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Hear the timeless wisdom of Seneca, the Stoic sage, who declared: “No one can be happy who has been thrust outside the pale of truth. And there are two ways that one can be removed from this realm: by lying, or by being lied to.” In these words he reveals the sacred bond between happiness and reality. For truth is the soil in which peace and joy can take root; to be severed from it is to drift in a wasteland of illusion. Whether we exile ourselves through deceit or are betrayed by others’ deception, the result is the same: the soul is wounded, its harmony broken, its happiness withered.

The origin of this thought lies in Stoic philosophy, which taught that happiness is not pleasure but the alignment of one’s soul with virtue and reality. To live rightly, said Seneca, one must live in accordance with truth, with nature, and with reason. To lie is to betray one’s own soul, cutting oneself off from reality; to be lied to is to have one’s trust broken, shattering the foundation of human fellowship. In both cases, man is cast “outside the pale,” beyond the circle of trust and harmony where true happiness dwells.

History offers living proof. Consider the fall of Richard Nixon. In the Watergate scandal, the lies piled higher and higher until they consumed him. At first, deception seemed a shield, a way to preserve honor and power. But in the end, the lies became chains, dragging him down into disgrace. He had thrust himself outside the pale of truth, and with it, outside the possibility of peace. For though he held the highest office in the land, he could not be happy, for happiness does not dwell with deceit.

On the other side, think of the countless soldiers in history misled by their rulers. Men sent to war on false pretenses, told they fought for freedom or glory, when in truth they were pawns of ambition. To them, the wound of being lied to was as bitter as any on the battlefield. Their suffering was doubled—not only by blood and toil, but by betrayal. Such souls knew what Seneca warned: no man can be happy when cast from the realm of truth, even if it is not by his own hand but by the treachery of another.

The lesson is clear: happiness requires truth. The liar may win power, wealth, or favor, but he will never win peace. The deceived may gain comfort in illusions for a season, but sooner or later the mask falls, and sorrow floods in. Only in truth can the soul rest, for only in truth is there alignment with reality, and only in alignment with reality can joy endure. All else is shadow, all else is counterfeit.

O children of tomorrow, take this to heart: guard yourself against both sides of exile. Do not lie, for in so doing you sever yourself from the order of truth. Do not surrender easily to the lies of others, but test, question, and weigh carefully. Build your life on honesty in word and deed, and seek companions who honor the same. For only among those who love truth will you find the fellowship that breeds trust, and from trust, true happiness.

Therefore, let your practice be thus: speak the truth boldly, even when it costs you, for the price of honesty is less than the poverty of lies. And when you hear the words of others, examine them, lest you be deceived. If betrayed, do not let bitterness consume you, but return again to truth, for it is your home. Remember always that truth is not merely a principle but a realm, a sanctuary in which the soul can rest.

Thus Seneca’s wisdom stands eternal: “No one can be happy who has been thrust outside the pale of truth. And there are two ways that one can be removed from this realm: by lying, or by being lied to.” Let it be the compass of your life, for in truth is freedom, and in freedom, the only lasting happiness.