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In the words of R. Kelly, we are given a reflection on one of humanity’s oldest and most mysterious forces: “Music is very powerful and can make you feel whatever it is. If you listen to gospel, you’re going to feel thankful, and you’re going to want to call up people that you hate and tell them that you love them. When you listen to sexual music, it gets you in the mood.” This is a testimony to the transformative, almost divine nature of music, which moves not only the body but the soul. To say that it can make us “feel whatever it is” is to recognize its ability to bypass reason and touch the deepest chambers of the heart.

The ancients themselves revered this truth. Plato declared that rhythm and harmony “find their way into the inward places of the soul” and shape the very character of men. In this, R. Kelly’s observation is not new, but timeless: music is a tool of emotional transformation, able to stir us to gratitude, to love, to passion, or even to sorrow. It is the universal language, requiring no translation, speaking directly to the spirit of all who hear it.

He gives examples that illuminate this truth. The sound of gospel music, with its roots in faith and struggle, fills the heart with gratitude and reconciliation. Its harmonies remind us of grace, and its rhythms lift us above bitterness, making us long to forgive and to love. On the other hand, sexual music, with its pulsing beat and evocative tones, awakens desire and draws the body into union. In both cases, music is the invisible hand that shapes our emotions and directs our will.

History offers us countless illustrations. When David in the Hebrew Scriptures played his harp, the troubled King Saul found relief from his torments. The music did not change Saul’s circumstances, but it changed his spirit. Centuries later, in times of war, the sound of drums and trumpets carried soldiers forward into battle, giving them courage even when fear threatened to overwhelm. And in times of peace, lullabies have calmed children into sleep, showing that even the smallest heart is moved by melody. Such stories confirm what R. Kelly declares: music is power.

Yet with power comes responsibility. If music can stir us to thankfulness and reconciliation, it can also stir us to reckless passion, to anger, or to despair. Like fire, it warms and nourishes, but it can also consume. The ancients warned of this as well: Aristotle spoke of music’s ability to inflame dangerous emotions if not tempered by virtue. Thus, while we may rejoice in its gifts, we must also choose carefully what we feed our souls with, for music is not neutral—it always shapes.

The lesson for us is profound: we must become mindful listeners. Recognize that the songs we invite into our lives are not background noise but forces shaping our thoughts, desires, and relationships. Seek music that lifts you, that makes you thankful, that reconciles, that stirs you to noble action. But also understand the power of other music to awaken passion—receive it wisely, and with discernment, lest you be ruled by it instead of guided.

Practically, this means pausing before we listen and asking: What do I want this music to awaken in me? If gratitude, seek hymns and gospel. If courage, find the anthems of strength. If intimacy, let the rhythms of romance guide you, but with awareness. In doing so, you do not drift aimlessly in music’s current, but steer it like a ship toward your chosen destination.

Thus the wisdom of R. Kelly’s words endures beyond their simplicity. “Music is very powerful and can make you feel whatever it is.” This is not a mere observation, but an eternal truth: that music is the unseen hand that shapes the soul. Let us then give thanks for this gift, use it wisely, and let its melodies and rhythms guide us—not to destruction, but to reconciliation, gratitude, courage, and love.