But it's amazing how many people think that gay men should slink

But it's amazing how many people think that gay men should slink

22/09/2025
26/10/2025

But it's amazing how many people think that gay men should slink off into the shadows when it comes to having friendships with children.

But it's amazing how many people think that gay men should slink

Host: The streetlights flickered in slow, rhythmic breaths, their yellow halos dissolving into the mist that hung over the park. It was just after midnight, the kind of hour when the city starts to whisper instead of speak. The playground — now empty — was a skeleton of metal and memories, its swings creaking softly in the wind.

Jack sat on one of the benches, coat collar turned up, a cigarette glowing faintly between his fingers. Jeeny stood near the swings, her hands tucked into her scarf, her breath visible, mingling with the fog.

The quote had come from their earlier conversation, after Jeeny mentioned reading an interview by Armistead Maupin“But it’s amazing how many people think that gay men should slink off into the shadows when it comes to having friendships with children.”

The words hung in the air, heavier than the mist.

Jeeny: “It’s still true, Jack. Even now. People still flinch when they see a gay man being gentle, kind, or protective toward a child. As if love has to come with a warning label.”

Jack: “You say that like you’re surprised, Jeeny. The world’s afraid of what it doesn’t understand. Always has been.”

Host: Jack exhales, the smoke curling into the night, disappearing like a ghost. His eyes — cold and reflective — linger on the swingset, the chains glinting like tears in the moonlight.

Jeeny: “But it’s not ignorance anymore, Jack. It’s fear dressed up as morality. They say they’re protecting children, but from what? From tenderness? From trust? From the idea that love can exist without blood or romance?”

Jack: “You’re making it sound noble, Jeeny. But people think in patterns — and when something doesn’t fit, they call it dangerous. That’s not always hate. Sometimes it’s just... instinct.”

Jeeny: “Instinct? No. It’s conditioning. It’s the echo of centuries that taught people to fear anything outside their narrow lines. You call it instinct; I call it inherited cruelty.”

Host: The wind picks up. A loose newspaper page slides across the sidewalk, caught in the air, twirling like a ghost of yesterday’s truth.

Jack: “You think it’s cruelty, but maybe it’s just self-preservation. Society’s built walls for a reason. They may not all be fair, but they keep order.”

Jeeny: “Order built on exclusion isn’t order, Jack. It’s a cage. A man who happens to be gay can’t even comfort a crying child without suspicion. Do you realize how poisoned that is?”

Jack: “Maybe. But you can’t deny the risk of perception. One wrong image, one wrong word — and it’s a scandal. People aren’t ready for nuance.”

Jeeny: “And whose fault is that? The world’s? Or ours, for staying silent every time we see decency treated like danger?”

Host: Jeeny’s voice trembles — not with anger, but with heartache. Her eyes shine, not from tears, but from the reflected glow of a streetlamp, soft and trembling.

Jeeny: “I used to babysit for a family. Their uncle — Michael — would visit sometimes. He was funny, warm, always brought the kids little origami animals he folded from candy wrappers. They adored him. Then one day, the mother told me he wasn’t allowed over anymore.”

Jack: “Why?”

Jeeny: “Because he came out. Just said it — softly, honestly. And that was it. No more birthdays, no more paper cranes, no more laughter. The kids didn’t understand, but they were told he was ‘too confusing.’”

Jack: “You think she was wrong?”

Jeeny: “I know she was wrong. You don’t exile love because it doesn’t look like yours. You don’t erase someone because their truth scares you.”

Host: A car passes, its headlights sweeping across the playground. For a second, their faces glow in that artificial daylightJack’s stony, Jeeny’s fierce — and then it’s gone, leaving only darkness and breathing.

Jack: “I get your point, Jeeny. But you’re not seeing the other side. The world’s full of wolves. People can’t tell the difference between the man who means well and the one who doesn’t. Fear simplifies that equation.”

