You can't allow the forces of political correction to shut you

Host: The room feels quiet, the gentle hum of the evening outside barely filtering in. Inside, Jack and Jeeny sit across from each other, the topic about to shift into something that touches on freedom, expression, and the way societal pressures affect how we communicate. The weight of Ben Carson’s words is palpable, inviting a deeper look at the balance between personal freedom and cultural norms.

Jack: “Ben Carson said, ‘You can’t allow the forces of political correction to shut you up. I mean, why are people afraid to say, ‘Merry Christmas?’ Give me a break. If people don’t like it, yeah, they can go do something else.’” He repeats the words slowly, his voice considering the weight of the statement. “It’s interesting, right? The way political correctness has been used to police language and expression. He’s suggesting that we shouldn’t be afraid to speak freely, even if it might offend someone.” He looks at Jeeny, curious. “What do you think about that? Is political correctness going too far in restricting what we can say?”

Jeeny: “I think it’s a complicated issue. On one hand, I understand the importance of respecting others’ beliefs and identities. We want to create an environment where everyone feels included and heard. But on the other hand, there’s something to be said for the freedom to express ourselves, even if what we say doesn’t always align with everyone else’s views.” She pauses for a moment, letting the idea settle. “Carson’s point seems to be that we shouldn’t let fear of offending others silence us, especially when it comes to things that have cultural significance to us. It’s about balancing respect with authenticity, and not letting the fear of backlash control what we say.”

Jack: “But doesn’t it get tricky? I mean, if we say whatever we want, no matter who it offends, doesn’t that just open the door for more hurtful language and actions? Where’s the line between freedom of expression and respect for others?” His voice softens as he contemplates the complexity of it all. “It seems like there’s a fine balance between being able to speak freely and being considerate of the people we’re speaking to.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. And I think the key is intention. When we say something with respect and genuine care for others, even if it’s a cultural expression like ‘Merry Christmas,’ it’s not about forcing our beliefs on others. It’s about sharing something that’s important to us. But at the same time, we should also be mindful of how our words can be received and ensure that we’re not using our freedom of speech as an excuse to dismiss others’ experiences or beliefs.” Her tone is thoughtful, almost reflective, as she considers the balance. “It’s about finding that space where we can honor our own freedom while also respecting the diversity around us.”

Jack: “So, it’s not about just saying what we want and dismissing anyone who’s offended. It’s about finding a way to express ourselves authentically without trampling on others’ feelings or rights.” He nods slowly, the realization beginning to take shape. “I guess it’s about finding a way to speak freely while still maintaining respect for the people we’re speaking to.”

Jeeny: “Yes. That’s the balance. Freedom of speech is important, but so is creating a space where we don’t silence others in the name of our freedom. We have the right to say what’s important to us, but we also have a responsibility to listen and be empathetic to the diverse world around us.” Her smile is gentle, filled with quiet understanding. “It’s not about limiting what we say, but about being mindful of how we communicate, and understanding that the world doesn’t revolve around one perspective.”

Jack: “So, in a way, political correctness isn’t about limiting free speech; it’s about finding a way to speak without causing unnecessary harm. It’s about being thoughtful in how we express ourselves.” His voice softens as he reflects on the idea. “I think what Carson’s really pushing for is the importance of being able to speak our truth, but also recognizing that other people’s truths matter too.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. The freedom to say ‘Merry Christmas’ is important, but so is the freedom to not be offended by that, or to express our own beliefs in a way that fosters respect and understanding. It’s about coexistence, not conflict.” She smiles, her tone reassuring. “Ultimately, it’s about creating a society where everyone can speak their truth, but where we also listen to and honor the truths of others.”

Host: The room feels quieter now, the weight of the conversation settling into something more thoughtful. Jack and Jeeny have come to a shared understanding that true freedom of expression isn’t just about saying whatever we want without considering the impact. It’s about speaking our truth with respect, empathy, and a recognition that the world is full of diverse perspectives. The idea that “Merry Christmas” can be said with love and respect, even if not everyone celebrates it, and that other beliefs deserve the same space, is a reminder that the power of words is in how we use them — to connect, to respect, and to honor each other.

Jack: “I think I get it now. Freedom of speech isn’t just about saying whatever comes to mind. It’s about finding a way to express ourselves without dismissing or harming others. It’s about mutual respect.” His voice is softer now, the clarity settling over him. “That’s the real challenge, isn’t it? Finding the balance.”

Jeeny: “Yes, exactly. It’s about creating a space where freedom and respect can coexist. Where we can speak our minds, but also listen, understand, and empathize with others. That’s the key to creating a more open and respectful society.” She smiles warmly, a quiet peace in her voice. “And that’s how we move forward together.”

Host: The room feels peaceful now, the conversation having unfolded into a deeper understanding of freedom, respect, and expression. Jack and Jeeny have discovered that political correctness isn’t about silencing voices, but about fostering a space where all voices can be heard with respect. Freedom of expression is not about speaking without consideration, but about finding the balance between speaking our truth and honoring the truths of others.