I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move

I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move

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I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.

I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move forward. Don't waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It's over. Done. Move forward.
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move
I never dwell on what happened. You can't change it. Move

Host: The city was caught between night and dawn, that fragile hour when the streetlights still glowed but the sky began to pale. A thin fog hovered above the river, turning the world into a film of silver and shadow.

A bench overlooked the water, slick with the memory of rain. Jack sat there, coat collar turned up, his hands shoved deep in his pockets. His eyes were fixed on the reflection of the bridge lights, each one rippling, vanishing, reforming—like regrets trying to stay alive.

Jeeny approached quietly, a cup of coffee in each hand. Her hair was wind-tossed, her breath visible in the cold. She handed Jack one cup and sat beside him, her movements unhurried, the air between them full of the familiar comfort of shared silence.

Jeeny: “Joan Rivers once said, ‘I never dwell on what happened. You can’t change it. Move forward. Don’t waste your energy on being angry at something that somebody did six months ago or a year ago. It’s over. Done. Move forward.’

Jack: “That’s the kind of philosophy you earn by surviving a few fires.”

Host: The river moved slowly, its surface glinting with the first light of morning. A seagull cut across the air, its cry brief, echoing. Jack took a sip, his voice low, like gravel softened by distance.

Jack: “But it’s easier said than done. The past doesn’t die—it lingers. It whispers when you’re tired. You can’t always ‘move forward’ just because you want to.”

Jeeny: “No, but you can choose not to look back. That’s the difference. You don’t erase the past; you just stop letting it drive.”

Jack: “So what—you pretend it didn’t hurt?”

Jeeny: “No. You admit it did. Then you walk on anyway. Forgiveness isn’t forgetting, Jack—it’s refusing to stay stuck.”

Host: A train rumbled in the distance, the sound carrying through the mist—a low, mournful hum that somehow felt like agreement. Jack’s jaw tightened, his eyes distant, still locked on the moving light of the river.

Jack: “You sound like you’ve rehearsed that.”

Jeeny: “I lived it. Everyone has something that tries to hold them hostage. A betrayal, a loss, a moment they replay like a bad song. But life doesn’t stop for our resentment. It just leaves us behind.”

Jack: “And if it’s not resentment? What if it’s guilt?”

Jeeny: “Then it’s the same story. Different disguise. Either way—it’s a thief. And thieves don’t deserve rent-free space in your mind.”

Host: The wind picked up, carrying the scent of wet asphalt and river salt. Jeeny’s voice softened, almost as if she were speaking to the wind itself.

Jeeny: “Joan Rivers had it right. Move forward. That woman went through loss, failure, humiliation—and still found her punchline. Maybe humor was her armor, but it was also her strength. She knew that forward is the only direction with oxygen.”

Jack: “But what if you move forward and the past follows?”

Jeeny: “Then walk faster.”

Host: Jack laughed, the sound short but real—the kind that cracked open a little of the heaviness around them. He glanced at her, shaking his head.

Jack: “You make it sound so simple.”

Jeeny: “It isn’t simple. It’s discipline. Every day you wake up, and you choose not to look over your shoulder. You do that long enough, and one day you realize the past isn’t chasing you anymore.”

Jack: “You think anger ever serves a purpose?”

Jeeny: “Sure. It tells you where you’re wounded. But if you keep feeding it, it becomes the wound.”

Host: The sunlight began to push through the fog, soft and gold, touching the water like a gentle hand. Jack watched as the light spread, breaking apart the reflections until they shimmered anew.

Jack: “You know, I used to think letting go meant losing. Like you were surrendering something.”

Jeeny: “It’s not surrender—it’s strength. Holding on takes energy. Letting go gives it back.”

Jack: “And what about justice? What about the people who caused the pain? Don’t they deserve something?”

Jeeny: “They do. They deserve to be irrelevant. That’s the only revenge worth having.”

Host: The river breeze lifted her words, scattering them like petals. Jack’s fingers tightened around his cup, but his face had changed—no longer guarded, just weary and open.

Jack: “You’re saying peace is indifference.”

Jeeny: “No. Peace is clarity. It’s knowing what still matters and what never will again.”

Host: A pause. The sky was fully awake now, pink bleeding into blue, light catching on every ripple of the river. Jeeny stood, pulling her coat tighter, turning toward him with a soft smile.

Jeeny: “You know what’s funny? We waste years fighting ghosts. But they only exist because we keep inviting them to dinner.”

Jack: “And how do you stop?”

Jeeny: “You stop setting the table.”

Host: Jack laughed again, quietly, this time with warmth. He stood, the wind ruffling his hair, and looked out over the river—the moving water, the shifting light. Something in his eyes had changed. Not healed, but lighter.

Jack: “Maybe you’re right. Maybe it’s time to stop letting old pain rent space.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. Throw it out. Evict it. Reclaim the property.”

Jack: “And fill it with what?”

Jeeny: “With whatever makes you feel alive again. New mistakes, new joys, new beginnings. The past doesn’t deserve all the good chapters.”

Host: The city began to stir behind them—the sound of engines, bicycles, the hum of life returning. Jeeny walked beside Jack, their footsteps in sync, the river to their left still flowing steadily forward, indifferent to everything it had carried before.

And as they moved into the light of the waking day, Joan Rivers’ wisdom echoed quietly between them:

that the art of survival is not in forgetting,
but in refusing to pause where pain once stood—
in choosing to walk forward,
not because the past deserves to be left behind,
but because the future deserves to be met with open hands.

The camera lingered on the river, endlessly flowing, endlessly new—
and the scene faded, leaving only the sound of water moving on,
as if whispering to every broken soul who ever lingered too long,
“It’s over. Done. Move forward.”

Joan Rivers
Joan Rivers

American - Comedian June 8, 1933 - September 4, 2014

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