Jeeny: “So we punish everyone to stay safe? You can’t build morality out of paranoia. You have to let people prove their goodness.”

Jack: “And if you’re wrong? If one child gets hurt because you wanted to trust too much?”

Jeeny: “Then what’s the cost of mistrust, Jack? A whole generation learning that suspicion is safer than compassion? That’s not protection — that’s emotional starvation.”

Host: The rain begins again, soft and persistent, tapping against the metal slide like a muted metronome.

Jack: “You’re idealistic, Jeeny. The world doesn’t run on love; it runs on caution.”

Jeeny: “And yet every time we choose caution over compassion, we lose another piece of our humanity.”

Jack: “Maybe humanity’s overrated.”

Jeeny: “No. Maybe it’s just underused.”

Host: The rain gathers strength. Water begins to pool under the bench, soaking Jack’s boots. He doesn’t move. Neither does she. They just sit there, divided by belief, connected by longing for something truer.

Jeeny: “Do you know why Maupin said that quote, Jack? Because he saw men who were gentle, funny, safe — treated like they were radioactive. Because the world told them they could be themselves, but only in shadows. That’s not safety. That’s exile.”

Jack: “Maybe the shadows are safer than the spotlight.”

Jeeny: “Not for the soul. A person can survive in shadows, Jack, but they can’t live there. You keep hiding what’s good, and soon the whole world forgets how to see it.”

Host: Her words drift into the rain, melting like salt in water, but the truth in them stays, anchored, unmoving.

Jack: “So what do you want, Jeeny? A world without suspicion? Without lines? Where everyone’s just trusted?”

Jeeny: “I want a world where kindness doesn’t have to defend itself. Where being gay, straight, or anything else doesn’t rewrite the rules of human decency. A world where a man can teach, protect, or care for a child — without the world whispering in corners.”

Jack: “You’re describing heaven, not earth.”

Jeeny: “No. I’m describing what earth could be if we stopped mistaking difference for danger.”

Host: For a long moment, the only sound is the rain, steady, cleansing, like the world trying to wash itself free of old sins.

Jack: “You know, my brother — he’s gay. He hasn’t seen his godson in three years. His friend’s wife said it might ‘confuse the boy.’ He didn’t fight it. He just stopped asking. I think part of him started to believe she was right.”

Jeeny: (quietly) “And do you believe she was?”

Jack: “No. But I understand her fear. And I hate that I do.”

Jeeny: “Then maybe that’s the first step — hating the part of yourself that still echoes the world’s ignorance. Because that’s how we start unlearning.”

Host: A gust of wind pushes through the trees, scattering leaves like a small storm of truths long buried. The rain slows, the mist rises.

Jack: “You always make it sound simple.”

Jeeny: “Not simple. Just necessary.”

Jack: “So what — we just keep shouting into the storm until the world listens?”

Jeeny: “No. We keep standing in it, Jack. Even when it soaks us. Even when no one’s watching. That’s how things change — not through thunder, but through persistence.”

Host: The camera pans slowly — the two figures, small beneath the glow of a lone lamp, surrounded by the echo of empty swings.

Jack: “You think people will ever stop flinching?”

Jeeny: “One day. When they finally realize that love — in any form — doesn’t corrupt. It heals.”

Host: Jack nods, the smoke of his final cigarette rising like a confession. He lets it fall, watching the embers die in the rain, each spark a fragment of forgiveness.

Jeeny walks toward him, and for a moment, they both stand in silence, faces turned toward the faint light breaking through the clouds.

Host: The storm passes. The city breathes again. The playground glimmers with rain, empty but somehow alive.

In that fragile, glistening stillness, one truth remains —
that the shadows are not where we belong,
but where the world sends what it fears to understand.

And maybe — just maybe — the bravest act of love
is to step out,
unapologetically,
into the light.

Armistead Maupin
Armistead Maupin

American - Novelist Born: May 13, 1944

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