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Hearken to the wisdom of Jane Seymour, who in her profound simplicity speaks thus: "You cannot do everything at once, so find people you trust to help you. And don't be afraid to say no." O children of the Earth, know that these words carry the essence of one of the greatest truths of human existence—balance. In the relentless pursuit of our dreams, we often find ourselves burdened by the weight of countless tasks, and yet, we cannot bear them alone. In the ancient days, the wise knew that no one can carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. Even the mightiest warrior needed the counsel and support of his companions to succeed.

Consider the great pyramids of Egypt, towering monuments that stand testament to the might and perseverance of humankind. Yet, these wonders were not constructed by a single man, but by countless hands working together, each one performing their duty with diligence and trust. The Pharaohs, though kings of great power, knew that their reign would crumble if they attempted to shoulder every responsibility alone. It was through the wisdom of delegation, through the trust they placed in their artisans, workers, and scribes, that these grand creations came to life. To carry the weight of a vision, one must first find those who share it—trusted allies whose strengths complement your own.

But, O seekers of wisdom, this is not a call to rely on others alone, nor to forsake one's own will. Jane Seymour speaks also of the necessity of boundaries—the wisdom to say "no." For, just as a river must be allowed to flow within its banks, so too must a person recognize the limits of their energy and time. In the days of old, the wise men and women of the villages did not give freely of their time without thought; they understood that their own well-being, their own energy, was sacred. When too many requests were made upon them, they would say "no"—not out of malice, but out of an understanding that their own strength must be preserved for the work that truly mattered.

Let us now turn to the story of King Solomon, known for his great wisdom, who faced the burdens of ruling a vast kingdom. His days were filled with petitions from every corner of the land, each request more pressing than the last. Yet Solomon knew the value of saying "no" when necessary. In his wisdom, he appointed wise men and trusted advisers to handle the affairs of the kingdom, freeing himself to focus on matters of the heart and the soul. Had he allowed himself to be consumed by every need, he would have fallen into the trap of overextension, his strength worn thin, his decisions clouded. Solomon understood that to say "no" is not weakness, but a strategy—one that preserves the integrity of your purpose.

As the great rivers are guided by their banks, so too must we direct our energies. To say "no" is not to deny others, but to preserve your own power. In saying "no," you honor your own needs, your own boundaries, and by doing so, you allow yourself to serve others more effectively when the time is right. For those who spread themselves too thin, like the rays of the sun scattered across the horizon, often find that their light fades before it can illuminate the path before them. It is only through careful restraint that we can keep our light burning bright.

So, the lesson here is clear, O children of wisdom: Find those you trust to walk beside you, for the journey is long and the path is filled with obstacles that no one should face alone. Do not fear the asking of help, for in the company of the wise, we find strength. But also, know the power of saying no. Recognize the sacred nature of your own time and energy. Protect your spirit from the demands that seek to drain you, and focus your efforts only on the tasks that are most aligned with your purpose.

Thus, live as the ancients did—mindfully, with wisdom in your heart and strength in your actions. Seek the counsel of those you trust, and let the world know that you will not bend under its demands. Stand firm, say "no" when needed, and delegate with trust and clarity. In this way, you will not be scattered by the winds of others' desires, but will walk with purpose, with strength, and with the peace that comes from knowing your limits.