It's not enough to make time for your children. There are certain
It's not enough to make time for your children. There are certain stages in their lives when you have to give them the time when they want it. You can't run your family like a company. It doesn't work.
Host: The kitchen was dimly lit, the last light of evening pouring through the blinds in golden slats. A clock ticked faintly on the wall — steady, indifferent, mechanical. The dinner dishes sat in the sink, untouched. The faint smell of tomato sauce, soap, and something unspoken filled the air.
Host: Jack sat at the kitchen table, his tie loosened, his laptop open in front of him. The glow of the screen painted his face in pale blue — the color of detachment disguised as duty. His phone buzzed every few seconds, like a heartbeat that belonged to someone else. Across from him, Jeeny leaned against the counter, her arms folded, her eyes tired but kind.
Host: Between them, printed neatly on a torn notebook page, lay the words of Andy Grove:
“It's not enough to make time for your children. There are certain stages in their lives when you have to give them the time when they want it. You can't run your family like a company. It doesn't work.”
Host: The sentence sat between them like a mirror — one that reflected both truth and guilt.
Jack: “He was right,” Jack said quietly, without looking up from the screen. “But he figured that out after the damage, didn’t he?”
Jeeny: “Most people do,” she said softly. “That’s the tragedy. Success teaches discipline, but not presence.”
Jack: “Presence,” he muttered. “That’s just another word for time, isn’t it?”
Jeeny: “No,” she said. “Time is measurable. Presence isn’t. You can sit in the same room with someone and still be a thousand miles away.”
Host: The laptop screen flickered. Jack stared at it, eyes blank. The cursor blinked — an impatient reminder that the world of productivity never sleeps.
Jack: “You know, I built everything I have for them,” he said, his voice heavy. “The hours, the projects, the sacrifices — all of it. So they’d never have to worry.”
Jeeny: “And in doing that,” she said gently, “you became the one they worried about.”
Jack: “That’s not fair.”
Jeeny: “It’s not meant to be,” she said. “Parenting isn’t an equation, Jack. It’s a rhythm. You can’t schedule love. You have to show up when the music plays — not when your calendar says you can.”
Host: He sighed deeply, rubbing his temples. The sound of his phone buzzing filled the silence — another email, another meeting, another missed heartbeat in the space between his intentions and his life.
Jack: “I always thought structure was love,” he said. “That if I kept everything in order, it would protect them.”
Jeeny: “It does,” she said softly. “Until it starts protecting you from them.”
Host: He looked up, startled. Her eyes were calm, steady, not accusing — just true.
Jack: “You think I’ve failed them?”
Jeeny: “No,” she said. “But you’re mistaking management for meaning. A company can be optimized. A family can only be held.”
Host: The clock ticked again. Time — his oldest enemy and oldest friend — stared down from the wall.
Jack: “You make it sound like I chose work over love.”
Jeeny: “No,” she said. “You chose safety. But love doesn’t live there. Love lives in chaos — in interruptions, in noise, in the messy moments that don’t make sense.”
Host: He leaned back, exhaling slowly. The weight of the day — of years — pressed against him.
Jack: “You know, Grove was a CEO. He ran one of the biggest companies in the world. If he couldn’t figure it out, what chance do the rest of us have?”
Jeeny: “He did figure it out,” she said. “That’s what this quote is — his confession. He built a machine that conquered the world, but he still learned the world doesn’t fit into a quarterly report.”
Jack: “You really think love can’t be organized?”
Jeeny: “No,” she said. “It can be tended, not managed. Like a garden. You can’t tell flowers when to bloom. You can only be there when they do.”
Host: The light outside dimmed further. The shadows stretched across the floor like the quiet hands of regret. Jack closed his laptop, slowly, deliberately.
Jack: “My son called earlier,” he said quietly. “I told him I’d call back after my meeting. That was four hours ago.”
Jeeny: “Then call him now.”
Jack: “It’s late.”
Jeeny: “So is realization,” she said. “But it’s still worth waking up for.”
Host: He hesitated — then picked up his phone. The number glowed on the screen, familiar, waiting. He pressed “call.” The ring echoed in the room like redemption in progress.
Host: While he waited, he whispered — not to Jeeny, but to himself: “I can’t run my family like a company.”
Jeeny: “No,” she said softly. “But you can run it like a heart — full of flaws, but beating.”
Host: The phone clicked. A small voice answered, sleepy but bright. Jack smiled for the first time that night.
Jack: “Hey, buddy,” he said quietly. “Yeah, I’m here. Just wanted to hear your voice.”
Host: The conversation was short, simple — but real. The kind of moment that doesn’t trend, doesn’t scale, but stays. When it ended, Jack sat back, eyes closed, the hum of the laptop replaced by silence that finally felt earned.
Host: Jeeny watched him, her expression soft. “Feels lighter, doesn’t it?”
Jack: “Yeah,” he said, voice breaking slightly. “It does.”
Host: The camera widened, framing the small kitchen bathed now in the faint glow of the moon through the blinds. On the table, Grove’s words caught the light — ink glimmering like truth rediscovered:
“It's not enough to make time for your children. There are certain stages in their lives when you have to give them the time when they want it. You can't run your family like a company. It doesn't work.”
Host: And as the scene faded to quiet, the sound of the clock softened, as if time itself had loosened its grip.
Host: Because love doesn’t live in schedules — it lives in interruptions. And the most powerful thing we can ever give isn’t time, but presence — the kind that says, “I’m here. Right now. And I’m not leaving.”
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