Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find

Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find

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Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.

Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find
Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find

Host: The evening stretched itself across the sky like a long sigh of fading gold. The chapel courtyard lay still, empty except for the soft flicker of candles in the stone lanterns. The scent of rain-soaked earth drifted upward, mingling with the distant sound of church bells tolling from somewhere beyond the hills.

Jack sat on the low steps beneath an old oak tree, his hands clasped together, eyes fixed on the dying light. His grey eyes were shadowed — not by anger, but by exhaustion, the quiet kind that lingers after too many battles fought in silence.

A few feet away, Jeeny knelt beside a small pool, where the water reflected both the sky and the flickering candles. She traced the surface gently, watching the ripples dissolve into stillness.

The Host’s voice flowed like twilight — gentle, contemplative, resonant with the ache of unspoken truths.

Host: The world holds its breath in such moments — the fragile peace between day and night, between wound and healing. Here, forgiveness is not yet a choice but a horizon, waiting for the heart to walk toward it.

Jeeny: softly “James E. Faust once said, ‘Most of us need time to work through pain and loss. We can find all manner of reasons for postponing forgiveness. One of these reasons is waiting for the wrongdoers to repent before we forgive them. Yet such a delay causes us to forfeit the peace and happiness that could be ours.’

Jack: lets out a quiet breath, bitterly amused “Peace and happiness. Easy to promise when you’re not the one bleeding.”

Jeeny: looks up at him gently “You think forgiveness is only for them?”

Jack: shakes his head “No. I think it’s a word people use to make suffering sound poetic.”

Jeeny: frowning softly “Forgiveness isn’t poetry, Jack. It’s surgery. It hurts because it heals.”

Jack: snorts “You talk like it’s simple. Someone betrays you, lies to you, ruins part of your life — and you just... what? Forgive them to feel better?”

Jeeny: quietly “To stop hurting yourself for what they did.”

Host: A faint wind stirred the leaves of the oak. The air was thick with the weight of old pain — the kind that hums beneath the skin, that knows no language except silence.

Jack: low, controlled “You don’t understand, Jeeny. Some things can’t be undone with goodwill. There are apologies that never come, and people who don’t deserve a clean slate.”

Jeeny: softly but firmly “Forgiveness isn’t a gift for them. It’s a release for you.”

Jack: his tone rising, eyes flashing “Then why does it feel like surrender?”

Jeeny: standing now, facing him “Because it is — but not to them. To reality. You can’t rewrite what happened. You can only stop carrying it.”

Jack: bitterly “If I let go, doesn’t that mean they win?”

Jeeny: steps closer, her voice trembling with quiet conviction “No, Jack. It means you stop losing.”

Host: The candles flickered harder as a breeze swept through the courtyard, scattering small petals across the stones. The light and shadow danced together — as if wrestling for meaning.

Jack: sitting back, staring at the ground “You make it sound easy. But it’s not. I’ve tried. I’ve tried to forgive... but it’s like digging at stone with bare hands.”

Jeeny: kneeling beside him “Then don’t start with forgiveness. Start with the wish to stop hating. Even that wish is a seed.”

Jack: quietly, almost whispering “And what if the person doesn’t care? What if they never repent? Never even look back?”

Jeeny: after a pause “Then you forgive for the sake of your own freedom. Waiting for them to be sorry gives them power over you. Forgiving without it gives that power back.”

Jack: half-laughing, half-choking “Power? It doesn’t feel like power. It feels like emptiness.”

Jeeny: gently “That’s because peace always feels empty after you’ve lived too long in pain.”

Host: The bells stopped. Silence spread like ink. Even the wind seemed to listen.

Jack: softly “You talk about forgiveness like it’s some spiritual high ground. But what if the pain is all you have left of someone? What if letting go feels like losing them twice?”

Jeeny: her voice trembling “Then grieve. But don’t build your house in the ruins. The past isn’t meant to be lived in, Jack — only learned from.”

Jack: eyes narrowing, voice low “You ever lost something that carved your heart out and left you hollow?”

Jeeny: after a long silence “Yes.”

Jack: looks at her, surprised “And you forgave?”

Jeeny: her eyes glistening “Not at first. I carried it like armor, thinking it kept me safe. But it only kept me cold. When I finally let go, I didn’t feel righteous. I just felt... lighter. Like stepping into sunlight after forgetting what warmth was.”

Host: A single tear slid down her cheek, catching the faint candlelight — not dramatic, just human. Jack saw it and said nothing. The moment hung between them, fragile and painfully alive.

Jack: after a pause “Maybe you’re right. Maybe holding on is its own kind of prison.”

Jeeny: softly “It is. Forgiveness doesn’t erase pain — it transforms it. Turns it into wisdom instead of weapon.”

Jack: with a faint smile “You sound like one of those monks who find peace in everything.”

Jeeny: smiling faintly through tears “No. I just learned that peace doesn’t come to find you. You have to make room for it.”

Jack: leans back, eyes closed, exhaling slowly “You think Faust was right? That waiting for someone else to be sorry just costs us happiness?”

Jeeny: nodding “Completely. Because forgiveness isn’t dependent on their awakening — it’s on yours.”

Jack: after a long silence “Then maybe forgiveness isn’t mercy... maybe it’s courage.”

Jeeny: quietly “The rarest kind.”

Host: The sky deepened — a bruised indigo stretching toward night. The first stars appeared, trembling faintly through the lingering clouds.

The candles in the courtyard burned lower, their flames steady now, no longer fighting the wind.

Jack: rubbing his face, voice low “So... I forgive, not because they deserve it, but because I do.”

Jeeny: softly “Yes. Because your peace matters more than their guilt.”

Jack: nodding slowly “That’s... hard.”

Jeeny: gently “Everything sacred is.”

Host: A long pause. The kind that holds more healing than words ever could. The world had grown quiet — as if the night itself was bowing its head in agreement.

Jeeny: after a moment “When you forgive, Jack, you stop letting the wound define you. It doesn’t mean forgetting. It means choosing peace over poison.”

Jack: looking at her, voice soft, almost breaking “And you think... one day, I’ll feel whole again?”

Jeeny: smiling faintly, her eyes warm through the twilight “Not whole. But free.”

Host: The camera rose slowly, framing them beneath the dark canopy of branches. Two souls in a courtyard of silence and flickering light — one learning to forgive, the other remembering how.

Above them, the sky cleared — a thin slice of moonlight breaking through the clouds, spilling onto their faces like quiet absolution.

And in that moment, Faust’s words echoed softly, carried by the wind:

“Forgiveness delayed is peace denied.”

To wait for remorse is to stay chained.
To forgive without it — is to walk free.

Host: The candles burned out one by one,
but the light — the quiet, unseen kind —
remained.

James E. Faust
James E. Faust

American - Clergyman July 31, 1920 - August 10, 2007

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