You have to find out what's right for you, so it's trial and
You have to find out what's right for you, so it's trial and error. You are going to be all right if you accept realistic goals for yourself.
Life is a path without a map, and each traveler must walk it with courage and patience. When Teri Garr declared, “You have to find out what's right for you, so it's trial and error. You are going to be all right if you accept realistic goals for yourself,” she spoke of the eternal journey of self-discovery. No one is born knowing their purpose or destiny; it is through trial and error, through victories and missteps, that we discover who we truly are. Her words are a reminder that the path to fulfillment is not straight, but winding, and that mistakes are not failures but guides along the way.
The heart of her message lies in acceptance and realism. Many souls are tormented because they chase dreams built by others—expectations imposed by family, society, or the illusions of fame and wealth. In striving for what does not truly belong to them, they become lost and weary. Garr teaches that peace comes when we set realistic goals, rooted in our own abilities and desires. This is not a call to mediocrity, but to wisdom: knowing the difference between ambition that uplifts and ambition that destroys.
History is rich with examples of those who found greatness through perseverance and honest self-reflection. Consider Thomas Edison, who failed thousands of times before creating the electric light bulb. His journey was the very essence of trial and error. Had he expected instant success, he would have been crushed by despair. Instead, he embraced each failure as a stepping stone, adjusting his goals with each attempt until light itself was brought forth from darkness. His story shows that progress is born from persistence, not perfection.
In contrast, there are those whose unrealistic ambitions led to ruin. The tragic tale of Icarus, from ancient myth, warns us of the danger of reaching too high without wisdom. Icarus, intoxicated by his newfound wings, ignored his father’s warnings and flew too close to the sun. His fall was not caused by flight itself, but by failing to respect the limits of reality. Garr’s words echo this lesson: to soar, one must dream, but also measure those dreams against the truths of the world.
On a personal level, Garr’s wisdom offers comfort to all who feel overwhelmed by life’s uncertainties. It is natural to stumble, to fail, and to feel lost. These moments are not signs of weakness, but part of the sacred process of becoming. By setting goals that are challenging yet attainable, we create a path that nurtures growth rather than despair. Each small victory builds strength, and each failure teaches lessons that cannot be learned in comfort.
Let this teaching be carried to future generations: the journey of life is not about reaching perfection, but about discovering your own path. Embrace the trials, for they shape you. Accept your limits, for they guide you. And know that you will be all right, not because the way is easy, but because you walk it with courage, honesty, and the steadfast pursuit of what is truly right for you.
CConan
Teri Garr’s perspective on self-acceptance and goal-setting is so refreshing. It reminds me that life isn’t about perfection but about finding what works for us through experience. But when it comes to realistic goals, how do we differentiate between what we ‘want’ and what’s truly achievable? How can we ensure that we’re not just setting goals that sound good but are actually in line with our real abilities and limitations?
TBThuy Bui
I’ve always believed that trial and error is essential for growth, and this quote really supports that. But sometimes it feels like we set goals that are too rigid or out of touch with where we are in life. How do we balance ambition with practicality? Is it possible to push yourself toward bigger goals without losing sight of the importance of being realistic and patient with yourself?
Mmobicao
I agree with the idea that finding what works for you is a journey, but I wonder if some people struggle with the trial and error aspect. Do you think society places too much pressure on people to have it all figured out by a certain age? What do you think are the biggest challenges in accepting realistic goals for yourself? Are we too often influenced by others’ expectations instead of focusing on our own path?
SLScarlet Luna
I appreciate how Teri Garr frames the idea of self-discovery as a process of trial and error. Sometimes, though, it’s hard not to feel lost or discouraged when things don’t go as planned. How do we accept that we’re on the right track, even when things seem to be falling apart? Do realistic goals sometimes feel limiting, or do they provide a sense of relief and focus in the midst of uncertainty?
VNNguyen Van Nhon
Teri Garr’s words really hit home. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by trying to find the ‘right’ path in life, but trial and error is a natural way to learn and grow. Do you think it’s important to give ourselves grace during the process of figuring things out, or is it more about staying persistent and not letting failure stop us? How do we know when we’re being realistic and not too hard on ourselves?