My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in

My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in

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05/11/2025

My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.

My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in periods between marriages. My husband, however, grew up on a wonderful farm in Tuscany, in Florence, and his family was so entertaining in terms of growing their own food and using the fruit of their land. We have very, very different experiences.
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in
My mom did not have money. She was a single mom, on and off in

Host: The evening light was fading into amber and shadow, slipping through the half-open kitchen window of a small apartment that smelled faintly of tomatoes, basil, and something deeper — like time itself cooking.

Jeeny stood at the stove, stirring a pot of sauce with slow, careful motions, her hair pinned loosely, her hands moving with the muscle memory of someone who’d learned to make do. Jack leaned against the counter, one hand holding a glass of red wine, the other resting casually in his pocket.

The city outside hummed — cars, laughter, a dog barking, the restless symphony of urban survival. Inside, the world was smaller, softer, human.

Jeeny: “Debi Mazar once said her mother was a single mom who barely had money, and that her husband grew up on a farm in Tuscany — surrounded by abundance, by land that fed itself. She said, ‘We have very, very different experiences.’”

Jack: [smiling faintly] “Yeah, that sounds like half the marriages I know — a clash between hunger and harvest.”

Jeeny: “But it’s more than money, Jack. It’s memory. The way you grow up shapes how you taste the world. Some people learn to savor; others learn to survive.”

Host: The steam rose, curling through the fading light. The kitchen clock ticked steadily, the sound small but relentless — like time counting not minutes, but differences. Jack took a sip of wine, his grey eyes thoughtful.

Jack: “You make it sound poetic, but differences like that — they break people. You can’t build something lasting on opposite soil.”

Jeeny: “Maybe not lasting — but real. There’s beauty in that contrast. Her mother’s struggle and his abundance, both feeding something deeper. You can’t understand joy unless you’ve met hunger.”

Jack: “That’s something people without hunger like to say.”

Jeeny: “You think only the poor understand suffering?”

Jack: “No. I think the poor understand need. And need leaves scars you can’t share with someone who’s never had to count coins before dinner.”

Host: Jeeny stopped stirring. The wooden spoon clinked softly against the pot. Her eyes lifted toward him, dark and reflective like a pool just before a storm.

Jeeny: “My mother used to stretch a bag of rice for a week. She’d tell me that every grain mattered — not because it filled the stomach, but because it taught gratitude. I think of her every time I cook.”

Jack: “And yet here you are, in a kitchen full of food, quoting gratitude.”

Jeeny: “Because she taught me what it means to earn a full plate.”

Host: The air thickened with the scent of simmering sauce. Jack set his wine down, his expression softening slightly.

Jack: “You know, my father used to say comfort dulls you. He grew up poor too — worked his way out of it. But when he got money, he became… afraid of losing it. The farm, the work, the soil — it gives you stability. But it also traps you. Maybe Debi’s husband learned how to grow food, but not how to starve.”

Jeeny: “And maybe that’s exactly why their story works — because one knows how to grow and the other knows how to wait.”

Host: The window rattled softly as a breeze drifted in, carrying the scent of rain from the street below. The neon sign of a nearby bar flickered red against the kitchen wall, like a heartbeat pulsing through the dusk.

Jeeny: “Do you ever think love itself is built on different experiences? That we’re drawn to what we didn’t have?”

Jack: “Of course. That’s why rich kids date poets and poor kids chase dreamers. Everyone’s looking for the missing piece that’ll explain their story.”

Jeeny: “Or heal it.”

Jack: “Or at least make it sound like it makes sense.”

Host: Jeeny turned off the burner. The flame died with a soft click. She leaned on the counter, eyes distant, voice quieter now.

Jeeny: “When I read that quote, I didn’t just hear a story about class or food. I heard a woman reconciling two worlds inside her — her mother’s scarcity and her husband’s abundance. One taught her resilience, the other taught her rest. Maybe that’s the real paradox — how love asks us to hold both.”

Jack: “And if you can’t?”

Jeeny: “Then one side starves.”

Host: A long silence followed. Jack’s gaze lingered on the pot, on the soft steam curling into the air like something that remembered struggle but refused bitterness.

Jack: “You think people ever really escape where they come from?”

Jeeny: “No. But maybe that’s not the goal. Maybe the goal is to carry it without letting it define what you give.”

Jack: “So, what — you make peace with your ghosts by feeding them?”

Jeeny: “Sometimes. Sometimes by forgiving them.”

Host: The rain began — a steady, rhythmic whisper against the windowpane. Jack walked over, watching the water streak down the glass, the reflection of city lights shimmering like tears caught between worlds.

Jack: “You know, I envy people like that. The ones who grow up on farms, surrounded by rhythm and routine. The soil tells them what to do. They know what effort looks like — and what it gives back. People like me — city-born, convenience-fed — we only know how to want.”

Jeeny: “And yet, isn’t that hunger a kind of soil too? You grow things from it — dreams, art, defiance.”

Jack: “Maybe. But hunger without guidance just turns into longing.”

Jeeny: “Then maybe that’s what love is supposed to do — guide the hunger, not erase it.”

Host: The thunder rolled softly, a distant reminder of something bigger beyond their small kitchen. Jeeny took two plates from the cabinet, poured the sauce over pasta, and placed one in front of him.

Jeeny: “You see? Her mother’s story, his farm — they both end up here. One made her fight to create. The other taught her what creation looks like when it’s done with joy. That’s not contradiction — that’s balance.”

Jack: “You always find poetry in pain.”

Jeeny: “And you always find cynicism in beauty. Maybe that’s our balance.”

Host: They both smiled — weary but real. Jack twirled a forkful of pasta, tasting the sauce. His eyes flickered with the smallest, most reluctant spark of satisfaction.

Jack: “It’s good. Simple. Honest.”

Jeeny: “That’s how she would’ve made it — her mom.”

Jack: “And that’s how his mother would’ve served it — with wine, laughter, and the confidence that tomorrow’s field will feed them again.”

Jeeny: “Both mothers, both truths. The difference isn’t what they had — it’s what they made out of it.”

Host: Outside, the rain slowed. The streetlights glowed amber in the wet pavement, each reflection a small, trembling mirror of something half-remembered. Inside, the warmth of the meal spread through the quiet — the kind of warmth born not from luxury, but from understanding.

Jeeny lifted her glass.
Jeeny: “To different experiences.”

Jack lifted his too.
Jack: “And to finding a way to live between them.”

Host: The glasses touched with a soft, resonant clink, the kind of sound that lingers — like the echo of two worlds meeting in one small kitchen.

And for a moment, everything — poverty, abundance, hunger, love — tasted the same.

It tasted like belonging.

Debi Mazar
Debi Mazar

American - Actress Born: August 13, 1964

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