It's amazing how confused and distracted and misdirected so many

It's amazing how confused and distracted and misdirected so many

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It's amazing how confused and distracted and misdirected so many people are.

It's amazing how confused and distracted and misdirected so many

Host: The rain had stopped, but the city still gleamed like a wounded animal — its streets slick with reflections, its lights trembling in shallow puddles. It was late. The hour where conversations lose their masks and truth slips out in whispers.

Jack and Jeeny sat in a small diner by the edge of the river, the kind that never closes and never quite feels alive. The hum of an old refrigerator, the flicker of a dying neon sign, and the faint jazz playing through a cracked speaker painted the room in melancholy hues.

Jack stared at the menu but wasn’t reading it. Jeeny was watching him — quietly, like someone studying a reflection that keeps changing.

Host: Outside, a taxi passed, its headlights briefly illuminating the raindrops clinging to the window — small, fleeting stars that disappeared before anyone could wish upon them.

Jeeny: “Stephen Covey once said, ‘It’s amazing how confused and distracted and misdirected so many people are.’

Jack: “He must’ve been talking about us.”

Host: He said it with a dry half-smile — the kind of smile people wear when the truth hurts too much to frown.

Jeeny: “No. He was talking about everyone. About how we chase noise and call it meaning.”

Jack: “You sound like a self-help book.”

Jeeny: “And you sound like a man who stopped trying to understand himself.”

Host: The waitress passed by, leaving two cups of coffee on the table. The steam rose between them like a veil, softening the edges of everything — the faces, the regrets, the half-formed dreams.

Jack: “You ever think confusion is the point, Jeeny? That maybe we were meant to be lost — all of us — because certainty would make life unbearable?”

Jeeny: “That’s your cynicism talking. Confusion isn’t destiny, Jack. It’s a symptom. We’ve forgotten how to listen.”

Jack: “To who?”

Jeeny: “To ourselves.”

Host: Her voice was quiet but steady — like a note struck in the dark, resonating longer than expected.

Jack: “You think people even know who they are anymore? They scroll, they mimic, they react — but they don’t think. Everything’s pre-packaged. Even outrage. Even happiness.”

Jeeny: “Then stop scrolling. Stop mimicking. Start choosing. You can’t blame the noise if you keep turning up the volume.”

Host: Jack leaned back, his eyes glinting beneath the diner’s flickering light. He looked like a man torn between clarity and exhaustion — two enemies that feel almost identical.

Jack: “You think choice is that simple? You think someone working two jobs, raising kids, drowning in bills, has the luxury to ‘choose peace’?”

Jeeny: “It’s not about peace. It’s about direction. Even chaos can be purposeful if you know where you’re heading.”

Jack: “And if you don’t?”

Jeeny: “Then stop walking in circles and stand still until you remember why you started.”

Host: The rain began again — slow at first, then steadier, each drop tracing fragile lines down the windowpane, as if the sky itself was trying to draw a map.

Jack: “You know, I used to think life had a blueprint. Work hard, earn well, love right. Simple equations. But somewhere between ambition and reality, the lines blurred.”

Jeeny: “That’s because you were chasing blueprints drawn by someone else.”

Jack: “And you? You think you’ve got it all figured out?”

Jeeny: “No. But I know when I’m lying to myself. Most people can’t even tell when they’re doing that anymore.”

Host: Her eyes softened as she said it. Not in judgment, but in sorrow — the kind that only compassion can carry.

Jack: “So, what are we supposed to do? Meditate our way out of confusion?”

Jeeny: “Maybe start with silence. You’d be amazed how much noise dies when you stop feeding it.”

Host: Jack took a sip of his coffee, grimacing slightly. It was bitter — but honest.

Jack: “You know, Covey was right. People are misdirected. They mistake motion for progress, reaction for wisdom. They’re running fast — but toward nothing.”

Jeeny: “Because running feels better than standing still. Stillness forces you to see yourself.”

Jack: “And maybe that’s the problem. People don’t want to see who they are. They’d rather be distracted than disappointed.”

Jeeny: “Then confusion becomes a shield. A convenient fog.”

Host: The lights flickered again, then steadied. The diner was empty now — just the two of them, two cups cooling, two truths slowly taking shape.

Jack: “Do you ever get tired, Jeeny? Of believing people can change?”

Jeeny: “All the time. But I also get tired of watching them suffer because they won’t.”

Jack: “You talk like someone who hasn’t been broken yet.”

Jeeny: “No, Jack. I talk like someone who decided not to stay broken.”

Host: A long silence followed. The kind of silence that builds bridges. Outside, the rain began to slow again, and the distant river shimmered faintly under the weak moonlight.

Jack: “You think Covey’s quote still applies now? I mean, back then, distraction meant TV or newspapers. Now it’s an entire digital addiction.”

Jeeny: “It applies more than ever. We’ve turned confusion into culture. People wear busyness like a badge. They fill every empty second — because they’re terrified of what silence might say.”

Jack: “And what does silence say to you?”

Jeeny: “It says, ‘You’re still here. You’re still responsible for your life.’”

Host: Jack looked out the window, his reflection faint in the glass — the city behind him, infinite and restless. He tapped the side of his cup, deep in thought.

Jack: “You know, sometimes I think clarity isn’t about finding answers. It’s about having the courage to admit we don’t have them.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. Awareness isn’t certainty. It’s humility.”

Host: The neon sign outside flickered one last time, casting the word Open in faint red glow over their faces.

Jeeny: “Maybe that’s what Covey meant — people aren’t just distracted by noise. They’re distracted from themselves. They’re afraid of the quiet that shows them who they’ve become.”

Jack: “And you?”

Jeeny: “I try to meet the quiet halfway.”

Jack: “That’s brave.”

Jeeny: “No. It’s necessary.”

Host: The camera would pull back then — the diner’s light a small island in an ocean of darkness. The two of them framed in that fragile glow — two souls caught between modern chaos and the longing for simplicity.

Outside, the rain stopped completely. The streetlights shimmered on the wet asphalt, and somewhere far away, the city took a deep, invisible breath.

Host: Because in the end, confusion isn’t the enemy — indifference is.
And the real tragedy isn’t that people are lost —
it’s that they’ve stopped wanting to be found.

Stephen Covey
Stephen Covey

American - Educator October 24, 1932 - July 16, 2012

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