My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest

My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest

22/09/2025
23/10/2025

My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.

My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest
My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest

Opening Scene – Narrated by Host

The afternoon sun hung low in the sky, casting a soft, golden glow across the countryside. The trees swayed gently in the breeze, their leaves rustling like an old, familiar song. Inside the small studio, the walls were lined with photographs, each image a frozen moment in time. Jack sat at a desk, his hands splayed out across a collection of photographs, each one blurred by the passing of time, yet still vivid with memories. His eyes were tired, searching, as if trying to make sense of a puzzle whose pieces were scattered just beyond reach.

Jeeny stood by the window, her gaze drifting out toward the horizon, though her mind was elsewhere. She had known Jack long enough to recognize when something heavy lingered in the air. Today, the silence between them felt particularly dense, like an unspoken question was hanging over both of them, waiting to be asked.

Host: The world outside seemed so still, yet inside, there was a quiet tension — the kind that could only be broken by a conversation that had been waiting for too long.

Jeeny: Her voice cut through the silence, gentle but filled with purpose. “Jack, I came across a quote today. It’s from Juergen Teller. He said, ‘My father never really encouraged me or even took an interest after I walked away from the family business. No one did except my mother and my grandfather. To be truthful, I cannot remember one meaningful conversation I had with my father.’ What do you think about that?”

Jack: His eyes lifted from the photographs, his gaze distant, like he had just stepped out of a memory that wasn’t his own. He exhaled slowly, the words hanging between them as he let them settle. “That... that’s a heavy thing to say. Not just about his father, but about family, about what we expect from the people who are supposed to be closest to us.”

He paused, his fingers tapping idly on the desk. “I’ve always had a strange relationship with family. It’s like, you grow up thinking there’s a path you’re supposed to follow, and when you don’t, when you step outside of it, it’s like you stop existing to the people who should matter the most.”

Jeeny: She turned to face him, her eyes soft but full of understanding. “But don’t you think that’s the thing? It’s not about following the path they want for you. It’s about finding your own, even when the people around you don’t see it or don’t support it. I think that’s what Teller is getting at — the disconnect, the silence that can come from a lack of understanding.”

She moved closer, her voice becoming more personal, more vulnerable. “Sometimes, the people who should encourage you the most are the ones who fail to see who you really are. It’s like they can’t see past their own expectations, their own idea of what your life should be. And that’s when you feel the most alone.”

Jack: He looked down at the photographs, his fingers brushing the edge of a faded picture, the black-and-white image almost lost in time. “I can relate to that. There’s this idea, this weight, that family can hold you up, give you guidance. But when you walk away, when you decide that your path isn’t the one they laid out for you, suddenly you’re left trying to figure things out by yourself. And sometimes, it feels like they don’t even see you anymore.”

He let out a quiet, almost bitter laugh. “It’s like the moment you step outside of the box they’ve built for you, you’re no longer a part of their world. You’re just… gone.”

Jeeny: Her gaze softened as she sat down beside him, her voice barely above a whisper. “But it’s not because they don’t love you, Jack. It’s because they can’t let go of the vision they have for you, the story they want to tell. They want you to fit into their idea of success, of happiness. And when you don’t, it makes them question everything.”

She reached out, her hand resting gently on his. “I think that’s what makes the absence of those conversations so painful. The silence isn’t just about the lack of words. It’s about the fact that no one is listening, no one is willing to see who you’ve become outside of their expectations.”

Jack: His fingers tightened slightly around hers, the weight of her words settling into him. “You know, I’ve been carrying this around for a long time. The idea that I should be grateful for what they gave me, for what they did, even when it didn’t feel like enough. But sometimes, I wonder if I’ll ever feel like I’ve had that real connection with them, that real understanding. If I’ll ever have one of those meaningful conversations.”

His voice faltered slightly, the vulnerability clear in his tone. “And I wonder if I’ll ever get it, you know? If I’ll ever feel seen, truly seen, by the people who were supposed to be there from the beginning.”

Jeeny: She smiled softly, her voice full of quiet comfort. “I don’t think it’s about getting that validation from them anymore, Jack. Sometimes, the people who should be there for us can’t give us what we need. And maybe that’s the hardest thing to accept.”

She squeezed his hand gently, her voice steady and confident. “But you don’t need them to understand you in order to understand yourself. You don’t need those conversations to find your own truth, your own path. Sometimes, we have to learn to listen to our own voices first, even if the people we care about can’t hear us.”

Jack: He looked up at her, the weight of his past finally starting to lift, just a little. “I’ve been afraid, you know? Afraid of never having those conversations, afraid of never really being seen for who I am. But maybe you’re right. Maybe I need to stop looking for it in others and start looking for it in myself.”

His voice was quieter now, filled with a kind of revelation. “Maybe I’ve been waiting for someone to give me the answers, instead of just figuring them out on my own.”

Host: The air in the room felt different now, the tension from earlier replaced by a soft, almost peaceful stillness. Outside, the world continued its quiet rhythm, but inside, something had shifted — a small but important realization.

As the conversation settled, it became clear that the meaningful conversations Jack had been searching for didn’t need to come from anyone else. They could start with him, from the acceptance that sometimes, the people who are meant to understand you the most simply can’t.

And in that space, there was a quiet freedom — the freedom to let go of the past and start finding answers, not in the words of others, but in the silence where you finally began to listen to yourself.

End Scene.

Juergen Teller
Juergen Teller

German - Photographer Born: January 28, 1964

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