Our inner beliefs trigger failure before it happens. They
Our inner beliefs trigger failure before it happens. They sabotage lasting change by canceling its possibility. We employ these beliefs as articles of faith to justify our inaction and then wish away the result. I call them belief triggers.
Host: The city slept beneath a shroud of fog, its lights dull and flickering like dying embers. A coffee shop near the edge of the financial district stayed open past midnight — its windows glowing faintly against the dark, like a sanctuary for those who couldn’t sleep.
Inside, the air hummed with the low murmur of the espresso machine. The smell of burnt beans mingled with the cold scent of rain-soaked pavement. Two figures sat by the far window — Jack, still in his office clothes, tie loosened, eyes hard but tired; and Jeeny, in a long gray coat, her hands wrapped around a steaming cup as if holding warmth itself hostage.
On the table between them lay an open notebook, its pages filled with scratched-out goals and empty resolutions.
Jeeny: “Marshall Goldsmith once said, ‘Our inner beliefs trigger failure before it happens.’ He called them belief triggers.”
Jack: (leans back) “Yeah, I’ve read that. Sounds like psychology dressed up as philosophy.”
Jeeny: “Maybe. But it’s true, isn’t it? We kill change before it’s born — not because it’s impossible, but because we convince ourselves it is.”
Jack: (snorts) “Or maybe because most change is impossible. People don’t just rewrite who they are, Jeeny. They just learn to tolerate the version of themselves they hate the least.”
Host: The steam from the coffee rose in thin ribbons, curling in the air like thoughts escaping their own containment. Outside, a taxi splashed through a puddle, its lights glancing off the glass — two worlds separated by reflection.
Jeeny: “You really believe that? That people can’t change?”
Jack: “I believe people don’t. They talk about it, they dream about it, they even write about it in notebooks like that one. But they never do it. You know why? Because the second they get close, their own mind whispers, You’ll fail again. And guess what — it’s right.”
Jeeny: “That’s exactly what Goldsmith meant. The whisper is the trigger. The failure doesn’t come from reality — it comes from belief. From the story we write before the first act even starts.”
Jack: (takes a sip) “You sound like one of those motivational speakers who charge five hundred bucks to tell people they’re their own prison.”
Jeeny: (smiles faintly) “Maybe the prison metaphor sticks because it’s true.”
Host: The rain began again — soft, deliberate, steady. The sound filled the silence that stretched between them. Jack’s reflection stared back from the window — distorted, fractured by droplets, like a man made of doubts.
Jeeny: “Do you remember when you used to paint?”
Jack: (eyes narrowing) “That was a lifetime ago.”
Jeeny: “No, it wasn’t. You stopped because your first exhibition didn’t sell. You told yourself the world didn’t want your art. But what really happened was that you believed it didn’t — and that belief became prophecy.”
Jack: (defensive) “I had bills to pay. Real life doesn’t care about passion, Jeeny. It rewards predictability. You call it self-sabotage — I call it survival.”
Jeeny: “But there’s a difference between surviving and existing. You didn’t stop painting because life forced you. You stopped because you convinced yourself it wasn’t worth failing again.”
Jack: “So what? You think all it takes is belief? That if I just believe I can change, the universe will bow to my optimism?”
Jeeny: “No. Belief doesn’t create success — it permits it. It opens the door. Without that, even the smallest step becomes impossible.”
Host: The clock on the wall ticked softly, marking the seconds like quiet accusations. Jack’s fingers traced the rim of his cup, the faint clink of porcelain betraying the tremor in his hand.
Jack: “You want to know what I really believe? I think we’re all born with a limited supply of courage. We spend it early — on dreams, on risks, on love — and by the time life punches hard enough, there’s none left. Just the echo of what could’ve been.”
Jeeny: “That’s the saddest thing you’ve ever said.”
Jack: “It’s the truest.”
Jeeny: “No, Jack. It’s your belief trigger talking. The one that keeps you safe from hope because hope demands effort. You tell yourself you’re realistic, but you’re just afraid of disappointment.”
Jack: (angry now) “Don’t psychoanalyze me. You think you’re immune? You’re the same. You stay in the same job, same apartment, same routines — all while preaching about faith and change. You’re scared too.”
Jeeny: (quietly) “Yes. But I admit it. That’s how I fight it.”
Host: The air between them thickened. The sound of the espresso machine hissed like a warning. Jeeny’s eyes glimmered with unshed tears, but her voice stayed calm — fragile, yet unyielding.
Jeeny: “You see, belief triggers don’t just stop us from changing. They stop us from admitting that we can. We hide behind logic, practicality, excuses — all to avoid saying, I’m afraid of what I might become if I tried and failed.”
Jack: “Maybe failure isn’t the fear. Maybe it’s success. Because once you become what you want, you can’t hide behind potential anymore. You have to live it.”
Jeeny: “And that’s still a belief trigger, Jack. I’m afraid of who I’ll be if I succeed. You turn every door into a wall before you even touch the handle.”
Host: Outside, a passing train rumbled through the night, its sound rolling like thunder through the empty streets. The faint tremor shook the window, and the reflection of the two of them shimmered — two figures in conversation, ghosts wrestling with themselves.
Jack: (softly) “You think people like us can unlearn that?”
Jeeny: “I think we have to. Otherwise we live our lives rehearsing failure instead of preventing it.”
Jack: “So what do we do? Repeat affirmations in the mirror? Pretend confidence until it becomes real?”
Jeeny: (smiles) “No. Start smaller. Catch the thought before it becomes prophecy. Every time you hear that whisper — you can’t, you won’t, you’ll fail — pause. Ask who’s speaking. You’ll find it’s not truth. It’s habit.”
Jack: “Habit feels safer than hope.”
Jeeny: “And that’s exactly why it kills you slower.”
Host: The rain had stopped now. The world outside was slick and still, the streetlights glinting off the pavement like fragments of forgotten dreams.
Jack: “You know, I used to think failure was proof that I wasn’t good enough. Now I wonder if it was just proof that I quit too early.”
Jeeny: “That’s what change sounds like — not dramatic, not cinematic — just a quiet maybe whispered in the dark.”
Jack: (half-smiling) “You and your poetry.”
Jeeny: “It’s not poetry. It’s permission.”
Host: The neon sign outside flickered — OPEN — its reflection shimmering across their faces. Jack’s expression softened, the edges of his cynicism crumbling just slightly.
Jack: “So belief triggers — they’re not lies we tell ourselves. They’re fears we mistake for logic.”
Jeeny: “Exactly. They masquerade as realism but they’re really just resignation wearing a suit.”
Jack: “Then maybe it’s time I fired my inner realist.”
Jeeny: “Start with one decision you’ve postponed — and don’t let your belief talk you out of it.”
Jack: (after a pause) “Alright. Tomorrow… I’ll paint again.”
Jeeny: (smiling through her tears) “Good. Tomorrow, I’ll quit pretending I’m content.”
Host: The camera lingered on the table — two half-empty cups cooling beside a notebook now open to a blank page. Outside, the fog began to lift, revealing a faint outline of dawn through the city’s steel skyline.
For the first time, the window’s reflection didn’t look like two ghosts — but two people waking up.
Host: The morning crept slowly through the glass, bathing the room in soft light.
Jack and Jeeny sat in silence, neither speaking, but both changed. Not by revelation — but by the quiet understanding that belief is both the enemy and the key.
And in that fragile, glowing moment, the world seemed to whisper:
"Change doesn’t begin with action. It begins with permission to believe again."
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