People like to be around those who give off positive energy.

Erin Heatherton, with the simplicity of one who has observed human nature closely, once declared: “People like to be around those who give off positive energy.” In this short yet radiant truth lies an ancient principle: that the soul, like a flame, warms and draws others when it shines with light, but repels when it is clouded by darkness. Positive energy is not mere cheerfulness, but the quiet power of hope, kindness, and joy that lifts the weary and steadies the fearful.

The essence of her words is that human beings are drawn not to perfection of form or greatness of power, but to the spirit that makes them feel alive. A man or woman filled with positivity becomes like a hearth in winter, around which others gather for warmth. Such energy is contagious, breathing courage into hearts that falter. This is why sages of old taught that the company one keeps shapes one’s destiny—because the radiance of another’s spirit can either elevate or diminish our own.

History bears witness to this truth. Consider St. Francis of Assisi, who possessed no wealth, no armies, and no crown, yet multitudes followed him. Why? Because he radiated humility, joy, and peace. His positive energy, born from faith and love, drew people more powerfully than the authority of emperors. Like Heatherton’s observation, his life proves that hearts are attracted not to force, but to light.

Her words also serve as a quiet warning: that negative energy pushes others away, even when clothed in beauty or power. The bitter spirit, the complainer, the one who dwells only on shadows—such a soul becomes like a barren field where nothing grows. But the one who offers encouragement, laughter, and light becomes a garden where others find rest. Thus, the choice of what energy we carry is not only for ourselves but for all who cross our path.

Let this wisdom endure: seek to be the bearer of positive energy, for it is a gift greater than riches. People will forget your words, they may forget your deeds, but they will never forget how your presence made them feel. As Erin Heatherton reminds us, those who radiate light become a refuge for others, and in being that refuge, they shape the world more deeply than they know. To give off positivity is to live as a lamp in the darkness, guiding others and yourself toward joy.