One forgives to the degree that one loves.

One forgives to the degree that one loves.

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One forgives to the degree that one loves.

One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.
One forgives to the degree that one loves.

Host: The night was made of moonlight and memories.
The air was cool, fragile, whispering through the open windows of an old church perched on a lonely hill. Candles flickered in uneven rows along the stone walls, their flames trembling like fragile hearts. The faint scent of incense clung to the air — that holy, smoky perfume of reflection and remorse.

At the altar’s edge sat Jack — tall, silent, his grey eyes fixed on the wooden crucifix above. The pews behind him were empty, save for Jeeny, who knelt at the end of one row, her hands resting loosely, not in prayer, but thought.

Outside, the world slept. Inside, two souls kept vigil.

Jeeny’s voice came softly, breaking the silence as though afraid to disturb the ghosts that lingered.

Jeeny: “François de La Rochefoucauld once said, ‘One forgives to the degree that one loves.’”

Host: Her words floated through the stillness like a confession. The flames quivered. Jack did not move.

Jack: “Then I suppose that’s why I can’t forgive. There’s nothing left in me that loves.”

Host: His tone was dry, almost cruel — but beneath it was a tremor, the quiet ache of a wound too deep to hide.

Jeeny: “That’s not true. You love, Jack. You just hate that you still do.”

Host: He turned, and for a moment his face caught the candlelight — sharp, weary, half shadow, half surrender.

Jack: “Love and forgiveness — people tie them together like saints and miracles. But love can live with bitterness. It does, every day. People love those who ruin them.”

Jeeny: “No, Jack. They only think they do. What you’re talking about is attachment — the ghost of love. Real love forgives because it can’t help itself.”

Host: The church bell groaned somewhere high above, marking the late hour. The sound echoed through the empty hall like time itself sighing.

Jack: “So you think forgiveness is inevitable?”

Jeeny: “No. I think it’s inevitable only for the brave.”

Host: She stood and walked toward him, her steps soft against the stone floor. The candlelight wrapped her in gold as she spoke.

Jeeny: “To forgive is to look at pain and say, ‘You no longer own me.’ That’s love — not for the other person, but for yourself.”

Jack: “And what if forgiving them means forgetting what they did?”

Jeeny: “Then you’re not forgiving, you’re erasing. Forgiveness remembers — it just refuses to bleed again.”

Host: Her eyes glistened — not with tears, but with understanding. She stopped beside him, her voice quieting.

Jeeny: “Who is it you can’t forgive, Jack?”

Host: The question hung in the air like smoke. Jack’s jaw tightened. His hands clenched together. For a long while, he said nothing.

Jack: “My brother.”

Host: The words came out like rust — harsh, reluctant, painful. The flickering candles seemed to lean in, listening.

Jack: “He lied to me. Stole from me. Left me with the blame. I covered for him — out of love, I told myself. But when everything fell apart, he didn’t even look back. That was five years ago. I haven’t spoken to him since.”

Jeeny: “And yet, you still carry him.”

Jack: “I carry the wreckage. Not him.”

Jeeny: “No. The wreckage is him — and you. Forgiveness isn’t about freeing him. It’s about freeing yourself from living in that wreckage.”

Host: He looked away, his shoulders heavy, his voice fraying around the edges.

Jack: “You talk like forgiveness is divine.”

Jeeny: “It’s not divine. It’s human. That’s why it’s so hard.”

Host: A draft swept through the church, extinguishing one of the candles. The flame vanished, but the scent of smoke lingered — a quiet metaphor made real.

Jeeny: “La Rochefoucauld understood something people forget — forgiveness isn’t proportional to the sin, but to the love that survives it. The less you love, the less you forgive. But if love remains — even a spark — it’s enough.”

Jack: “And what if love is what broke you?”

Jeeny: “Then forgiveness is how you keep it from breaking you again.”

Host: Jack’s breath came slow, deliberate, as though each inhale fought against the weight pressing on his chest. He looked at the crucifix again — the carved wooden face gazing down, serene, sorrowful.

Jack: “You believe forgiveness redeems people?”

Jeeny: “No. It redeems the forgiver.”

Jack: “Then it’s selfish.”

Jeeny: “Maybe. But the kind of selfishness that heals, not harms.”

Host: A long silence followed. The rain outside began to fall, faint but steady — like a soft applause for the honesty in the air.

Jeeny sat beside him now, her hand resting lightly on the pew between them.

Jeeny: “You know, forgiveness doesn’t start with love. It ends with it. It begins with truth — with saying, ‘I’m still hurt, but I want to stop being.’”

Jack: “And you think love does the rest?”

Jeeny: “Love is the only thing strong enough to.”

Host: Jack’s eyes glistened faintly in the candlelight. His voice, when it came, was a whisper — the kind spoken only when one’s pride has finally collapsed under its own weight.

Jack: “I used to think hate kept me alive. Now I think it’s what’s killing me.”

Jeeny: “Then let it die. Hate doesn’t make you strong, Jack. It just gives you company in your loneliness.”

Host: She turned her face toward him, her expression gentle but firm.

Jeeny: “Forgive him — not because he deserves it, but because you do.”

Host: A tear escaped him, unexpected, as if the heart had finally taken over what logic refused to surrender.

Jack: “If forgiveness is love, then I’m not sure I’ve ever loved anyone enough.”

Jeeny: “Then start now — with yourself.”

Host: The church fell utterly silent. Even the rain seemed to pause, as if the world were holding its breath. Jack’s head bowed. His hands opened, resting loosely in his lap.

And in that quiet — no miracles, no revelations — something shifted. It wasn’t peace. It wasn’t even resolution. It was the soft, trembling beginning of release.

Jeeny: “You see, love isn’t the absence of pain. It’s the decision to keep reaching through it.”

Jack: “And forgiveness?”

Jeeny: “It’s the proof that you did.”

Host: The last candle guttered, its flame wavering, then steadied again — fragile, yet enduring.

Outside, the storm began to break. The clouds thinned. A single thread of moonlight slipped through the stained glass, landing across the pew where they sat.

Jack looked at it — pale, pure, merciful.

He whispered, almost to himself: “Maybe he didn’t know how to love either.”

Jeeny: “Then love for both of you. That’s forgiveness.”

Host: The moonlight stayed, quiet and unwavering, like a silent benediction over their conversation.

The night no longer felt heavy — just full.

And somewhere deep in that sacred stillness, forgiveness — fragile, human, incomplete — took its first breath.

Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

French - Writer September 15, 1613 - March 17, 1680

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