I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot

The words of Julius Erving — "I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot greater, than popularity." — strike with the weight of eternal truth, a truth too often forgotten in an age that worships applause. Popularity is a wave upon the sea, rising high one moment and crashing down the next. But respect is like a mountain, rooted deep in the earth, enduring storms and centuries alike. Erving, known as “Dr. J,” was not only a master of the game of basketball but also a man who understood that greatness is not measured by the number of voices that cheer for you, but by the lasting reverence you earn through character, discipline, and honor.

For popularity is shallow; it is the gift of the crowd, and crowds are fickle. They love today and despise tomorrow. They shout hosannas in the morning and demand crucifixion by nightfall. History itself is filled with names once adored, now forgotten, their popularity dissolved like mist in the morning sun. But respect is deep; it is carved into the soul of others by deeds that cannot be denied. It is given not by the whim of many, but by the steady recognition of truth, integrity, and perseverance.

Consider the story of Marcus Aurelius, emperor of Rome. Though he held the most powerful position in the world, he never sought popularity; instead, he pursued wisdom, justice, and humility. Many emperors sought the favor of the mob with games, bread, and spectacle, but their fame perished with their vanity. Marcus, however, who lived with integrity, won something greater: the respect of generations unborn. His Meditations continue to inspire souls two thousand years later, long after the cheers of his era have fallen silent.

In the world of Erving himself, there were countless athletes who basked in popularity but faded into obscurity once their careers ended. Yet Dr. J remains a figure of respect, not only for his skill but for the way he carried himself — with grace, humility, and honor. He was not intoxicated by applause; he sought instead to play the game in a way that uplifted it. Thus, even when the noise of the crowd quieted, the dignity of his name remained unshaken.

The meaning of his words is therefore both heroic and practical: seek not the fleeting joy of popularity, but the enduring strength of respect. Popularity may fill the ears, but respect fills the soul. To live for popularity is to become a slave to the opinion of others, but to live for respect is to walk in freedom, knowing you have been faithful to your principles, whether or not the multitude approves.

The lesson is clear: if you would live a worthy life, pursue respect above all things. Let your deeds be guided not by what will please the crowd, but by what is right. Do not bow to the fashion of the day or sacrifice your integrity for applause. Instead, be steadfast in justice, faithful in your work, and true to your word. In time, popularity will fade like smoke, but respect will remain as iron.

What then should you do? Examine your motives. Ask yourself, “Do I act to be admired, or to be honorable?” Seek out choices that strengthen your character, even if they cost you the approval of many. Honor others, for respect is born in reciprocity; those who give respect receive it in return. And finally, live in such a way that when the noise of the crowd has long since faded, your name is still spoken with reverence.

Thus remember this: popularity is a passing shadow, but respect is a lasting flame. To live for applause is to chase the wind; to live for respect is to carve your legacy in stone. And only those who choose the greater over the lesser will walk the earth as true examples for generations to come.