I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching

I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching

22/09/2025
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I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.

I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching
I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching

Host: The afternoon sunlight filtered through the trees, casting dappled shadows across the lawn. A soft breeze rustled the leaves, carrying with it the distant hum of the world beyond, as if the very air was holding its breath. In the quiet of the garden, Jack and Jeeny sat beneath a wide oak, the tranquility of the setting somehow sharpening the focus of their conversation.

Jeeny looked down at her hands, her fingers absently twisting a fallen leaf. Her eyes, however, were fixed on Jack, who had been unusually quiet since they sat down. The weight of the moment hung in the air, like a truth that had yet to fully reveal itself.

Jeeny: (softly, her voice almost reverent) "I came across something today… A quote from Sachin Tendulkar. He said, ‘I grew up looking at my father as to how to behave. In watching him I grasped so many things. His own temperament was of a calm person. He was very composed and I never saw anger in him. To me, that was fascinating.’"

Jack: (pausing, his gaze briefly lifting to meet hers) "That’s an interesting thought. The idea that your father could teach you about life just by being calm. It makes sense, though. The way we learn — not from words, but from how people live."

Jeeny: (nodding, her voice thoughtful) "Exactly. It’s like, sometimes the most profound lessons aren’t those we’re taught explicitly, but the ones we absorb from someone’s presence, their actions. Tendulkar’s father didn’t teach him how to swing a bat or play cricket — he taught him how to live, how to remain steady, no matter what life throws at you."

Host: Jack gazes off into the distance, his fingers absentmindedly tracing the edge of his coffee mug, deep in thought. The stillness of the scene contrasts sharply with the rapid pace of his mind, but something about the calm nature of the conversation seems to settle him, even if only for a moment.

Jack: (breaking the silence, his voice a bit skeptical) "But is that really enough, Jeeny? Calm? It sounds like a great trait, but I’m not sure if it’s always the answer. Anger, frustration — those emotions have purpose too, don’t they? They drive us to change, to act."

Jeeny: (looking at him with a slight smile, almost teasing) "I’m not saying anger doesn’t have its place. But there’s something powerful about control, Jack. About not letting those emotions consume you. Tendulkar learned from his father that strength isn’t just about being the loudest or most passionate. It’s about remaining composed, no matter the situation. That kind of resilience is what sets people apart. And it’s more than just reacting; it’s about how you respond."

Jack: (tilting his head, considering her words) "But sometimes, don’t you think that a bit of raw emotion — like anger or passion — is what makes us human? What drives us to push for something better, to fight for justice? Isn’t it the heat of those emotions that helps us tear down walls and create change?"

Jeeny: (gently, but with conviction) "I think there’s room for both, Jack. Passion and calm. It’s just that calm, composed strength isn’t something we value as much as we should. We’re so used to fire driving us forward that we forget how important it is to have the ability to stand still, to find clarity in the storm. Sometimes the most powerful person in the room isn’t the one yelling the loudest — it’s the one who knows how to listen, how to keep their emotions in check, and how to act from a place of quiet strength."

Host: The sunlight seems to grow softer as the conversation deepens, the light now a gentle golden hue that wraps around them like a warm blanket. The moment feels timeless, as if the very air between Jack and Jeeny is absorbing the weight of their thoughts, the depth of their words.

Jack: (nodding slowly, his eyes reflecting a quiet understanding) "I get it. It’s like… balance. You’re not saying don’t feel emotions, don’t have passion. But there’s something grounding about being able to control them, to not let them take over. Tendulkar’s father wasn’t just teaching him how to stay calm — he was teaching him how to think, how to stay centered in the face of all the chaos."

Jeeny: (her eyes lighting up with the quiet victory of shared understanding) "Exactly. It’s not about avoiding emotions, it’s about mastering them. I think the most powerful people are those who can remain true to themselves in the midst of the storm. People like Tendulkar’s father — they don’t react impulsively, but respond with purpose."

Jack: (sighing, leaning back slightly, as if letting go of some unseen weight) "Maybe that’s the lesson. Maybe we don’t need to fight every battle with our fists or our voices. Maybe we just need to focus on staying grounded, like his father did. Watching, learning, and responding in a way that speaks louder than any outburst ever could."

Host: The moment between them feels lighter now, like the calm after a storm. Jeeny’s words have reached a place in Jack, something he’s quietly considered but never fully embraced. The garden around them, the gentle sway of the trees, the warmth of the afternoon sun — all seem to reflect the peace they’ve found in each other’s words.

Jeeny: (smiling softly, almost to herself) "It’s strange, isn’t it? How the people who shape us don’t always do it with grand gestures or lectures. Sometimes, the most profound lessons come from the quietest moments, from just watching someone live, from seeing how they handle life."

Jack: (pausing, a flicker of gratitude in his voice) "Maybe that’s the thing about role models. They don’t need to tell you how to act. They just need to show you, by being who they are. By being the calm in the chaos."

Host: The air grows still, as if the conversation has woven a new understanding between them. The sun continues its slow descent, casting long shadows over the grass. Jack and Jeeny sit there together, no longer as two separate minds in conflict, but as two people who have found a shared moment of clarity — one that came not from shouting, but from listening. Not from force, but from stillness.

End Scene.

Sachin Tendulkar
Sachin Tendulkar

Indian - Cricketer Born: April 24, 1973

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