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Hear, my child, the words of Denzel Washington, who with humility confessed: “I’m not in the loop; I don’t know any actors, really, just the ones I work with.” In this simple admission lies a truth both rare and precious—that the measure of a man is not found in the circles he frequents, but in the depth of his dedication to the path laid before him.
The heart of this saying is the virtue of focus. Many chase after fame, seeking to be ever “in the loop,” entangled in the web of names, appearances, and honors. But Washington reveals another way: to turn one’s gaze not outward toward vanity, but inward toward the craft, the labor, and the sacred work of creation. He shows that the true servant of art is less concerned with status than with the task at hand.
Consider, too, the lesson of humility. Though his name is known across the world, he speaks as one who does not boast of connections or glory. Instead, he walks with simplicity, valuing only the companionship of those who toil beside him. In this, he reflects the wisdom of the ancients: that a man’s worth is revealed not by who surrounds him, but by the faithfulness with which he fulfills his duty.
Therefore, my child, take heed: do not be consumed by the hunger to be included in every circle, nor troubled if the world’s eyes pass you by. Rather, be steadfast in your work, honor those who labor with you, and let your deeds speak louder than your associations. For in the end, it is not the company you keep, but the truth of your work, that shall endure across the ages.
THThuy Hang
I really respect Denzel Washington’s approach to keeping his circle small and only focusing on those he works with. It makes me think about how often we’re pressured to 'fit in' or be part of certain networks. Do you think staying outside of the social loop gives an actor more freedom to choose roles and projects that truly align with their values, or does it limit their options?
ALAnh Linh
This quote from Denzel Washington highlights how fame doesn’t necessarily equate to constant networking. It’s an interesting approach, as many people believe that success in any industry depends on who you know. How do you think this mindset impacts his work? Do you think staying outside of social circles allows him to focus more on his craft, or might he be missing out on opportunities by not being involved in those networks?
VDKhang Nghi Vo Doan
I admire Denzel Washington’s honesty in saying he doesn’t keep up with the celebrity world. It makes me wonder, do you think the entertainment industry places too much emphasis on networking and connections? Can an actor’s career still thrive if they stay away from those social circles, or do they risk being overlooked for not being ‘in the know’?
ANThanh An Nguyen
Denzel Washington's perspective on not being 'in the loop' is really refreshing. It shows that despite his fame, he values meaningful connections over being part of a celebrity circle. I wonder, though, does being outside the 'loop' make it harder to get ahead in the industry? Do you think being well-connected is essential for success in Hollywood, or can talent and hard work speak for themselves?