth.”

Host: The city noise outside rose briefly — a siren in the distance, a car horn, the heartbeat of life that didn’t care for microphones or meaning.

Jeeny: “Maybe Bishop’s point was simpler,” she said after a moment. “That conversation — real conversation — is what we’re all starving for. The kind where you’re not waiting for your turn to speak, but actually listening to understand.”

Jack: “And yet,” he said quietly, “we live in an age where everyone’s talking, and no one’s heard.”

Jeeny: “That’s why it matters,” she said. “Why interviews matter. Why listening still matters. Because sometimes, the only way people feel real is when someone’s curious enough to ask.”

Host: The light above the console flickered again — not as a cue, but as coincidence. Jack smiled faintly, that rare unguarded smile that looked like gratitude wearing humility.

Jack: “You know what?” he said. “Maybe you’re right. Maybe there’s no difference between interviewing and normal conversation.”

Jeeny: “Because?”

Jack: “Because both are just people trying to be understood before time runs out.”

Host: Her eyes softened — that look she got when words hit the core of her belief.

Jeeny: “That’s the truest thing you’ve said all night.”

Jack: “Then maybe you should’ve recorded it.”

Jeeny: “I did,” she said, tapping her pen against the notebook. “Right here.”

Host: The camera would linger now — two figures in a quiet studio, framed by the pale blue of technology and the warm gold of humanity. The world outside still spun, but in that small room, communication had become something sacred again — unperformed, unguarded, alive.

And as the lights dimmed and their reflections merged in the dark glass, John Bishop’s words lingered like the echo of an answered question:

“I don’t think interviewing people is any different than normal communication.”

Because at its best, both are the same desperate, tender act —
one human being saying to another,
“Show me who you are, and I’ll try to understand.”

John Bishop
John Bishop

British - Comedian Born: November 30, 1966

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