I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I

I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I

22/09/2025
15/10/2025

I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.

I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I
I'm not going on a crusade but I'm proud of who I am. I feel I

The words of Gareth Thomas—“I’m not going on a crusade but I’m proud of who I am. I feel I have achieved everything I could ever possibly have hoped to achieve out of rugby and I did it being gay. I want to send a positive message to other gay people that they can do it, too.”—resound like the declaration of a warrior who has fought not only on the field of sport, but also within the battlefield of the soul. They are words forged in courage, for they speak of triumph not only over opponents, but over fear, shame, and the chains of silence. In them, we hear the echo of an ancient truth: that to live fully, one must live truthfully.

For in ages past, the heroes of legend fought dragons, armies, and tyrants. Yet the fiercest battle of all is the one fought within—the battle to accept oneself against the tide of a world that demands conformity. Gareth Thomas, known for his might in the realm of rugby, proved that greatness does not require hiding one’s true nature. His strength was not diminished by his identity, but magnified by his honesty. By speaking openly, he transformed his life into a beacon for others, showing that authenticity is itself a form of victory.

The ancients honored those who, by their example, gave courage to the weak. Consider the tale of Spartacus, who though a slave, dared to rise against the might of Rome. His rebellion was crushed, yet his defiance ignited hope in countless others. Thomas, too, may not seek to be a crusader, but his very presence as an openly gay champion stirs the hearts of those who feel unseen. His message is simple yet revolutionary: you can achieve your dreams without hiding who you are.

There is also in his words a deep humility. He does not claim sainthood, nor does he brandish his truth as a weapon. He says only: “I am proud of who I am.” Pride here is not arrogance, but liberation. It is the lifting of shame’s burden, the quiet dignity of one who has endured and now stands unbroken. In this, he reminds us that the truest pride is not about conquering others, but about conquering the fear that once held us captive.

History is filled with examples of men and women whose uniqueness became a source of power rather than weakness. Think of Alan Turing, who helped save civilization through his genius in deciphering codes during World War II. He, too, was gay, yet condemned by the laws of his time. Where society saw shame, we now see brilliance, sacrifice, and a hero whose difference did not prevent greatness—it was entwined with it. Gareth Thomas’s words reclaim that same truth for a new generation: what once was called weakness is in fact strength.

The lesson for us is clear: never let fear of judgment rob you of your destiny. To those who are different, whether by love, by spirit, or by mind, Thomas’s message is a call to arms: “You can do it, too.” Let his story remind you that the path to greatness is not through denial of the self, but through its embrace. Whatever field you labor in—be it sport, art, science, or love—bring your whole self to it, for only then will your victories ring true.

So let us take action. Be proud of who you are, even in the face of misunderstanding. Speak truth when silence tempts you. Live not as a shadow, but as a flame. And remember always: the world is not changed only by grand crusades, but by the steady light of individuals who choose to live authentically. In the words of Gareth Thomas, to achieve and to be yourself at the same time is the highest form of triumph—and through your triumph, you will light the way for others.

Gareth Thomas
Gareth Thomas

Welsh - Athlete Born: August 2, 1993

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TPNong Thi Thu Phuong

I feel motivated reading this, but it also prompts questions about intersectionality. Does the positive message reach everyone equally, or might some groups within the LGBTQ+ community feel less represented? How might race, socioeconomic background, or other factors influence one’s ability to achieve similar success in sports? It’s exciting to see representation, but I’m curious how inclusive his story feels to the broader LGBTQ+ population facing different obstacles.

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QDNguyen Quang Du

This statement makes me consider how visibility impacts social change. Could Gareth Thomas’ openness help reduce stigma in rugby and encourage acceptance in other traditionally conservative arenas? I also wonder whether society places too much emphasis on individual 'success stories' rather than addressing structural barriers for LGBTQ+ people. Does highlighting personal achievement risk implying that acceptance only matters if one excels in their field, rather than simply existing authentically?

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Nnguyenbatung

Reading this, I feel a mix of admiration and curiosity. I wonder what internal challenges he had to overcome—fear, self-doubt, or external prejudice? It makes me think about the psychological resilience required to thrive in a high-pressure career while navigating personal identity issues. Could sharing stories like his help normalize diversity in all competitive fields, not just sports? What are the most effective ways for public figures to send positive messages to marginalized communities?

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GNgia ngan

It makes me reflect on societal progress. If Gareth Thomas achieved everything he hoped while being openly gay, does that suggest the sports world is becoming more inclusive, or was he an exception? I’m interested in the broader implications—what systemic changes are still needed to ensure other LGBTQ+ athletes feel equally empowered? How do teammates, coaches, and fans respond to openly gay players today compared to a decade ago?

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NYNguyen Thi Nhu Y

This perspective raises an important point about representation. Seeing someone succeed at the highest level while being openly gay can be life-changing for young people struggling with acceptance. I wonder, though, how much responsibility does he feel to act as a role model? Could there be unintended pressure on him to constantly advocate for others, even if he just wants to focus on his own life and achievements?

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