One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed

One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed

22/09/2025
23/10/2025

One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'

One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me - that of going up to town and 'doing a show.'
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed
One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed

Opening Scene
The December chill crept through the open window, bringing with it the faint scent of pine and snow. Soft light filtered through the curtains, casting long shadows on the floor. Outside, the world was covered in a blanket of white, the snow gently falling, muffling the usual sounds of the city. Inside, Jack sat by the window, staring out into the quiet. His cup of coffee sat untouched on the table, the steam slowly fading as his thoughts seemed to drift far away. Jeeny stood by the fireplace, the flickering flames casting a warm glow on her face as she watched the dancing embers, the crackling wood filling the silence between them.

Host:
The room felt calm, yet there was an underlying tension — a sense that the moment was about to shift. Jeeny turned toward Jack, her eyes gentle but probing, as if sensing that he was carrying something unspoken.

Jeeny:
“One Christmas build-up tradition, however, has totally bypassed me — that of going up to town and ‘doing a show.’” (her voice is soft, but there’s a trace of something playful in it)
“Do you know what that’s like? The pressure of these traditions, the expectations of what you should be doing, even if you don’t really feel like it?”

Jack:
(looking up at her, a faint smile on his lips, but his eyes remain distant)
“I get it. You mean those things people do because they’re supposed to — the traditions they don’t even enjoy, but still feel obligated to follow. It’s like they’re caught in this cycle of expectations, doing things that have no meaning to them anymore.” (he pauses, his tone growing more serious)
“But do you think it’s about the tradition itself, or is it the pressure we put on ourselves to fit into some idea of what we should be doing? That sense of obligation seems to define Christmas more than the actual spirit.”

Host:
Jeeny’s gaze softened as she moved closer to him, her voice taking on a quieter, more thoughtful tone. The crackling fire filled the room with a gentle warmth, but there was something else — a quiet understanding beginning to form between them.

Jeeny:
“I think it’s about the disconnect between what’s expected and what we actually feel. We’re told that Christmas is about family, joy, celebration — but what if you don’t feel that way? What if the pressure to do things ‘right’ makes it harder to enjoy the season, to find that real meaning? It’s easy to get lost in the tradition, in doing what everyone else expects.” (she turns her head toward the fire, her voice almost a whisper)
“But is that even what it’s about anymore? Or have we forgotten what these moments are supposed to mean?”

Jack:
(leaning back in his chair, his eyes drifting toward the window, the snow falling outside)
“Maybe that’s the trap of it all. We’re supposed to celebrate, but for some reason, it’s become more about doing what’s expected than actually connecting with the people around us, the real emotion of it. Christmas should be about a feeling, but instead, it often becomes a checklist. Go to the town, do the show, put on the perfect performance. And then you’re left wondering where the real joy went.” (he sighs, almost bitterly)
“I guess the irony is that the more we try to make it perfect, the less it feels genuine.”

Host:
The room grew still as Jeeny listened, her expression thoughtful, the flames from the fire casting shifting shadows across her face. The air seemed heavy with the weight of the conversation, the tension between expectation and authenticity hanging in the space between them.

Jeeny:
“You’re right. The more we chase the ideal, the more we lose the real experience of it. And it’s funny how we can be surrounded by people — family, friends — but still feel so alone, like we’re playing a role instead of living it. Maybe that’s why some of these traditions feel empty. It’s not about celebrating what truly matters to us; it’s about fulfilling someone else’s idea of what it should be.” (her voice takes on a softer tone, almost as though she’s speaking more to herself)
“I think maybe the hardest part is realizing that it’s okay to break out of that routine, to let go of what everyone else expects and find our own way of celebrating. We don’t have to follow the script.”

Jack:
(sitting up slightly, his voice quiet, but genuine)
“Maybe it’s not about doing everything ‘right,’ about fitting into some perfect picture. Maybe it’s about being honest with what we need, with what feels true for us in the moment. And that’s when Christmas — or any time — can really matter.” (he pauses, a thoughtful expression crossing his face)
“But, it’s hard. There’s so much pressure to keep up, to make everything seem perfect. The hardest part is stepping outside of it, isn’t it?”

Jeeny:
(nods slowly, her eyes warm but serious)
“It is. But sometimes, breaking free of that pressure is the only way to reconnect with what really matters. We can get so caught up in the expectations, the idea of what we’re supposed to do, that we forget the real reason we’re doing it. And once we let go of that, we might just find that the true spirit of the season — or any moment — comes when we allow ourselves to be present, not just in the tradition, but in the truth of what we need in that time.”

Host:
The conversation hung between them, a quiet revelation filling the space. The fire crackled softly in the background, the snow outside still falling in a delicate dance. The weight of the world seemed to have paused, just for a moment, as Jack and Jeeny found a shared understanding — that the value of a moment, any moment, wasn’t in perfection, but in authenticity.

Jack:
(quietly, a soft smile forming)
“Maybe we need to stop trying to make everything perfect. And instead, just let things happen the way they’re supposed to.”

Jeeny:
(smiling gently, her voice a bit lighter)
“Exactly. Authenticity is the best gift we can give, to others and to ourselves.”

Host:
The room felt warmer now, as if the shared insight had softened the air between them. The snow outside continued to fall, but inside, Jack and Jeeny had come to a quiet resolution. They didn’t need to follow the script. The real gift was in the connection, the honesty, and the willingness to be present, not for the world’s expectations, but for each other.

End Scene

Julie Burchill
Julie Burchill

British - Journalist Born: July 3, 1959

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