Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either

Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either

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Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.

Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either
Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either

Host:
The storm was gathering — the kind that begins not with thunder, but with silence. A muted light spilled through the tall apartment windows, pale and hesitant, illuminating the faint dust floating in the air like suspended breath.

The living room was warm, but tense. An unfinished bottle of wine sat on the coffee table beside two half-full glasses. The faint crackle of the fireplace filled the space where words should have been.

Jack stood by the window, his reflection a faint ghost against the rain-streaked glass. His jaw was tight, his grey eyes distant. Jeeny sat curled on the couch, legs tucked beneath her, holding her cup with both hands though the tea inside had long since gone cold.

The air smelled faintly of rain and something fragile — resentment, maybe, or love at its limit.

Jeeny:
(quietly, almost to herself)

“Married people should not be quick to hear what is said by either when in ill humor.”
Samuel Richardson

Host:
Her voice was soft, but it broke the silence like glass. The quote hung in the air — measured, weary, true.

Jack turned from the window, a flicker of a smirk tugging at the corner of his mouth — not arrogance, just the kind of tired irony born from too many repeated arguments.

Jack:
“Too late for that, isn’t it?”

Jeeny:
(sighing)
“Maybe. But it’s still good advice.”

Jack:
“Advice always sounds wise after the damage is done.”

Host:
The firelight painted their faces — his in shadow, hers in glow — like two halves of a confession struggling to meet.

Jeeny:
“It’s not the words that hurt, Jack. It’s how quick we are to catch them — before they’ve cooled, before they’ve been meant.”

Jack:
“Yeah, well, they sound meant when they’re sharp enough to cut.”

Jeeny:
“That’s because we only listen for pain when we’re angry. Not meaning.”

Host:
He stepped closer, but didn’t sit. His presence filled the room like a storm cloud that refused to break.

Jack:
“You think silence is better? Just swallow it all until the pressure cracks you open?”

Jeeny:
“No. I think silence is a kindness we forget to give. There’s a difference between not speaking and not wounding.”

Host:
Outside, lightning flashed — the brief white illumination catching the reflection of both their faces in the window: two expressions that were more alike than either of them would ever admit.

Jack:
“You make it sound so noble — holding back words. But what’s love without honesty?”

Jeeny:
“Honesty isn’t cruelty, Jack. Sometimes truth needs time before it can be gentle enough to be heard.”

Host:
A soft thunderclap rolled across the sky. She set her cup down, the ceramic clinking lightly against the wood — a sound small enough to seem accidental, deliberate enough to be symbolic.

Jack:
“You ever notice how people only talk about patience when they want to be forgiven?”

Jeeny:
“And people only talk about honesty when they want to be cruel.”

Host:
The air between them shimmered with heat, not from the fire, but from everything unsaid.

Jack:
“I didn’t mean what I said earlier.”

Jeeny:
“I know. I just wish you’d remembered that before you said it.”

Host:
Her tone wasn’t accusing. It was tender, tired. The kind of tone that’s closer to heartbreak than anger.

Jack:
“I don’t even remember half the words. I just remember the feeling. Like something inside me wanted to be right more than it wanted to be kind.”

Jeeny:
“That’s what ill humor does. It tricks you into thinking victory is the cure for loneliness.”

Host:
The fire popped, sending a small ember dancing upward. He finally sat down — not beside her, but close enough that the warmth from her presence reached him like forgiveness without ceremony.

Jack:
“I hate how fast I get angry. It’s like a reflex. You say something small, and suddenly I’m fighting ghosts that don’t even belong to you.”

Jeeny:
“And I hear those ghosts louder than your voice. That’s the trouble with love — we stop hearing each other and start hearing everything else.”

Host:
Her hands trembled slightly as she lifted her cup again, pretending to drink, pretending calm. Jack watched her, eyes softened now, the firelight catching the faint silver in them.

Jack:
“Maybe Richardson was right. Maybe the real test of marriage isn’t how much we love each other, but how much we can forgive the versions of ourselves that show up angry.”

Jeeny:
“Anger’s not the enemy, Jack. Forgetting tenderness is.”

Host:
The rain outside slowed, thinning into a whisper. The storm was passing, though its echo lingered in the rhythm of their breathing.

Jack:
“Do you think people can really learn that? To pause before the wound?”

Jeeny:
“I think love teaches it. Slowly. Painfully. One argument at a time.”

Jack:
(softly)
“I wish I could unhear the things we’ve said.”

Jeeny:
“You can’t. But you can learn to listen differently next time.”

Host:
The flames in the fireplace danced lower, casting long shadows that swayed and softened with each flicker. Jack leaned forward, elbows on his knees, his voice lower, trembling slightly.

Jack:
“I’m sorry.”

Jeeny:
“I know.”

Host:
And that was all it took — two words, neither dramatic nor rehearsed. The tension eased, like a knot finally loosening.

Jeeny reached out, hesitated, then placed her hand gently over his. The contact was small, but real. The room, which had felt so full of heat moments ago, now felt almost cool, calm — like the world had finally exhaled.

Jack:
“You think next time we’ll remember this?”

Jeeny:
“If we don’t, we’ll learn again.”

Host:
Her words weren’t hopeful — they were true, and that was enough.

Outside, the storm had passed. The sky beyond the glass was clearing, faint stars beginning to appear through the drifting clouds.

The fire dwindled to embers. Their faces glowed faintly in the red light — soft, imperfect, human.

And as they sat there, the quiet between them wasn’t emptiness anymore. It was peace — the kind that only follows after the wreckage, fragile but honest.

Host:
In the end, perhaps that’s what Richardson meant —
that love isn’t tested by the storms that strike,
but by how gently we learn to hear each other after the thunder has passed.

Samuel Richardson
Samuel Richardson

English - Novelist August 19, 1689 - July 4, 1761

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