Anger is an unnecessary emotion. Loads of stuff in life can
Anger is an unnecessary emotion. Loads of stuff in life can trigger it, but what matters is how you react. I choose not to react.
Host: The boxing gym was almost silent now — only the faint buzz of old fluorescent lights and the rhythmic drip of a leaking pipe broke the stillness. The air smelled of sweat, metal, and the lingering echo of violence. Outside, the sun had already set, leaving the windows painted in a thin film of blue darkness.
In the center of the ring, Jack stood with his hands wrapped in tape, his breath steady but heavy, chest rising like a man trying to calm a storm inside him. Jeeny sat on a wooden bench, legs crossed, watching him with quiet focus, her notebook half-open, a pencil caught between her fingers.
Jeeny: “Nicola Adams once said, ‘Anger is an unnecessary emotion. Loads of stuff in life can trigger it, but what matters is how you react. I choose not to react.’”
Host: Her voice was soft, but in the echoing hall, it carried.
Jack: (snorts, throwing a lazy punch at the air) “Easy for her to say. She’s a world champion. People like her get to choose. The rest of us — we get angry just to stay alive.”
Jeeny: “You think anger is a choice reserved for the privileged?”
Jack: “No, I think calm is. The luxury of people who’ve already won.”
Host: The sound of his gloves brushing against each other filled the space. A bead of sweat rolled down his temple, and he wiped it away roughly, as if it offended him.
Jeeny: “You really believe that? That anger helps you survive?”
Jack: “Of course it does. It’s fuel. Without it, I’d still be working shifts in a factory, waiting for someone to notice me. Anger makes you move. Anger makes you fight.”
Jeeny: “And it also makes you destroy.”
Host: Her words dropped like water into fire. Jack stopped moving. The air tightened.
Jeeny: “Look at every great downfall, Jack — personal, political, even historical. Anger might start the fire, but it never controls it. You think it’s power, but it’s just chaos wearing armor.”
Jack: “Tell that to the ones who’ve been oppressed, Jeeny. To those who’ve been beaten, humiliated, told to wait politely for justice. Do you think they can meditate their way to equality? Sometimes you need anger to ignite change.”
Jeeny: (leaning forward) “Ignite, yes. But not live in it. Martin Luther King didn’t preach rage. Mandela didn’t free South Africa through fury. They used discipline, not vengeance. They felt the anger — they just refused to let it own them.”
Host: The ring ropes creaked softly as Jack leaned against them, eyes narrowed. He looked tired, but not from the training — from something older, deeper, that lived behind his silence.
Jack: “You talk like you’ve never been pushed to the edge.”
Jeeny: “Oh, I have.”
Host: Her voice trembled slightly, then steadied, like a blade finding its balance.
Jeeny: “When my father died, I was angry at everything — the hospital, the doctors, even God. But after months of it, I realized anger didn’t make the pain go away. It just made me carry it longer. I wasn’t reacting to life anymore; I was reacting to my own reaction.”
Jack: (softly) “So what did you do?”
Jeeny: “I stopped. I chose not to react.”
Host: He looked at her, surprised — maybe even impressed, though he’d never admit it. The gym’s light flickered, and for a second, their faces glowed like two sides of the same question — one scarred, one healed, but both human.
Jack: “That’s strength, Jeeny. But most people don’t get there. You can’t just switch it off.”
Jeeny: “You don’t switch it off. You see it. That’s what Nicola Adams meant. She didn’t say anger never comes — she said she doesn’t feed it.”
Jack: “Easy to say from a podium.”
Jeeny: “She was a fighter, Jack — she spent years being told she didn’t belong in the ring because she was a woman. You think that didn’t make her angry? The difference is, she trained her rage like a muscle. Controlled it. Directed it. That’s the real fight.”
Host: The sound of the city outside began to fade — distant sirens, muffled horns, a world still busy with its own noise. Inside, the gym felt like a temple, lit by the quiet hum of truth.
Jack: “You make it sound like anger’s a wild animal.”
Jeeny: “It is. And the more you feed it, the hungrier it gets.”
Jack: (sighs, looking at his taped fists) “But sometimes it’s all you’ve got. When you’ve been humiliated, lied to, stripped of every ounce of dignity — anger’s the only thing that reminds you you’re still alive.”
Jeeny: “No, Jack. Pain reminds you you’re alive. Anger just convinces you that someone has to bleed for it.”
Host: His hands tightened. He wanted to argue — to throw the next word like a punch — but something in her eyes stopped him.
Jeeny: “You can fight without fury. That’s what discipline is — choosing to act without being consumed.”
Jack: “And what about when people deserve it?”
Jeeny: “Then justice will handle it. Not you.”
Host: He laughed — bitterly, but softly.
Jack: “You still believe in justice?”
Jeeny: “I believe in peace, Jack. And peace isn’t the absence of pain — it’s the absence of reaction.”
Host: The room seemed to breathe with her words. The rain began to patter faintly against the high windows, each drop a quiet metronome marking the rhythm of reflection.
Jack: “You know, I envy that calm. I really do. But I don’t know how to live without the burn. Anger’s the only thing that ever made me move.”
Jeeny: “Then keep the movement, not the burn. Let the fire light your path, not scorch your feet.”
Host: She stood, walked toward him, and placed her hand gently over his wrist, the same one still clenched in instinct.
Jeeny: “You can’t punch your way into peace, Jack. You have to breathe your way into it.”
Jack: “And what if I fail?”
Jeeny: “Then you try again. Every day.”
Host: For the first time that evening, Jack smiled — a tired, uneven smile, but real. He looked around the gym — at the worn bags, the cracked mirrors, the ring that had seen more confessions than any church.
Jack: “Funny, isn’t it? This place — it’s supposed to be where you fight. But it’s also where you learn how not to.”
Jeeny: “That’s what Adams meant, too. Strength isn’t about what you hit — it’s about what you don’t.”
Host: The rain grew heavier, its sound like a soft applause from the unseen world beyond. The light dimmed to a deep amber, wrapping the gym in quiet resignation.
Jack untied his gloves, letting them drop to the floor. The thud echoed softly — final, peaceful.
Jack: “You win this one, Jeeny.”
Jeeny: (smiling) “No. We both do.”
Host: She turned off the light, and for a moment, the two of them stood in darkness — listening not to the storm, but to the silence that followed it.
In that stillness, anger had nowhere left to hide. It had burned itself out, leaving behind something quieter — the calm that comes not from victory, but from release.
And somewhere between discipline and forgiveness, Nicola Adams’ truth lingered:
that anger may come for us all,
but only those who choose not to react
ever truly win.
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