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Opening Scene

The room is dimly lit, with the soft glow of a table lamp casting long, gentle shadows across the walls. The outside world is calm, with the evening setting in and the sounds of the city fading. Jack sits at the table, his gaze distant, his fingers tapping rhythmically on the edge of his mug. Jeeny stands by the window, arms loosely crossed, staring out into the distance, lost in thought. The air between them feels contemplative, as if they’re both reflecting on something deeper.

Host: After a few moments, Jeeny turns from the window, her voice steady but thoughtful, breaking the silence.

Jeeny: “I came across a quote by Barbara Corcoran that really struck me. She said, ‘A complainer is like a Death Eater because there’s a suction of negative energy. You can catch a great attitude from great people.’ It made me think about how easily negative energy can spread, and how the people we surround ourselves with really affect our mindset. What do you think about the idea of complainers being like Death Eaters?”

Jack: “I love that comparison. It’s true, isn’t it? Complaints have a way of sucking the life and energy out of a room. It’s like a dark cloud that follows you around, and the more we entertain negativity, the more it spreads. I think Corcoran’s saying that negativity is contagious, just like positive energy can be. If you’re constantly surrounded by people who complain, it drains you, just like the Death Eaters draining life and energy. It’s hard to stay positive in that kind of environment.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. And it’s not just about the words people say, but the energy they bring. Complaining isn’t just about venting frustrations — it’s about focusing on what’s wrong instead of what can be done to improve the situation. It’s like when someone is always negative, it affects everyone around them, even if you’re not directly involved. The energy is so heavy that it weighs on you, and without realizing it, you start to carry that negativity too.”

Jack: “That’s why it’s so important to be mindful of who you spend your time with. The people who have a great attitude, who focus on solutions and positivity, can really inspire you to do the same. They’re like magnets for good energy. It’s like a contagious force that lifts you up rather than bringing you down. Surrounding yourself with the right people can help you maintain that positive mindset, even in difficult situations.”

Host: The conversation continues, as their thoughts on negative and positive energy evolve. Jack sets his mug down, and Jeeny moves closer to the table, her voice calm as she reflects further.

Jeeny: “I think it’s also about choosing how we respond to the energy around us. We can’t always control the people we interact with, but we can control how we react. If we let a complainer’s negativity drag us down, then we’re giving them the power to influence our mood and outlook. But if we choose to maintain a positive attitude, even in the face of negativity, we take back that power. It’s like we can ‘catch’ a good attitude from others, but we also need to guard ourselves against the negative energy that can easily take hold.”

Jack: “It’s about resilience in a way. The key is not to let others’ negativity dictate our own mindset. Yes, it’s easy to get caught up in complaining or focusing on the bad stuff, but it’s also a choice to step away from that, to choose optimism and positivity. It takes a certain strength to remain upbeat in the face of negativity, but once you develop that strength, it becomes easier to maintain a good attitude — and, as Corcoran says, to spread that energy to others.”

Jeeny: “Right. It’s also about being conscious of what you let in. Complaining isn’t just about what people say out loud; it’s the constant mindset of focusing on what’s wrong. If you entertain that mindset, it starts to consume you. But when you’re surrounded by people who focus on solutions, gratitude, and positivity, it becomes easier to adopt that mindset yourself. It’s a reminder that the energy we surround ourselves with shapes the way we see the world.”

Jack: “Exactly. And it’s not about ignoring problems or pretending everything is perfect. Life isn’t always easy, but it’s about the attitude we bring to the challenges we face. Do we choose to focus on the obstacles, or do we focus on how we can move forward, how we can make things better? That’s the difference between getting bogged down in negativity and maintaining the kind of energy that propels us forward.”

Host: The room feels quieter now, as though the weight of their conversation has settled between them. The world outside continues, but inside, Jack and Jeeny share a deeper understanding that the energy we surround ourselves with directly influences how we experience the world. While negativity can drain us, positive energy has the power to lift us up, to inspire us, and to help us overcome challenges.

Jeeny: “So, maybe the lesson here is that we need to be mindful of the energy we choose to engage with. It’s not just about what others bring, but about how we respond and whether we let their negativity affect our own mindset. We can choose to surround ourselves with people who bring us up and inspire us to stay positive.”

Jack: “Exactly. It’s about creating a positive environment for ourselves and guarding against negative influences. By choosing positivity, we can maintain the energy we need to move forward and not let others drain it.”

Host: As the evening settles, the conversation wraps up with a quiet realization. The people we surround ourselves with and the energy they bring play a huge role in shaping our outlook on life. By consciously choosing to embrace positivity, we can create a world where we lift each other up rather than being pulled down by negativity. Energy is contagious — and by choosing to spread good energy, we can make a real difference in our lives and in the lives of those around us.