I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little

I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little

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I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.

I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little

Host: The quiet hum of the café filled the space as the last remnants of daylight slipped through the window, casting soft shadows across the table. Outside, the world was in motion, people rushing home, their movements quick and purposeful. Inside, however, there was a stillness, a pause between Jack and Jeeny as they sat across from each other. The clinking of cups was the only sound that filled the space, and the air felt heavier with the weight of an unspoken question. Jeeny was the first to break the silence, her voice calm but full of curiosity.

Jeeny: “I read something by Mitch Albom recently that really made me think. He said, ‘I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.’” She paused, her gaze fixed on Jack, as though she was waiting for him to respond. “What do you think about that? Do you agree with him?”

Jack: He leaned back in his chair, a small sigh escaping his lips as he considered the words. “I think he’s got a point, but it’s hard, isn’t it? We live in a world that constantly tells us that our worth is tied to our work, our career. For most of us, it’s what defines us. So, yeah, when you get to the end of your life, it’s hard to look back and think that work was all that mattered. But to suddenly switch gears and say, ‘Now, it’s all about family and friends,’ that’s not an easy shift. It’s not that I disagree—it’s just hard to let go of the drive that makes you push for more.”

Host: The light from the streetlamps outside filtered through the window, casting long shadows across the table. The world outside seemed to be in motion, while the space inside felt heavier, filled with the gravity of their conversation. Jeeny’s eyes softened, a gentle understanding behind them as she leaned forward slightly, her voice almost a whisper.

Jeeny: “I get that, Jack. It’s not easy to change how we’ve been taught to measure success. But maybe that’s the problem—maybe we’ve been so focused on achievement, on climbing higher and higher, that we forget what truly sustains us. It’s not the awards, the titles, the accolades. It’s the people we have around us, the connections we make, the little moments of joy that we often overlook. And I think Mitch Albom is saying that when you realize you’re nearing the end, it’s those things that will have mattered most, not the hours you put in at the office.”

Jack: He paused, his fingers tapping on the edge of his coffee cup as he stared out the window. “But is it really that simple? Family, friends, community—those are great, but they don’t always pay the bills or give you a sense of accomplishment. I mean, how do you reconcile a life where you’ve given everything to your career and then suddenly realize that the things you neglected—your family, your own happiness—were what you needed all along? There’s a lot of guilt that comes with that.”

Jeeny: “I think that’s the trap, though, Jack. We get so caught up in the idea of accomplishment that we lose sight of what’s really important—living fully, in the moment, with the people who matter. I think Mitch Albom’s message is about recognizing the value in the present, in the small joys that happen every day. We’re all so busy chasing something, but what if we’re missing the point entirely? Maybe it’s not about achieving more—it’s about appreciating what we already have. It’s about balance, not sacrifice.”

Host: The silence between them stretched for a moment, the only sound now the gentle drip of a coffee pot in the corner. The weight of Jeeny’s words hung in the air, and Jack seemed to soften, the lines on his face becoming less rigid as he considered her point. Outside, the world continued on, but inside, there was a shift—a realization slowly settling in.

Jack: “I guess I’ve always been afraid of letting go of the drive. I’ve always told myself that if I stop pushing, if I stop working, I’ll lose something. Ambition, purpose—but maybe it’s all been a little misguided. Maybe it’s not about doing more, but about doing the right things, the things that truly matter. Maybe it’s okay to be less focused on what’s out there and more focused on what’s right in front of me.” He paused, his voice quieter now. “It’s not easy to change how you’ve been wired your whole life.”

Jeeny: “It’s not easy at all,” she agreed softly. “But maybe that’s the lesson Mitch Albom’s talking about. It’s never too late to shift the focus. The beauty of life isn’t in what we achieve but in who we become along the way, in the connections we make, the moments we cherish. It’s about choosing to live fully, not in the pursuit of more, but in the appreciation of the present.”

Host: The light in the café softened as the last of the evening light faded outside, and a quiet sense of peace settled in between Jack and Jeeny. The world beyond felt distant, muted by the reflection of their words. Perhaps the real lesson wasn’t in the pursuit of success, but in recognizing the joy in the moments that matter—the relationships, the quiet moments, the everyday beauty of life.

Jack: “I think I’m starting to understand,” he said quietly, a small smile tugging at the corners of his lips. “Maybe I’ve been looking for fulfillment in all the wrong places. Maybe it’s time to start appreciating the things that matter most—family, friends, and the small joys that come with just being present.”

Jeeny: She smiled, her voice gentle but filled with conviction. “Exactly. The work will always be there, Jack. But the moments, the people, they might not be. Live fully, live now.”

Host: As the evening deepened and the rain had stopped, the café seemed to grow quieter, the last flickers of conversation fading into the background. Jack and Jeeny sat in the stillness, each reflecting on the quiet shift that had happened between them. Perhaps the true measure of a life well-lived wasn’t in what you had achieved, but in how deeply you could appreciate the simple joys along the way.

Mitch Albom
Mitch Albom

American - Writer Born: May 23, 1958

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