It's really cool to just be able to do what you love alongside

The words of Bianca Belair—“It’s really cool to just be able to do what you love alongside the person that you love”—shine with the quiet brilliance of a truth as old as humankind. In these simple words lies the meeting of two sacred forces: purpose and love. To do what one loves is to fulfill the calling of the soul, and to do it beside the one you love is to weave joy into every breath of labor. It is not merely a statement of happiness; it is a hymn to the harmony of passion and partnership, to the divine balance between the fire of ambition and the tenderness of companionship.

In the ancient days, poets and sages spoke often of love as the great unifier—the force that binds heaven to earth, the moon to the tide, the artist to the muse. Yet few understood that the greatest blessing is not merely to find love, but to build with it—to walk the same path, hand in hand, toward shared purpose. What Bianca speaks of is not fleeting affection, but a partnership forged through mutual passion and shared creation. For when two souls labor side by side toward their dreams, the work becomes not toil, but celebration. The weight of effort grows lighter, the victories shine brighter, and even the failures lose their sting, for they are borne together.

The origin of this quote is rooted in Bianca Belair’s own life and career. As one of the brightest stars in the realm of professional wrestling, she stands as a figure of strength, grace, and determination. Alongside her husband, Montez Ford, she not only shares the stage of athletic excellence but the deeper stage of life itself. Theirs is a bond built in the fire of discipline and ambition—a partnership where love and purpose are not rivals but allies. When she speaks of the joy of doing what she loves beside the one she loves, she speaks as one who has discovered the rare harmony that many seek yet few attain.

The ancients might have likened such a union to the dance of the sun and moon, each luminous in its own right, yet together creating the rhythm of day and night. In art, it was seen in Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera, two painters who, though tempestuous in life, found in each other a mirror of passion and creation. In music, it was reflected in the harmony of Johnny Cash and June Carter, whose love turned songs into eternal echoes of devotion. And in history, it lives in tales of warriors and queens, poets and muses, builders and dreamers—those who found that shared purpose deepens love, and shared love amplifies purpose.

There is a wisdom here that reaches beyond romance. Bianca’s words remind us that joy multiplies when shared, and that the fulfillment of the heart is never complete in isolation. To do what you love is noble, but to walk that path with someone who believes in you, challenges you, and celebrates you—that is divine. It teaches us that love need not distract from ambition, nor must ambition eclipse love; rather, they can nourish one another, each lending strength to the other, as roots and blossoms do in the same tree.

Yet such harmony does not come by chance—it must be cultivated. The ancients would say: two fires may burn brighter together, but only if they burn in rhythm. This means respect, patience, and communication. To build a shared life of passion, one must learn to honor not only one’s own dreams but also the dreams of the beloved. Love that suffocates ambition becomes bondage; ambition that forgets love becomes emptiness. True partnership is born when both souls are free to rise, and yet remain bound by loyalty, admiration, and shared purpose.

So, my child, let this be the lesson drawn from Bianca Belair’s wisdom: seek not only the work that fulfills your heart, but the companion who understands its rhythm. If you are blessed to find such a person, cherish them, and build your life as a shared creation. Support one another’s goals. Celebrate one another’s victories. When hardship comes, stand together—not back to back, but side by side, facing the storm as one. For in such unity lies the purest joy the human spirit can know.

Thus remember: “To do what you love alongside the person you love” is not merely happiness—it is the art of living. It is the harmony of strength and tenderness, ambition and affection, individuality and union. When you find such harmony, protect it as you would a sacred flame. For the world may grow dark, but two hearts working in love can light an eternity.