It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or

It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or

22/09/2025
04/11/2025

It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.

It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists. We are to forgive to be forgiven. To wait for them to repent before we forgive and repent is to allow them to choose for us a delay which could cost us happiness here and hereafter.
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or
It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or

Host: The rain fell in steady, silver threads, tapping against the windowpane like the slow beat of an unhurried heart. It was late — the kind of hour when city lights turned into flickering ghosts, and memory became louder than the world itself. Inside a small, dimly lit café, steam curled from two untouched cups. Jack sat with his hands clasped, jaw tight, eyes like grey stone, fixed on the table. Jeeny, across from him, watched the raindrops slide down the glass, her reflection wavering in them, as if her soul were being pulled apart between sorrow and hope.

Jeeny: “You ever notice,” she said softly, “how we wait for people to say ‘sorry’ before we even begin to heal?”

Jack: (leans back, exhaling smoke from a half-burned cigarette) “That’s called self-respect, Jeeny. You don’t hand out forgiveness like free candy. People should earn it.”

Host: Her eyes lifted to meet his — gentle, yet burning with that quiet fire she always carried when something sacred was being questioned.

Jeeny: “Henry B. Eyring once said, ‘It is a lie that our anger justifies our impulse to hurt or ignore our antagonists.’ You know what he meant, Jack? That forgiveness isn’t about them. It’s about not letting their darkness become ours.”

Jack: “Sounds poetic, but tell that to someone who’s been betrayed. Tell that to a father whose son was killed in a war someone else started. Tell it to a woman who’s been lied to for years. You think they should just… forgive and move on?”

Host: His voice hardened, but beneath the sarcasm, something fractured. The ash from his cigarette fell, scattering across the table, like grey snowflakes of forgotten grief.

Jeeny: “I don’t mean forget. I mean release. The anger you hold doesn’t punish the one who hurt you, Jack. It punishes you. It chains your peace to their guilt.”

Jack: “So we just let them walk away? No justice, no accountability? That’s not forgiveness, Jeeny — that’s surrender.”

Host: The lights above them flickered. A waitress passed, her shoes squeaking on the wet floor, as if the world itself paused to hear the battle of two souls trying to define the same word differently.

Jeeny: “No. True forgiveness isn’t weakness. It’s the strongest form of justice, because it frees the innocent soul — yours. Think of Nelson Mandela, Jack. Twenty-seven years in prison. Beaten, humiliated, broken. When he came out, he forgave his captors. He said, ‘If I didn’t leave my bitterness behind, I’d still be in prison.’ That’s what Eyring meant. To wait for them to repent before we forgive is to let them decide our freedom.”

Jack: (bitter laugh) “Mandela was a saint, Jeeny. The rest of us are just… people. Flawed, scared, angry people.”

Host: A long silence followed. The clock ticked. The rain whispered its steady confession against the glass.

Jeeny: “But that’s exactly why forgiveness matters most — because we’re not saints. Because we’re all the same, trying to find a way to live with our own failures. If we wait until others are worthy, we’ll die waiting.”

Jack: (leans forward) “And what if they don’t care, Jeeny? What if the person who hurt you never feels a hint of remorse? What if they go on, smiling, thriving, while you’re here trying to forgive what destroyed you? How do you forgive that?”

Host: His eyes trembled, for just a second, with something like memory — a buried pain that glinted through the cracks of his defenses.

Jeeny: (softly) “You forgive not to change them… but to stop them from changing you. It’s the only way to reclaim your soul from their shadow.”

Host: She reached for her cup. Her hand shook slightly, the ceramic warm against her skin, a fragile symbol of stillness amidst the storm between them.

Jack: “You talk like forgiveness is some kind of miracle cure. But I’ve seen people forgive too easily. They get walked on, hurt again, used. Isn’t that just… naivety disguised as virtue?”

Jeeny: “No, Jack. Forgiveness isn’t the same as trust. You can forgive someone and still never let them near your heart again. Forgiveness heals the wound, not the relationship.”

Host: Her words hung in the air, trembling between logic and faith. Jack looked down, his fingers tracing the rim of his cup, as if trying to understand the shape of something he couldn’t quite name.

Jack: “I get the theory, Jeeny. I do. But there’s something in me — something that refuses to let go of being wronged. Maybe it’s pride. Maybe it’s just… human.”

Jeeny: “It’s fear, Jack. The fear that if you forgive, the pain meant nothing. But pain doesn’t lose its meaning when you release it. It becomes the teacher instead of the master.”

Host: A flash of lightning illuminated the room, casting their faces in brief, fragile honesty. The storm outside mirrored the one inside — fierce, but cleansing.

Jack: “You think forgiveness guarantees peace? I’ve seen men forgive, and still be haunted. What then?”

Jeeny: “Then they learn that forgiveness is not a one-time act. It’s a daily choice — like breathing, or believing. You do it over and over until the pain stops being your language.”

Host: The rain intensified, drumming against the roof like a heartbeat. The air thickened with memory and surrender. Jack’s gaze softened, his shoulders lowering as if the weight of unseen chains began to loosen.

Jack: (quietly) “You know… my brother. I haven’t spoken to him in eight years. We fought over our father’s will. Stupid money. But when our mother died last year, I couldn’t even call him. I told myself he should call me first. I said I’d forgive him when he apologized.” (pauses) “He never did.”

Jeeny: (leans forward, eyes glistening) “So you both stayed prisoners, waiting for the other to open the door.”

Host: The truth landed like a soft explosion — not loud, but deep. Jack’s fingers tightened around his cup until it trembled.

Jack: “And what if it’s too late?”

Jeeny: “It’s never too late to be free, Jack. That’s the grace of it. Forgiveness doesn’t need an audience. It only needs a heart willing to begin.”

Host: The café lights flickered once more, dimming into a gentle amber glow. Outside, the rain began to slow, the sky clearing in muted layers of grey and gold.

Jack: “You make it sound… peaceful. Like it’s something holy.”

Jeeny: “Maybe it is. Maybe that’s why we’re told to forgive — not for them, but so we can be forgiven too. So we can start again, unchained.”

Host: He looked at her then — really looked — as if seeing not just the woman before him, but the truth she carried. The cynicism in his eyes gave way to something quieter, something human.

Jack: “Alright,” he whispered. “Maybe I’ll try. Maybe I’ll call him.”

Jeeny: (smiles faintly) “Don’t try, Jack. Just… start. Even if he never answers, you’ll have already won.”

Host: The clock struck midnight. A final raindrop traced its path down the window and fell, disappearing into the streetlight’s reflection. The city sighed — softer, lighter.

Inside the café, two souls sat in the silence of their own small redemption. The storm had ended — not outside, but within.

And for the first time in years, Jack’s breathing came easy.

Henry B. Eyring
Henry B. Eyring

American - Leader Born: May 31, 1933

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