A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does

A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does

22/09/2025
18/10/2025

A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?

A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does
A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does

Host: The subway station was nearly empty — an echo chamber of hums, metallic sighs, and the rhythmic click of distant heels. Fluorescent lights buzzed overhead, sterile and unflattering, washing the tiled walls in cold white. A giant advertisement flickered on one end — a glowing face smiling too perfectly — selling something called "Connected™."

Jack sat on a bench, hunched over his phone, its blue glow staining his face with artificial life. His thumb moved in small, mechanical flicks — up, up, up — a prayer to the algorithm. Jeeny sat beside him, untouched by the glow, watching instead the reflections of passing trains ripple through the black window across from them.

Between them, a silence that wasn’t empty, but digital — a stillness full of unseen noise.

Jeeny broke it first, holding up her own phone, reading a quote aloud, her voice soft but steady:

“A lot of our communication has now become digital, and it does not mimic the natural way we have evolved to communicate with each other, so it's almost like we have this muscle, these social-emotional skills, and they're atrophying, right?”
— Rana el Kaliouby

Host: The train roared past, a blur of steel and light. For a moment, the quote felt less like a statement — more like diagnosis.

Jack: not looking up from his screen “She’s right. But it’s not atrophy — it’s evolution. We’re adapting to the new world, not decaying in the old one.”

Jeeny: gently “You call that adaptation?”

Jack: shrugging “We’re more connected than any generation before us. Billions of people, one tap away. That’s progress.”

Jeeny: “No, that’s proximity — not connection. They’re not the same muscle.”

Jack: half-smiling, still scrolling “You sound nostalgic. Like you want to go back to candlelight and quills.”

Jeeny: sharply “No. I just want us to remember what a heartbeat feels like when it’s not made of pixels.”

Host: The overhead lights flickered, humming louder for a moment before stabilizing — as if even the electricity was eavesdropping. Jack finally looked up, his eyes tired, not from thought, but from the endless glow.

Jack: “You think emotion dies just because it travels through a screen?”

Jeeny: “No. But it loses texture. It becomes emoji. Sentiment without scent, warmth without eyes, words without breath.”

Jack: quietly “Maybe that’s the price of speed.”

Jeeny: nodding “Yes. We traded depth for efficiency. The human face is a novel — we replaced it with shorthand.”

Host: A soft chime echoed — a train arriving. But neither moved. The wind from the tunnel swept through, stirring Jeeny’s hair. The lights along the platform blinked like tired eyes.

Jack: “You know, when I text someone, I still mean what I say. It’s not less real.”

Jeeny: smiling faintly “Meaning doesn’t live in words alone, Jack. It lives in tone, silence, body. We used to speak with our whole selves — eyes, hands, heartbeat. Now we compress all that into data and call it intimacy.”

Jack: with a sigh “Maybe we’re just learning new ways to feel.”

Jeeny: “Or learning new ways to pretend.”

Host: Her voice cut through the electric drone, tender but sharp — like a violin string plucked too hard.

Jack: defensively “You make it sound like we’re losing our humanity.”

Jeeny: softly “Aren’t we? Look at you.” She nods at his phone. “When was the last time you watched someone speak instead of reading their pauses?”

Jack: setting the phone down slowly “And what if this is just the next stage? Maybe we’re evolving past bodies, past presence.”

Jeeny: with a sad laugh “No one evolves past being seen, Jack. We were made for resonance — voice, warmth, shared air. This—” she gestures to the world of screens around them “—is imitation empathy.”

Host: The train left again — a rush of wind, a blur of reflection. Their faces, side by side in the darkened window, glowed faintly from his phone screen — two souls, luminous but disconnected.

Jack: quietly “I read somewhere that loneliness is the new epidemic. But we’re the most ‘connected’ generation in history.”

Jeeny: “Exactly. It’s like starving in a supermarket. Surrounded by abundance, dying for nourishment.”

Jack: after a pause “So what do we do? Throw the phones in the river? Build monasteries of silence?”

Jeeny: “No. We relearn how to see. We make the digital human again — slow, sincere, intentional. We make empathy the new technology.”

Jack: smirking “You sound like a prophet in a subway.”

Jeeny: grinning back “Maybe. Or maybe I’m just a woman tired of being blue-lit instead of looked at.”

Host: The lights dimmed again, just briefly, and in that flicker, their faces were illuminated by something softer — real eye contact. The brief reemergence of an ancient skill.

Jack: quietly “Maybe we’re not losing the muscle. Maybe it’s just sleeping.”

Jeeny: “Then we’d better wake it soon. Before we forget what it’s for.”

Host: A moment of stillness stretched — the kind of silence that asks you to listen, not just to sound, but to presence. Then, faintly, from the end of the platform, a busker’s guitar began to play — rough, human, unfiltered. The notes wavered but carried warmth that no speaker could replicate.

Jeeny smiled. Jack’s fingers twitched, as though remembering touch.

Jack: softly “There it is. The antidote.”

Jeeny: nodding “Real vibration. Soul talking to soul, no Wi-Fi required.”

Host: The camera pulled back — the cavernous subway glowing dimly, the two of them small but vibrant, listening to the sound of something unmistakably alive.

And as the music carried through the tunnels — uneven, flawed, but utterly human — Rana el Kaliouby’s words hung like light between steel and shadow:

That connection is not a signal,
but a sensation;
that the soul learns through eyes and gestures,
not code;
and that in this digital age,
our most radical act of resistance
is to feel
to look up,
to listen,
and to remember
how to be alive together.

Rana el Kaliouby
Rana el Kaliouby

Egyptian - Scientist Born: 1978

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