In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are

In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are

22/09/2025
18/10/2025

In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.

In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are
In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are

Host: The sunlight filtered softly through the glass ceiling of the old atelier, falling in long, golden beams that painted the dust in midair. The room smelled of wood, steel, and dreams still in the making — blueprints curled like sleeping animals across the tables, sketches pinned to the walls, and the quiet hum of creation breathing in every corner.

Host: Jack sat at the far end of the workbench, a half-finished model before him — a city in miniature, full of towers reaching for invisible heavens. His hands were steady, but his eyes carried the fatigue of someone who’s been building for too long without resting. Jeeny stood by the window, tracing the light with her fingers, the morning breeze lifting strands of her hair as if in reverence.

Host: Outside, the distant hum of the city swelled — construction, chaos, and life. But here, in this sanctuary of thought, time moved slowly, like a craftsman at work.

Jeeny: “Renzo Piano once said, ‘In some way, people believe that if you are permeable, if you are a good listener, you don't have the quality of somebody with a firm attitude. This is what, fundamentally, I got from my mother.’

Jack: (chuckling quietly) “Permeable. That’s a beautiful word for weakness.”

Jeeny: “That’s exactly what he’s arguing against. Listening isn’t weakness, Jack — it’s patience with purpose.”

Jack: “Patience builds nothing. The world’s moved by conviction, not absorption.”

Jeeny: “And yet conviction without listening is just arrogance in disguise.”

Jack: “Or leadership.”

Jeeny: (turns to him) “No. Leadership isn’t volume; it’s resonance.”

Host: The light shifted slightly, sliding across Jack’s face, sharpening his profile like a line drawn with precision. His jaw tightened, but there was curiosity behind the defiance — the kind of quiet resistance that masks its own longing to understand.

Jack: “So what, you think being ‘permeable’ makes you strong?”

Jeeny: “Yes. Because it means you’re open to truth, even when it doesn’t serve your ego.”

Jack: “You’re describing empathy. That’s great for relationships, not for architects or politicians. You can’t build anything solid if you’re always absorbing everyone else’s opinions.”

Jeeny: “But that’s exactly what great architects — great leaders — do. They absorb, interpret, and transform. Listening doesn’t dilute conviction; it informs it.”

Jack: (leans back, skeptical) “You sound like you’ve been reading too many design manifestos.”

Jeeny: “Maybe. But think about Piano himself — his buildings breathe. They don’t dominate the space; they speak to it. Transparency and structure living in balance. Isn’t that the same as what he learned from his mother — to be strong through softness?”

Jack: (pauses) “You’re romanticizing it.”

Jeeny: “No. I’m humanizing it. The world confuses impermeability with power. But even glass, Jack — the most fragile material — holds the sky because it knows how to bend light.”

Host: The sun caught the edge of her face as she said it, bathing her in a warm, golden glow. Jack looked away, his hands tightening around the miniature tower before him.

Jack: “I grew up being told the opposite. That listening too much made you indecisive. You had to be firm, unflinching — or people would walk right over you.”

Jeeny: “And did it work?”

Jack: (smirks) “I got things done.”

Jeeny: “But did you build anything that lasted?”

Host: Her question lingered — soft, but sharp as a chisel. Jack didn’t answer immediately. He looked at the small model before him, its delicate framework trembling slightly under the draft from the open window.

Jack: “You think firmness and listening can coexist?”

Jeeny: “They have to. Otherwise, you’re either deaf or dissolving.”

Jack: “That’s a paradox.”

Jeeny: “So is every truth worth believing.”

Host: The silence deepened, filled only by the creak of the building and the far-off hum of traffic. Jeeny stepped closer to the workbench, her fingers brushing across the blueprint scattered between them — a network of lines, curves, and careful precision.

Jeeny: “Do you see this? All of it — every beam, every arc — depends on equilibrium. Rigidity collapses; flexibility endures.”

Jack: “You’re comparing people to architecture again.”

Jeeny: “Because we’re built the same way. The strongest souls are the ones that bend, not break.”

Jack: (softly) “My father used to say that firmness is the only language the world respects.”

Jeeny: “Maybe your father mistook fear for respect.”

Host: The words struck gently but deeply. Jack looked up at her, his eyes clouded — a storm of pride and pain. For a moment, the air seemed heavier, the light dimmer.

Jack: “He was a military man. He believed the world only understood discipline. Emotion was… distraction.”

Jeeny: “And what did your mother believe?”

Jack: “That silence could heal anything.”

Jeeny: (smiling faintly) “So you inherited a fortress and a whisper.”

Jack: (half-laughs) “Guess that makes me the scaffolding between the two.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. That’s what Piano was talking about — permeability doesn’t erase strength; it defines it. It’s the balance between what you inherit and what you absorb.”

Host: A ray of sunlight broke free from the clouds outside, landing squarely on the model between them. The miniature building glowed — translucent yet steady, fragile yet certain.

Jack: “So you’re saying firmness isn’t about walls; it’s about foundations.”

Jeeny: “Yes. Foundations that breathe. Like people who listen before they speak.”

Jack: “You make it sound like stillness is a skill.”

Jeeny: “It is. The hardest one.”

Host: The clock on the wall ticked softly — steady, patient, like the rhythm of creation itself. Jack leaned forward, tracing the outline of the model’s base with his finger, his voice quieter now, almost reverent.

Jack: “You know, I used to think vulnerability was the enemy of progress. That to be respected, I had to be… impermeable.”

Jeeny: “And what do you think now?”

Jack: “Now I think impermeability is just fear — fear of being changed.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. And change is the architect’s truest material.”

Host: Jeeny smiled — not victory, but recognition. She reached out, gently straightening a fragile beam on the model that had tilted slightly. Her touch was light, but it made the entire structure seem steadier.

Jack watched her, something dawning behind his gaze — not surrender, but understanding.

Jack: “Maybe being a good listener doesn’t mean losing your edge. Maybe it’s just… learning the shape of the world before carving your place in it.”

Jeeny: “Yes. And maybe that’s what your mother was trying to teach you too.”

Jack: “To build without walls.”

Jeeny: “To build with empathy.”

Host: The light warmed, spilling across the floor, the models, their faces — everything alive with quiet illumination. The room seemed to breathe again.

Host: Outside, the sounds of the city drifted in — the distant hammering of construction, laughter, life in motion — all the things that were being built, broken, and rebuilt.

Host: Jack and Jeeny stood side by side now, looking down at the model — the small universe they had crafted together, made of balance, patience, and something far deeper than design.

Host: The camera would have slowly pulled back — through the skylight, past the trembling dust and the glow of morning — showing the city beyond: vast, imperfect, and radiant.

Host: And in that moment, Renzo Piano’s truth seemed to echo through the glass and air:

Host: True strength is not in resisting the world, but in allowing it to pass through you — shaping you, softening you, until you stand firm not in defiance, but in understanding.

Renzo Piano
Renzo Piano

Italian - Architect Born: September 14, 1937

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