It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.

It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.

22/09/2025
23/10/2025

It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.

It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonised as being PMS-y.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.
It's so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back.

Opening Scene
The evening sky was a rich, deep blue, the last rays of the sun fading into the horizon, leaving the room bathed in a soft, cool light. The hum of the city outside was faint, muffled by the closed windows of the small apartment. Jack sat at the edge of the couch, a drink in hand, his gaze distant, as though the weight of his thoughts was pulling him deeper into himself. Jeeny stood by the window, her hands pressed against the glass, watching the city lights flicker like distant stars. There was a quiet intensity between them, an unspoken conversation hanging in the air.

Host:
The scene was still, but not peaceful. There was a restlessness here — an unresolved energy that vibrated through the space. Jack’s eyes flickered toward Jeeny, as though he were waiting for her to say something. She finally turned, meeting his gaze, and for a moment, they shared a silent understanding.

Jeeny:
(voice calm, but with an underlying heat)
"It’s so rare to see a woman lose control and also gain it back. Women are always told, 'Oh, be in control of your feelings,' and a woman is never allowed to express her anger without being demonized as being PMS-y." (she shakes her head, her voice almost a whisper, but filled with undeniable conviction)
"Why is it that anger in a woman is always something to be feared or ridiculed?"

Jack:
(leaning forward slightly, his voice curious, but edged with skepticism)
"Because it challenges the way society wants to perceive women. Anger is something we’re taught is a masculine trait, right? When a woman shows it, it’s like everything we think we know about her changes. It disrupts the image we’re comfortable with." (he takes a sip from his drink, eyes not quite meeting hers)
"But… you’re saying that women should be allowed to lose control, even if it goes against the norm?"

Jeeny:
(she steps away from the window, her eyes locking with his, her tone now more forceful)
"Why not? Anger isn’t inherently bad, Jack. It’s a human emotion. But when a woman expresses it, suddenly it’s something that needs to be controlled, contained, like she’s about to explode. And if she doesn’t, then she’s labeled. Why do we only allow men to have that kind of freedom?" (she pauses, her fingers flexing at her sides)
"Why can’t women show their anger without being told it’s part of their hormones or their emotions? Why is it that women have to maintain this false sense of perfection?"

Host:
The room seemed to shrink slightly, the air thicker, as the conversation began to take shape between them. Jack’s posture softened, but his expression remained guarded. Jeeny’s words had clearly struck a chord, and she could see the shift — the flicker of recognition in his eyes. She wasn’t looking for his approval, but she was willing to push him to see her side.

Jack:
(voice low, almost a challenge)
"Okay, but isn’t there a difference between expressing anger and losing control? Losing control sounds chaotic, like it’s out of the person’s hands. Isn’t the ability to keep your emotions in check something that we all strive for? If you lose control, aren’t you putting yourself in a position where you’re vulnerable, even weak?"

Jeeny:
(firm, her voice unwavering)
"No, Jack. Losing control doesn’t make you weak; it makes you human. Women are expected to hold everything together, even when we’re hurting. We’re told to manage our emotions, to smile, to be pleasant, to never let our true feelings show. But who’s that really for? If we can’t express our anger, then we’re not fully expressing ourselves. We’re being held back from our true selves, from the freedom to feel all that we are." (she steps forward, her eyes intense now, voice filled with conviction)
"Control isn’t about suppression; it’s about knowing when it’s okay to let go. We shouldn’t have to hold everything inside just to fit into a mold that was never meant for us."

Host:
The silence that followed was thick with the weight of Jeeny’s words. Jack’s eyes lingered on her, his lips pressed together in thought. The flickering light from the city outside reflected off the window, casting a gentle glow on Jeeny’s face, making her appear almost ethereal, as though she were a force to be reckoned with. Jack shifted, his own thoughts running deeper, but he wasn’t ready to admit he understood fully.

Jack:
(voice quieter now, a bit more vulnerable)
"I see what you’re saying. But isn’t there a danger, though, in giving in to anger? What happens when it’s unchecked, when a woman loses control and isn’t able to rein it back in? Does it still have the same power then? Can you regain control once it’s gone too far?"

Jeeny:
(her voice softens for a moment, almost in understanding, but her words still carry weight)
"Regaining control doesn’t mean you’ve failed, Jack. It means you’ve found your strength in the vulnerability. Losing control doesn’t make you weak; it’s part of the process of being authentic. The power isn’t in holding back; it’s in knowing that even when you’ve lost it, you can find your way back. And when you do, it’s even more powerful, because it’s real, it’s raw, and it’s not forced."

Host:
The city outside seemed to grow darker, the shadows of the room deepening as the conversation unfolded. Jack’s eyes narrowed slightly as he processed her words. There was a quiet shift in him, a slow realization that perhaps what he thought he understood about control and power was more complicated than he had believed.

Jack:
(voice soft, reflective)
"I never thought about it like that. Maybe control isn’t about keeping everything in its place. Maybe it’s about giving yourself the space to be honest… even when it’s uncomfortable."

Jeeny:
(she smiles faintly, her voice gentle but resolute)
"Exactly, Jack. It’s about owning every part of yourself, even the parts you’re told to hide. Anger, vulnerability, strength — they’re all parts of the same whole. And once you own them, you stop being afraid of them." (she takes a deep breath, the quiet strength in her voice palpable)
"That’s when you become truly free."

Host:
The conversation settled into a quiet hum between them, the city’s lights glowing softly outside the window, casting a calming glow over the room. There was no easy answer, but the exchange had opened something within them both. For the first time, there was a sense of clarity between the complexity of emotions, control, and freedom.

In that stillness, the room felt alive with the understanding that sometimes, losing control is just the beginning of gaining something far more meaningful.

End Scene

Petra Collins
Petra Collins

Canadian - Artist Born: December 21, 1992

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