You cannot tailor-make the situations in life but you can
You cannot tailor-make the situations in life but you can tailor-make the attitudes to fit those situations.
Host: The morning rain had stopped just long enough for the city to breathe again. Drops still clung to the iron railings, trembling like unspoken thoughts. A faint fog coiled around the park benches and the oak trees, and the air smelled of wet earth and coffee from the kiosk nearby.
Jack sat under the canopy, his jacket soaked at the shoulders, a newspaper folded on his knee, unread. His grey eyes followed the ripples in a puddle forming at his feet — each one perfect, each one breaking. Across from him, Jeeny sat cross-legged, her umbrella resting against the bench, her long black hair damp, framing a face calm as the morning after a storm.
They didn’t speak for a while. The world itself seemed to be taking a pause.
Jeeny: (quietly) “Zig Ziglar once said, ‘You cannot tailor-make the situations in life but you can tailor-make the attitudes to fit those situations.’”
Jack: (without looking up) “Sounds like something people say to make failure sound noble.”
Jeeny: “Or to make chaos survivable.”
Jack: “You really believe attitude changes anything? The world doesn’t care how positive you are. It rains when it rains.”
Jeeny: “And yet, some people dance.”
Host: The faint sound of rain returned — soft, almost shy. The drops fell through the trees, hitting the puddles like tiny cymbals. A child’s laughter drifted from a distance — a small defiance against the grey sky.
Jack: “That’s easy to say when you’re not standing in the flood. Sometimes the storm just wins.”
Jeeny: “Then you build a boat. Or you learn to float. That’s what he meant — you can’t choose the weather, but you can choose what kind of sailor you’ll be.”
Jack: “Optimism dressed as philosophy.”
Jeeny: “No, realism dressed with courage.”
Host: The fog thinned as she spoke, revealing the slow, rhythmic movement of joggers along the path, each breath rising like ghostly prayers. Jeeny’s words hung between them, soft but certain.
Jack: “You ever think some people just don’t have it in them — that resilience everyone talks about? Some people break.”
Jeeny: “Everyone breaks. The difference is whether they stay broken.”
Jack: (looking up) “And attitude fixes that?”
Jeeny: “Not by pretending the cracks aren’t there. But by choosing what grows through them.”
Host: A single ray of sunlight pierced the thinning clouds, falling across Jeeny’s face. Her brown eyes caught it, glowing faintly, steady as belief itself.
Jack: “You talk like it’s easy.”
Jeeny: “No. I talk like it’s possible.”
Jack: “Give me one example.”
Jeeny: “Nelson Mandela. Twenty-seven years in prison, yet he came out without bitterness. He didn’t control his situation — he tailored his spirit to outlast it. That’s attitude.”
Jack: “And most people aren’t Mandela.”
Jeeny: “They don’t have to be. They just have to stop letting pain do their thinking for them.”
Host: A gust of wind passed through the park, rattling the leaves, scattering a few newspapers into the air. One landed near Jack’s feet, its headline blurred by rain: “Unemployment Rising — Markets in Decline.” He stared at it for a moment, then looked away.
Jack: “Sometimes life doesn’t give you much to tailor with.”
Jeeny: “Then you make something out of scraps. That’s where the art begins.”
Jack: “You think attitude is art?”
Jeeny: “Yes. The art of not letting the world decide your color palette.”
Host: Jack leaned back, the bench creaking beneath him. His fingers traced the rim of his coffee cup, half-empty, gone cold.
Jack: “Funny thing is, I used to believe all that — attitude, positivity, control. Until everything I built fell apart. Turns out, optimism doesn’t pay rent.”
Jeeny: “No, but despair doesn’t rebuild either.”
Jack: (dryly) “You’ve got a counter for everything.”
Jeeny: “Not everything. Just for giving up.”
Host: The rain eased into mist. A flock of pigeons took flight suddenly, their wings slicing through the air with soft, thunderous grace.
Jeeny: “You know what I like about Ziglar’s words? He doesn’t promise comfort. He promises choice. And that’s the only real power we ever have.”
Jack: “Choice in the middle of chaos.”
Jeeny: “Exactly. You can’t script the storm — but you can choose the kind of person you’ll be standing in it.”
Jack: “You think that makes suffering noble?”
Jeeny: “No. It makes survival intentional.”
Host: The sun finally broke through — weak but persistent, casting streaks of gold through the dripping branches. The puddles glowed, the water trembling in the light.
Jack: “You make it sound like attitude is armor.”
Jeeny: “It is. Not to block the world out, but to walk through it without dissolving.”
Jack: “And what about when the armor cracks?”
Jeeny: “Then it becomes mosaic. Beauty made of breakage.”
Host: Her words lingered, and for the first time, Jack smiled — small, reluctant, but real.
Jack: “You know, you’d make a terrible motivational speaker.”
Jeeny: (grinning) “Why’s that?”
Jack: “You make people think instead of just nodding.”
Jeeny: “Good. Thinking is the first rebellion against despair.”
Host: A car horn blared distantly. The city was waking. The mist lifted from the park, revealing clearer skies and clearer faces.
Jeeny stood, her coat damp, her smile quiet but unshaken.
Jeeny: “You don’t need to tailor-make the day, Jack. Just tailor the way you walk through it.”
Jack: (rising slowly) “And if it tears?”
Jeeny: “Then stitch it back together with purpose.”
Host: The sunlight grew warmer, spreading across the park. Jack looked up, the lines of fatigue on his face softening under its touch.
Jack: “You really believe attitude can outlive circumstance?”
Jeeny: “I believe it’s the only thing that ever has.”
Host: They began to walk down the path, the sound of their footsteps joining the murmur of the city — quiet, rhythmic, forward.
And as the world reopened around them, Zig Ziglar’s words echoed — not as advice, but as a truth earned through the storms of living:
That life cannot be fitted, only faced.
That we are not tailors of circumstance, but architects of response.
And that somewhere between surrender and defiance
lies the art of survival —
the attitude that keeps us human.
Host: The puddles reflected the sky now — blue, bright, forgiving.
And in that reflection, two figures walked on,
unafraid of the weather,
carrying nothing but courage,
stitched to their hearts.
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