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Joseph Campbell, the great mythmaker and guide of human destiny, once declared: “Your life is the fruit of your own doing. You have no one to blame but yourself.” These words burn with a fierce clarity, stripping away the veils of excuse and self-deception. For Campbell, life was not a tale written by fate or by the whims of others, but a story authored by the choices of each individual. What a man sows in thought, word, and deed, he must inevitably reap. His joys and sorrows, his triumphs and defeats, are not gifts or curses from without, but the fruit of his own planting.

The origin of this wisdom lies in Campbell’s lifelong study of myth, religion, and the hero’s journey. Across cultures, from the epics of Greece to the legends of India, he saw the same pattern: the hero is not defined by the world around him, but by the choices he makes in the face of challenge. In myths, gods and monsters may set the stage, but the outcome is determined by the hero’s will, courage, and responsibility. In the same way, Campbell reminds us that we cannot cast blame on destiny, parents, or society alone. Our lives bear the shape of our own doing.

The ancients proclaimed this truth with one voice. The Stoics taught that while we cannot control what befalls us, we can always control our response, and in that response lies our destiny. The Buddha declared that each being is heir to its own karma, that our actions shape the world we inherit. Even in the Hebrew scriptures it is written: “A man reaps what he sows.” Campbell’s words are a modern echo of this timeless call to responsibility: look not outward for blame, but inward for cause.

History gives us vivid examples. Consider Nelson Mandela. For twenty-seven years, he languished in prison. He could have cursed his captors, he could have blamed his suffering for the ruin of his life. Yet he took responsibility for his path, using those long years to strengthen his mind and spirit. When he emerged, he chose forgiveness instead of vengeance, reconciliation instead of revenge. The fruit of his choices was not bitterness, but the rebirth of a nation. His life embodied Campbell’s truth: one’s destiny is forged not by blame, but by the responsibility of one’s own doing.

The lesson is clear: excuses are the chains that bind men in mediocrity. To blame others is to surrender power; to accept responsibility is to claim freedom. If your life is bitter, ask what seeds you have planted. If your life is sweet, acknowledge the labor of your own hands. To understand that your life is the fruit of your own doing is not a burden but a liberation—it means that you hold the power to change, to replant, to cultivate a new harvest.

Practical actions must follow. Each day, examine your choices with honesty. Ask not who is at fault, but how you have contributed to your circumstances. Cultivate virtues—discipline, courage, compassion—as the seeds of a better future. Refuse the poison of blame, and instead embrace the discipline of responsibility. If you have failed, begin anew; if you have succeeded, sow again, that the harvest may endure. In this way, you become the gardener of your own destiny.

Thus, O listeners, let Joseph Campbell’s words echo within you: “You have no one to blame but yourself.” Do not hear them as condemnation, but as a call to strength. They strip away the crutches of excuse and reveal the truth: your life, in its beauty and in its sorrow, belongs to you alone. No one else holds the pen that writes your story.

And remember this eternal truth: the orchard of your life is planted by your own hand. Sow wisely, tend diligently, and the fruit you harvest will be the life you were meant to live.