No relationship is perfect and people who say they don't argue
No relationship is perfect and people who say they don't argue are either liars or biting their tongues all the time.
The words of Kym Marsh—“No relationship is perfect and people who say they don’t argue are either liars or biting their tongues all the time”—echo like a timeless admonition, reminding us that harmony is not the absence of conflict but the courage to walk through it. The ancients knew that where two souls are joined, there will be friction, for even the stars collide and yet create light.
To claim a flawless relationship is to dwell in illusion. Such a union may appear smooth, yet beneath it lies silence that festers, or tongues bound by fear. True bonds are tested in the fire of disagreement, where honesty and patience wrestle together. Without such trials, the bond is fragile, built on shadows rather than truth.
The notion of the argue is not to be feared but to be understood as the clash of differences that can forge deeper unity. The sages of old taught that iron sharpens iron; so too do hearts sharpen each other when they dare to speak openly. To deny this is to stunt growth, to dwell in pretense rather than in the sacred labor of love.
When Marsh speaks of “liars” and those “biting their tongues,” she reveals the danger of false peace. The mask of perfection hides wounds unspoken, while silence becomes a prison. Better the storm that clears the air than the stillness that suffocates. In the honesty of conflict, there is the seed of reconciliation, while in repression there is only distance.
So let this teaching be carried forward: perfection is not the mark of love, but resilience. A true relationship is not without quarrel, but endures through it. Those who learn to argue with respect and to disagree with grace will find themselves bound more strongly than those who pretend at harmony. For in truth, love is not the absence of struggle, but the triumph over it.
NNguoivotinh
Kym Marsh’s quote makes me think about how much we value harmony in relationships. It’s true that people who claim they don’t argue might just be avoiding difficult conversations. But is there a risk that avoiding arguments could lead to unresolved issues building up? How can couples find a balance between maintaining peace and addressing issues that matter? Is the goal to avoid arguing altogether, or to argue in a healthy, constructive way?
GDGold D.dragon
This quote by Kym Marsh is a reality check. While we may strive for harmony in relationships, it's normal for disagreements to arise. But what happens when someone consistently avoids conflict or refuses to express their true feelings? Does it mean they’re just 'biting their tongue,' as Marsh puts it, or are they protecting the relationship from unnecessary drama? How do we create a space where both partners feel safe to express themselves without fear of constant conflict?
UGUser Google
I completely agree with this quote. Arguments in relationships aren’t necessarily a bad thing—they can actually be an opportunity for growth. But what if one partner feels like arguments are always escalating? How do you know when an argument is healthy, and when it’s just a sign of deeper issues? Is it possible to argue without resentment, or does it always leave a lingering impact on the relationship?
VLVan Le
Kym Marsh's quote really rings true for me. No relationship is without conflict, and it’s natural to argue sometimes. But what about relationships where one partner tends to avoid conflict altogether? Does that mean they're suppressing their feelings, or is it a sign of maturity to avoid unnecessary arguments? Is it better to address issues head-on, or can some things truly be better left unsaid to maintain peace?