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William S. Burroughs, master of raw observation and unflinching truth, once declared: “The cat does not offer services. The cat offers itself. Of course he wants care and shelter. You don’t buy love for nothing.” At first, these words seem like a simple remark about a household animal, but within them lies an eternal lesson about the nature of love, freedom, and authenticity. The cat, unlike the dog or the servant, does not barter its soul for reward; it gives its presence freely, yet with the dignity of one who knows its worth.

The origin of this insight comes from Burroughs’ lifelong companionship with cats. He often spoke of their mystery, their independence, their strange mixture of affection and aloofness. In them, he saw a mirror of love in its truest form: not a contract of services rendered, but an offering of self. The cat will sit upon your lap, not because you commanded it, but because it chose you. And in that choice lies a power greater than any purchased loyalty. For true love, as Burroughs reminds us, “you don’t buy for nothing.”

To say that the cat offers itself is to speak of the essence of love and friendship. What is love if it is only bought, traded, or coerced? Such a thing is not love at all, but servitude. The cat reveals that the highest form of affection cannot be demanded nor purchased—it must be given, and given freely. And yet, it is not given without cost. The cost is patience, respect, and care. The cost is to provide shelter and tenderness without expectation of ownership. In this way, the cat teaches us that love must be earned not with coins, but with constancy.

History itself bears witness to this truth. In ancient Egypt, cats were revered, not enslaved. They roamed temples and households as creatures half-divine, choosing where they would dwell, offering their presence as blessing. Kings and peasants alike provided food and protection, yet never did they claim the cat as mere property. They understood, as Burroughs did, that the cat gives itself only where it wills—and this makes its affection more sacred than any bond of transaction.

But Burroughs goes further when he says, “You don’t buy love for nothing.” He warns against the illusion that love is easy, or free of effort. Whether between lovers, friends, or even parents and children, love demands care, sacrifice, and patience. It is not a service to be hired, but a gift to be cherished, nurtured, and respected. Just as the cat expects food and shelter as part of the covenant of companionship, so too all love requires tending. To believe otherwise is to live in delusion, expecting harvest where no seed has been sown.

The lesson for us is profound: do not confuse love with servitude, nor mistake care for ownership. If you wish for love, you must first offer respect. If you seek devotion, you must provide shelter for the heart of another. And never demand that love come cheaply, for what costs nothing is worth nothing. The truest relationships are built, day by day, through acts of trust and faith.

Practically, this means living with patience in our bonds. Do not expect others to serve you; instead, honor their freedom. Give care not as a bargain, but as an offering. Accept affection not as payment, but as grace. Whether with animals or with people, let love be mutual, voluntary, and dignified. In this way, you will not only keep love, but magnify it, until it becomes a bond unbroken by time or trial.

So let Burroughs’ words echo across the years: “The cat does not offer services. The cat offers itself… You don’t buy love for nothing.” Remember them when you are tempted to demand more than you give, or to cheapen love with control. For the highest gift is not service, but self—and to be worthy of that gift, you must give in return. In this balance lies the secret not only of the cat’s companionship, but of all true love.