If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of

If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of

22/09/2025
04/11/2025

If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.

If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space. Ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall before. You will be amazed at what a change this attitude shift brings about.
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of
If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of

Host: The morning sunlight filtered through a cracked window, scattering across the small kitchen like spilled gold. A faint smell of coffee lingered in the air, mixing with the sharper scent of burnt toast. The radio played softly in the background — an old jazz tune that had outlived its decade, perhaps its hope too.

Jack sat at the wooden table, his sleeves rolled up, a tired look hanging from his eyes like yesterday’s exhaustion. Jeeny stood by the sink, washing a few dishes in silence. Between them, an invisible tension floated — not anger exactly, but something older, heavier, shaped by too many small, repeated disappointments.

Jeeny: (quietly) “He said, ‘If you have an ongoing relationship with a person, think of everything positive about that person that you possibly can and enter your interaction from that space… ignore all the crap that used to drive you up the wall.’

Jack: (scoffs, takes a sip of coffee) “That sounds like a self-help poster, Jeeny. People don’t change just because you pretend their flaws don’t exist.”

Jeeny: “He didn’t say pretend. He said shift. There’s a difference.”

Jack: (sets his mug down a little too hard) “You think changing your angle changes the truth?”

Jeeny: “Sometimes it does. Perspective isn’t denial, Jack — it’s a choice about which truth to feed.”

Host: The clock ticked softly in the background, each second landing like a drop of rain. The room was small, but it held years of shared memories, of fights and forgiveness, of words that built and broke.

Jeeny’s hands trembled slightly as she reached for another plate. Jack noticed but said nothing.

Jack: “You really believe people can erase what’s already poisoned them?”

Jeeny: “Not erase. Reframe. Like looking at an old photograph — you don’t change what happened, you change how you remember it.”

Jack: “So what, I just decide to love the same person who drove me insane yesterday?”

Jeeny: “Not decide — see. The person you fell in love with is still there, somewhere beneath the noise. It’s you who’s buried them under expectations.”

Jack: (leans back, bitter laugh) “Expectations keep us sane, Jeeny. Without them, people walk all over you. You give too much grace, and you end up empty.”

Jeeny: “And without grace, you end up alone.”

Host: The radio cracked, the tune fading into static for a moment before returning, soft and ghostly. The light shifted across Jack’s face, revealing the faint trace of regret that had lived there for years — too proud to admit its shape.

Jack: “You always talk like forgiveness is easy.”

Jeeny: “No. I talk like it’s necessary.”

Jack: (shakes his head) “You can’t keep ignoring people’s flaws and calling it love.”

Jeeny: “I’m not ignoring them. I’m remembering that flaws are part of the deal. You don’t choose someone because they’re perfect — you choose them because they’re real.”

Jack: (sighs, runs a hand through his hair) “Yeah, but reality hurts.”

Jeeny: “So does holding on to resentment. And resentment always bites the hand that feeds it.”

Host: Outside, a bird perched on the windowsill, shaking off droplets of dew. The morning was beginning to wake — the sound of distant cars, the hum of city life inching forward. Inside, the air felt still, thick with everything unsaid.

Jack: “You think attitude can fix what’s broken?”

Jeeny: “Not fix. Heal. Slowly. Like sunlight on a scar.”

Jack: (skeptical) “Sounds poetic. But life’s not a poem, Jeeny.”

Jeeny: (smiles sadly) “It is if you let it be.”

Jack: “So, what? You just walk into every argument smiling, thinking happy thoughts like a monk?”

Jeeny: (turns to face him now, her voice calm but fierce) “No, Jack. I walk in remembering that the person standing in front of me isn’t my enemy. That somewhere inside, we both still want to understand each other. That’s the shift.”

Host: He watched her, the morning light painting a soft halo on her hair, the steam from the sink rising around her like fragile fog. For a moment, she looked both near and unreachable — like the very thing he’d lost and didn’t know how to find again.

Jack: “You really think that’s enough to change something this big?”

Jeeny: “Not all at once. But every storm starts with a single drop. Every reconciliation starts with one decision — to see the good again.”

Jack: “And if the good’s gone?”

Jeeny: (steps closer, her eyes steady) “Then you remind it to come back.”

Jack: (half-whisper) “And if it doesn’t?”

Jeeny: “Then at least you didn’t let bitterness define you.”

Host: Her words hung in the air like dust in sunlight — ordinary, yet heavy with the weight of truth. Jack looked down at the table — the chipped wood, the small ring left by her mug, the tiny marks of a thousand mornings just like this one.

And suddenly, he realized — it wasn’t her voice that had hardened over time. It was his.

Jack: “You ever notice how it’s always easier to remember the bad stuff?”

Jeeny: “Because it shouts. The good whispers. You have to quiet down to hear it.”

Jack: (quietly) “And if you’ve been deaf to it too long?”

Jeeny: “Then listen harder.”

Host: A long silence followed. The only sound was the slow drip from the faucet, the faint hum of life beyond the window. Jeeny turned off the tap and dried her hands, her movements unhurried, her breathing even.

Jack watched her — the same woman who had seen him at his worst, who had stayed through every storm, and yet still spoke like love wasn’t a ruin but a road.

Jack: (softly) “You really believe people can start over?”

Jeeny: (meets his eyes) “Every day. That’s what love is — a daily decision to begin again.”

Jack: “Even after years of mistakes?”

Jeeny: “Especially after years of mistakes. That’s when it matters most.”

Host: She moved closer, placing a hand on the table near his. The distance between them was small now — not measured in inches but in forgiveness.

Jack’s fingers brushed hers — hesitant, uncertain — like two people trying to rebuild a bridge from memory.

Jack: “You know what drove me up the wall, Jeeny?”

Jeeny: (smiles faintly) “Everything?”

Jack: (chuckles softly) “Maybe. But now… I don’t even remember what half of it was.”

Jeeny: “That’s the beginning, Jack. Forgetting what wasn’t worth remembering.”

Host: Outside, the sun broke through the clouds, flooding the room in pale gold. The shadows softened, the dust danced in the light.

It wasn’t reconciliation yet — not a grand confession, not a perfect fix. But it was something gentler, more human — a fragile truce between hearts learning to see again.

Jack: (quietly, almost to himself) “Maybe that’s the trick, huh? To start seeing what’s still beautiful.”

Jeeny: (nods) “Always. Because what you choose to see is what your love becomes.”

Host: The camera would linger there — on their hands resting side by side, the light slowly widening, the morning finding its breath again.

And outside, somewhere beyond the glass, the world — chaotic, unhealed, imperfect — went on. But inside that small kitchen, for the first time in years, something shifted — not loudly, not suddenly, but truthfully.

It was the quiet beginning of change — the kind that comes not from words, but from finally choosing to see the good again.

Srikumar Rao
Srikumar Rao

Indian - Educator Born: April 11, 1951

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