You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But

You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But

22/09/2025
26/10/2025

You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.

You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But

Host: The mountain dusk was folding into itself, the sun dissolving behind layers of mist like a painting being erased by twilight. The air smelled of pine, old rain, and faraway woodsmoke — the kind of scent that carries both memory and peace. Down the slope, the village lights flickered on, scattered like shy constellations.

Host: On a small wooden balcony overlooking the valley, Jack and Jeeny sat in wicker chairs, wrapped in blankets. Between them, a pot of tea steamed on a small table. The wind hummed softly through the trees, whispering like an ancient storyteller.

Jeeny: (pouring tea slowly) “Ruskin Bond once said, ‘You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.’
(She smiles faintly.) “It sounds simple, doesn’t it? But I think it’s one of the hardest lessons to learn.”

Jack: (leaning back, watching the fog roll in) “Yeah. We talk about solitude like it’s a vacation — but it’s really a discipline. You have to learn how to sit with yourself without wanting to escape.”

Jeeny: “That’s exactly it. Loneliness hurts because you’re missing someone. Solitude heals because you finally stop missing yourself.”

Jack: (quietly) “You sound like someone who’s practiced it.”

Jeeny: “I had to. There was a time I couldn’t stand silence. It felt like abandonment — like the world had stopped noticing me. But now, sometimes, I crave it. Like hunger, but for peace.”

Jack: (nodding) “Funny thing — people treat solitude like a luxury, but it’s survival. It’s where you go to remember who you are when the noise of everything else starts to drown you.”

Host: The wind shifted, carrying with it the faint sound of a flute from somewhere down the mountain — soft, wistful, almost shy. The music floated in and out of the mist like a drifting thought.

Jeeny: “I think that’s what Bond understood better than most writers — that nature teaches solitude without ever calling it loneliness. Look at this place. You can be completely alone here, and still feel… accompanied.”

Jack: “Yeah. The trees, the wind, even the silence — they talk, in their own way. It’s not empty here. It’s alive.”

Jeeny: (smiling) “Exactly. That’s the difference between loneliness and solitude. One is absence. The other is presence.”

Jack: “Presence of what?”

Jeeny: “Of yourself. Of life. Of everything that doesn’t need to explain itself to make sense.”

Host: A bird called out from somewhere unseen — a brief, bright note in the deepening blue. The last light of the sun touched the peaks, then slipped away, leaving a silvery twilight in its wake.

Jack: “You ever think that maybe people run from solitude because it forces them to meet the version of themselves they’ve been ignoring?”

Jeeny: “Definitely. Solitude is honest. It holds up a mirror you can’t look away from.”

Jack: “And sometimes you don’t like what you see.”

Jeeny: “But sometimes, that’s the beginning of liking it.”

Host: The tea steamed between them, and for a moment, neither spoke. The silence wasn’t heavy. It was whole — like the mountain itself had paused to listen.

Jeeny: “You know, I once read that loneliness is a hunger, and solitude is a feast.”

Jack: “Yeah. But the trick is learning to cook for yourself.”

Jeeny: (laughing softly) “That’s beautiful, Jack.”

Jack: (grinning) “It’s true. Loneliness says, ‘No one’s here to feed me.’ Solitude says, ‘Let’s see what I can make.’”

Jeeny: “And it’s always different — sometimes bitter, sometimes sweet. But it’s yours.”

Jack: “Exactly.”

Host: The moon rose quietly — a silver coin sliding into the velvet of the sky. Its light touched their faces, soft and cool, turning their breath visible in the chill air.

Jeeny: “You know what’s sad? Most people never learn the difference between being alone and being lonely. They fill their days with company just to avoid themselves.”

Jack: “Yeah. But I get it. Solitude demands a kind of courage that society doesn’t reward. We applaud togetherness, community, networking — but who ever claps for silence?”

Jeeny: “Maybe that’s why writers, monks, wanderers — they all retreat at some point. You have to vanish a little to see clearly again.”

Jack: “And when you come back, you realize nothing changed — except you.”

Jeeny: “And that’s enough.”

Host: The flute stopped, the wind settling into a gentle hush. The whole world seemed to exhale at once — a vast, shared breath between the mountain and the sky.

Jeeny: (softly) “You think solitude can make someone kinder?”

Jack: “I think it can make someone truer. Kindness that comes from solitude isn’t performance — it’s empathy without the noise. When you’ve learned to sit with your own thoughts, you stop being afraid of other people’s.”

Jeeny: “That’s wisdom, Jack.”

Jack: (shrugging) “Maybe. Or maybe it’s just exhaustion turned into philosophy.”

Host: A small laugh passed between them — not loud, not forced, but the kind that warms the air in its own quiet way.

Jeeny: “Ruskin Bond always wrote from solitude, didn’t he? You can feel it in his words — the serenity of someone who’s made peace with being alone.”

Jack: “Yeah. He never treated solitude like a punishment. He treated it like a companion. Maybe that’s what makes his writing so alive — it’s written from stillness, not from struggle.”

Jeeny: “Stillness doesn’t mean emptiness.”

Jack: “No. It means depth.”

Host: The crickets began their nocturne, filling the valley with their rhythmic pulse. The mist glowed faintly under the moonlight, and the world seemed suspended — not asleep, but quietly awake.

Jeeny: “You know what I love about this moment? There’s no loneliness in it. Just... space. Just breathing.”

Jack: (nodding) “That’s solitude. It’s the world saying, ‘You don’t need to fill me — just notice me.’”

Jeeny: (smiling softly) “You think it’s possible to carry this peace back into the city?”

Jack: “No. The city doesn’t change. But you do. Solitude plants something in you — a patience, maybe — and it grows, even among noise.”

Jeeny: “Then maybe solitude isn’t found in places. It’s found in pauses.”

Jack: (quietly) “Yeah. The world gives us thousands of them every day. We just forget to listen.”

Host: The night deepened, a velvet silence settling across the balcony. Below, the valley glimmered under the moon — small homes, quiet lives, all beating softly within the same infinite calm.

And in that moment,
Ruskin Bond’s words felt like the very air they breathed —
simple, true, eternal:

that loneliness is absence,
but solitude is presence;
that to be with oneself is not to be lost,
but to be found;
and that the quiet we fear
is often the very silence
that teaches us how to belong.

Host: Jeeny leaned back, closing her eyes as the wind brushed her face.

Jeeny: (whispering) “This is what solitude feels like.”

Jack: (smiling) “Yeah. The world — finally quiet enough to love you back.”

Host: The moon climbed higher, the mountains holding their silence like prayer.

And there, in that hush,
two souls sat together —
alone, yet not lonely —
their hearts full
of the still, golden light
that only solitude can bring.

Ruskin Bond
Ruskin Bond

Indian - Author Born: May 19, 1934

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