Perfectionism and procrastination have such a fine line. You
Perfectionism and procrastination have such a fine line. You say, 'Well, I want it to be good. I want it to be perfect.' But what you're really doing is not doing your work. You're putting off showing up and being visible because then you're going to be judged, and it might suck.
The words of Jen Sincero—“Perfectionism and procrastination have such a fine line. You say, ‘Well, I want it to be good. I want it to be perfect.’ But what you’re really doing is not doing your work. You’re putting off showing up and being visible because then you’re going to be judged, and it might suck.”—strike at one of the deepest struggles of the human spirit: the battle between fear and creation. Spoken with blunt honesty, these words expose the mask of perfectionism for what it often is: not the pursuit of excellence, but the avoidance of risk, the refusal to face the judgment of others, and the fear that one’s work will be found wanting.
When she says “perfectionism and procrastination have such a fine line,” Sincero names a danger that has ensnared thinkers, writers, and creators for centuries. For on the surface, perfectionism appears noble—the desire to do something flawlessly, to honor the work by making it immaculate. But hidden beneath lies procrastination, disguised as refinement: the endless delaying of action, not to improve the work, but to avoid the moment of exposure. In this way, perfectionism becomes a polished prison, keeping the soul from ever stepping forth.
The ancients knew this trap well. Consider the tale of Hesiod, who wrote of the farmer who waits for perfect conditions to plant his seeds. While he delays, watching the sky for the right sign, his neighbors cast their seeds upon the soil and reap a harvest. The perfectionist farmer, in seeking flawless timing, ends with nothing. So too does Sincero remind us: those who wait for perfection are in truth avoiding the work itself, and in their hesitation, they forfeit their harvest.
When she warns of “putting off showing up and being visible,” she reveals the heart of the matter: fear of judgment. To create is to stand exposed, to bring forth something from within and let the world weigh it. The artist fears the critic, the speaker fears the silence of the crowd, the dreamer fears the sneer of the doubter. And so they hide their work beneath the excuse of perfectionism. Yet in truth, the only way to escape judgment is to never act, and that, too, is a judgment—of cowardice, of wasted potential.
History offers us a heroic example in Michelangelo, who, when tasked with painting the Sistine Chapel, declared himself a sculptor, not a painter. For years, he resisted, afraid of ridicule, afraid of failure. But at last, he took brush in hand, and though he trembled, his imperfect strokes became immortal. Had he waited until he felt himself “perfect,” the ceiling would have remained bare. His greatness was not in avoiding imperfection, but in daring to work despite it.
The meaning of Sincero’s words is therefore both simple and profound: perfectionism is often a mask for fear, and fear disguises itself as virtue. To conquer it, one must act—not when conditions are flawless, but when the call to act arrives. Excellence is born not from endless delay, but from practice, courage, and the willingness to be judged. For judgment, though painful, is the forge in which true mastery is shaped.
For us, the lesson is clear: do not confuse hesitation with care. Do not let the dream of “perfect” prevent you from creating something good. Begin your work, however flawed, and let it grow. Show up, even if your voice trembles. Share, even if your hands shake. The world does not need your perfection; it needs your presence.
The practical action is this: each day, choose one task you have delayed for fear of imperfection, and do it. Publish the draft, sing the song, build the project, speak the truth. Let the work be imperfect, but let it be real. For in showing up, you honor yourself more than in hiding. Thus, let us pass down this teaching: perfectionism without action is procrastination; courage without perfection is progress. And in progress, the soul becomes free.
ANLan Anh Nguyen
This quote from Jen Sincero made me reflect on how often perfectionism has delayed my progress. The fear of doing something ‘imperfectly’ can stop us from trying at all. What if the goal isn’t to be perfect but to simply start and keep improving? How do we change our mindset to see imperfections as opportunities for growth, rather than as reasons to avoid showing up altogether?
MDNguyen Nhuoc Minh Duc
Jen Sincero’s quote reveals how perfectionism is often just an excuse for procrastination. The desire for perfection can paralyze us, especially when we fear judgment or failure. But how do we distinguish between the drive for excellence and the fear of imperfection? How can we push through the discomfort of showing up imperfectly and realize that the value comes from the work, not the perfection of the result?
DKDang Khoa
Sincero’s words really make me question how often perfectionism has kept me from completing tasks or projects. In trying to make something perfect, I’ve found myself delaying or avoiding the work altogether. How do we learn to trust that our best efforts, even if imperfect, are enough? What steps can we take to recognize when we’re stalling due to perfectionism, and how can we push through that fear of judgment?
TMThuong Minh
Jen Sincero’s observation on perfectionism and procrastination makes me think about how often we stall because we want things to be flawless. But in doing so, we miss the opportunity to grow. Is the fear of being judged really holding us back more than we realize? How can we reframe our thoughts to focus on progress rather than perfection, and feel okay with being judged along the way?
DHan dau hoai
This quote from Jen Sincero highlights how perfectionism can be a form of procrastination. The fear of judgment and the desire to make everything perfect often stop us from taking action. But what if we stopped focusing so much on the end result and simply allowed ourselves to be visible and imperfect? How much more could we accomplish if we embraced vulnerability instead of waiting for everything to be 'just right'?