Take motherhood: nobody ever thought of putting it on a moral

Hearken, O children of reflection, to the words of Barbara Ehrenreich, a voice of clarity and provocation: “Take motherhood: nobody ever thought of putting it on a moral pedestal until some brash feminists pointed out, about a century ago, that the pay is lousy and the career ladder nonexistent.” In these words lies a piercing truth, one that calls forth both admiration and contemplation: motherhood, long veiled in expectation and tradition, is an endeavor of unmatched toil, yet it has too often been cloaked in silence and unrecognized labor. Only when the voices of bold women rose to illuminate this reality did the world see the depth, the struggle, and the unheralded sacrifice inherent in the raising of children.

The ancients understood that the raising of a child is no minor task. From the fireside of early civilizations to the courts of kings, the mother’s role has been pivotal—yet seldom formally honored. Ehrenreich reminds us that it took the courage of those “brash feminists” to demand recognition for what was long assumed, undervalued, and invisible. They drew attention not to diminish motherhood, but to reveal that the work is both critical and chronically unremunerated. This acknowledgment elevates motherhood not with hollow praise, but with truth—a recognition that it is laborious, essential, and deserving of respect.

Consider the life of Lillian Gilbreth, a pioneer in industrial psychology and efficiency, who was also a mother of twelve. She labored both in her career and in her home, innovating time-saving techniques for kitchens and workplaces, all while raising a family. Gilbreth’s life exemplifies Ehrenreich’s point: motherhood is demanding, unending, and historically unacknowledged in the ledger of societal reward. Yet her work, bridging domestic toil and professional ingenuity, illuminated the value of care, management, and labor that often goes unseen—a testament to the heroic, patient, and intelligent labor of mothers everywhere.

Ehrenreich’s words carry a subtle challenge: society has long cloaked motherhood in sentimentality and moral expectation, rather than recognizing it as demanding work. The pedestal, erected in moralizing tones, obscures the tangible struggles—the sleepless nights, the physical exhaustion, the unending responsibilities. By highlighting the “pay is lousy and the career ladder nonexistent,” she forces a reckoning with reality, insisting that recognition, support, and structural change are not merely gifts, but necessities for those who undertake the sacred, yet undervalued, work of raising life.

Across history, countless mothers have labored in anonymity, sustaining families, educating children, and shaping society with little acknowledgment. From the medieval nuns who preserved knowledge in monasteries while raising novices, to the mothers of industrial cities who balanced long hours in factories with domestic care, the truth is consistent: motherhood is essential labor, but one that society has too often taken for granted. Ehrenreich’s insight reminds us to honor not only the moral virtue traditionally ascribed to mothers, but the tangible, relentless work that sustains generations.

The lesson emerges with clarity: recognize the labor of motherhood, honor it, and ensure that those who nurture the next generation receive the support, acknowledgment, and dignity they deserve. To ignore the toil, to glorify only its moral symbolism, is to perpetuate injustice and invisibility. True wisdom lies in seeing both the love and the labor, the joy and the exhaustion, the nurturing and the effort that mothers invest day by day.

Practical guidance flows from this understanding: provide tangible support to mothers—through fair compensation in workplaces, shared domestic responsibilities, and social recognition. Value the work not just in sentiment, but in practical structures that alleviate burden, sustain health, and empower growth. Acknowledge the invisible architecture of society, built upon the ceaseless labor of mothers, and honor it with both gratitude and action.

And so, let the teaching resonate: motherhood is labor, love, and legacy, deserving of both moral appreciation and tangible recognition. To honor it fully is to recognize the power, sacrifice, and brilliance of those who raise the next generation, not merely on a pedestal of sentiment, but within the enduring structures of society that reflect their true value and essential role.

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